What are the implications to the health of a married man whose wife denials sex for over ten years. My senior brother married a lady banker in 1996 and himself is patient medicine dealer back then. During rationalisation in their bank, the wife was sacked and she came to stay with the husband in his shop. Things was moving well until the man himself went back to university to further his studies. Nigeria been what it is, after graduation over 16 years now no work. And he can't go back to his shop because the wife has claimed ownership claiming that he gave him some money during his schooling equivalent to the amount of goods when he took over the shop. Not that my broad is lazy, as a man he is doing one thing or the other to support the family at least they are not paying rent for the house they are living id their own. But the wife will claim that she provides for the family and decided that my brother cannot touch her body again until he gets a good job. This issue has been on for over 10 years the wife has not allowed her husband to make love to her.
Please mature mind here advise us on what to do as a family to tackle this problem.

Poverty is not why she doesn't give him sex.

The bitter truth is that she doesn't understand the meaning of marriage. Her wrong understanding of marriage makes her maltreat your brother because he doesn't satisfy her in bed. She gave him sex in the past either because he was providing some of her material needs or because she thought he would quickly become rich, not that she was enjoying the sex.

Since he became broke or failed to get rich as she expected, she decided to lock up. If he satisfies her in bed, she will never deny him sex. This is one thing most women hardly say out. They will just give another excuse for the action.

No wonder soap dey finish for market

immortalcrown:


. If he satisfies her in bed, she will never deny him sex. This is one thing most women hardly say out. They will just give another excuse for the action.

Old habits die hard...retired oloshós and those ones that date sugar daddies will transactionalize sex when their man is broke....

Some are just like that...its a mentality....its not even about being an ex oloshó....immediately u stop providing their needs as much as they desire they see at as a norm to deny sex for because they wont respect u anymore......and once a woman loses respect for a man...unless she wants a child... she wont let him touch her

This one is even bad considering the shop she's claiming belonged to the man.....

all these yeye women trying to emasculate these men SIMPS... but then again, if that man hasnt found a job in a whole 10yrs then something is seriously wrong with him (but still doesnt warrant the sexual starvation)

wifey should fukc this man well well so that he can wake up in the morning fresh and fit to go look for better employment, instead of having him waking up all stressed out with sex on his mind.

their gateman or driver have be doing double duties (extra bedroom duties with madam) for so long, wifey dont care any longer about the husband... oh well!

BTW there is many health implications, the biggest one being FINDING A YOUNGER/SEXIER SIDE CHIC TO QUENCH YOUR KONJI!!!!