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Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Adedaniel211(m): 8:53am On Mar 04 |
Na everybody get he own problem, abeg sir ,carry ur cross.. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Esthered: 9:30am On Mar 04 |
Acidosis: Please explain the bolded egbon. |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Acidosis(m): 9:36am On Mar 04 |
Esthered: Haha... The dictionary meaning of a bachelor is typically a man who has never been married. But I used the word in that context to mean a single man perfectly and financially suited to live independently in his own apartment or home. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Esthered: 10:39am On Mar 04 |
Acidosis: I now understand your context. I think some guys feel suited for marriage based on age which I believe the OP falls into. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by DJMix2025: 11:29am On Mar 04 |
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Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by CheedyJ(m): 11:29am On Mar 04 |
Now una dey rush marry na. It's only one's mother who can love unconditionally and it's not even All mothers sef .u never get funds una go dey marry, na wa 8 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by gift2xl: 11:30am On Mar 04 |
Let her find something doing, most of our women see marriage as were they come to relax and leave the work to the men. I have observe one wrong notion in women, when the man is alive they leave everything to the man. But once the man dies or is no more, you see them huzzling hard to train their children and put food on the table. Then I began to asked why not use that same strength when the man was alive or around to build with him rather you left the whole load for one man. 13 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by jaxin119: 11:33am On Mar 04 |
Your problem is money and to address that you have to quit that teaching job. Look for 20k and take a professional course in HSE 1,2,3. Then COOK your CV afterwards and start applying for safety officer role in medium size companies. This is a simple model of how to change your job and your life. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by StraightGaay: 11:33am On Mar 04 |
muyico:Give it time, she would soon, if you keep lazying around 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by opeekiti: 11:33am On Mar 04 |
Any love that is not fuel with money is a useless one, any marriage without money is as good as living with your known enemy. Don't take any woman as a wife if your pocket is not large, it will surely end in regret. No matter how God fearing she is, if you don't have money she will frustrate you till you die 12 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by cucumbar: 11:35am On Mar 04 |
AkporsMechanical:who say make you go marry when you are not ready? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Popeonah(m): 11:35am On Mar 04 |
You should have settled down before marriage and you married a log of wood, liability. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by EgusiSoup: 11:35am On Mar 04 |
AkporsMechanical: Marriage is not for everybody. If its not working, you both stop deceiving yourselves and officially divorce. We have more important issues to think about please. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by tonicyril: 11:36am On Mar 04 |
AkporsMechanical: Well, since u want to be a man(a simp rather) then keep absorbing whatever she throws at you till u lose ur sanity, and eventually dies. Life would surely go on with or without you 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Trustedpronet: 11:36am On Mar 04 |
muyico: You are lucky...may be you are good on bed and he is not...just thinking loud. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by sgtponzihater1(m): 11:36am On Mar 04 |
Bro try and eat, as you certainly have a cross to carry, and I am not sure how long, so please eat. Did your wife know your job before accepting to marry you? Did she meet you a millionaire? Don't let any woman gaslight you, be bold and strong, never go into argument with people who refuse to weigh the situation or reason with you. Be prayerful and ask God to make a way for you. Look out for opportunities, and keep your hands and heart clean. Pain does not last for ever. PonziHater 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Strap: 11:37am On Mar 04 |
Sir, if your wife is not engaged presently, then fine a way to get her a job first. You can't have her stay home all day and expect her to respect you with the little you're bringing home. 2. Think out of the box what you can do to add value to that your salary. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by worldclass68(m): 11:38am On Mar 04 |
Your only a private sch teacher....(almost not employed) And seems your wife dosen't work.....( u go se shege) U come be first son with siblings and even parents to cater for if the need arises.... If u have to Manage and struggle to buy TV or curtains, imagine if u have to pay rents Nah u won kill ursef...especially for this economy. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by jconsulting(f): 11:38am On Mar 04 |
AkporsMechanical: The truth is that you marry what is bigger than you, any woman that complained and insulted her husband has 100% tendencies to cheat when she cant bear it anymore, is either you please others and displeased yourself 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by maxiuc(m): 11:39am On Mar 04 |
What are you doing with a jobless wife in the first place Chai na the children you dey teach for school I dey pity |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by fineboynl(m): 11:40am On Mar 04 |
Ur problem is money and nothing else. She is not Ur problem. Go hussle hard everything will fall into play. You are living in a free house what if the owner ask you to leave there what would you do? If I dash you 10m right now all this thing you called problem will stop 9 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Angelfrost(m): 11:41am On Mar 04 |
Hard as it for me to say this, but... Your wife is right! You had absolutely no business getting married. You have just succeeded in jeopardizing your chances of growing financially by taking on a lifetime liability (low earning wife). You didn't mention kids, so I will assume the marriage is still young. Both of you might have to mutually dissolve this joke of a union, and go your separate ways while you still have some semblance of dignity, before things inevitably degenerate. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by PrinceGallant: 11:41am On Mar 04 |
muyico:You are not a man at all 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by IamAtAnger: 11:42am On Mar 04 |
Na small time remain be4 ur neighbour go begin knack her if e never dey happen sef 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Zooposki(f): 11:43am On Mar 04 |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Treasure17(m): 11:43am On Mar 04 |
With what you narrated, be prepare to see worse things from your wife and by extension she may likely cheat on you but you should also know that provision is your shield as a man. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Pat081: 11:43am On Mar 04 |
I can never do this to refuse to eat is your wife jobless or what You never told us maybe she is working or not |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Exceed15: 11:43am On Mar 04 |
Before someone make you loose your mind u'd better calm down first and have a rethink. If u developed BP and died , she will live on to. even marry another man. Do what you have the capacity to do now and leave those ones beyond ur means now. If she cannot cope abeg show her way to the door. Don't die foolishly. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Emmanuel30a2: 11:43am On Mar 04 |
I know of a river or of many rivers, where jennifer&christopher can jumps to... Jennifer&christopher who are lovers and have no silvers, can jump into a river... They can also goes to lucifer for silver, since they have salivas&livers... Eat your salivas and livers... Eat livers&salivas... Carry your livers&salivas to lucifer, so he can gives you silver... But knows that, silver and gold belongs to GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST... You would suffers and shivers..., you would have yellow fever&fever-if you gives your salivas&livers to lucifer because of silver... So, jump into a river if as a lover-you don't have anything/something to offer... |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by MEGAWATCH: 11:45am On Mar 04 |
muyico: You are a man, God bless you. |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by newoffer: 11:46am On Mar 04 |
U think marriage na joke. Why marry if u don't have lots of side hustles. More money makes marriage looks romantic PastorOlokonla: 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Angelfrost(m): 11:47am On Mar 04 |
Esthered: That's a retarded African way of thinking that should have been abolished at the turn of the century. Under today's economic realities, age should be the least consideration for marriage for men... For women, yes, since they will mostly be dependants not breadwinners. That's where I respect most Igbo guys... If you like be 45, if pepper never rest, marriage is not happening for most guys. 6 Likes 1 Share |
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