Dyfynezz12:

Yea,experience is the best teacher
Nd Most times u learn thru dey hard way

Exactly 💯

1. The point of having a high quality boundaries is to avoid low quality problems from low quality people. If you dine with pigs, expect your home to be full of shit.

2. Don’t confuse material development with self development. Personal development enlarged your pocket, but self development sophisticate your character.

3. Forgiveness after betrayal you may do, but acceptance after betrayal is foolishness and self-hate. Too risky.

4. No one runs far with other people’s legs. The more you equip yourself with knowledge, the more you win in the battle of life.

5. In any deals, relationship or whatever you’re entering, examine what the other person will loose if things goes bad. If you’re the only one that will loose, don’t enter such deals. To hell with your feelings.

6. Know the differences between substance and numbers (zero people). For example, if there are ten lions and ten goats versus ten tigers and ten chickens, in reality, the war is only between the lions and the tigers.

The goats and chickens are distractions, and their absence has more value than their presence in that fight.

7. More on point 6, If you’re the only one in your friend circle that carries the weight of the rest, then you’re only in friendship with yourself. Numbers means nothing. Goes for relationship too.

Also if your friends always lie, manipulate and playing on your intelligence, you’re only in friendship with yourself. Ability establishes a person, but mere presence is a as good as zero. Cut zero people off, otherwise, you’ll carry their weight either financially or mentally.

8. If you’re the one that most people don’t like picking his call, then it’s your fault. To know if you’re a liability, ask yourself how often do you give and help others. Being a habitual receiver makes you disposable.

9 winning the world is easy, if you’ve defeated yourself. Imagine being a millionaire and a philanderer, and any girl with evil intention can put you in her payroll for life because you can’t control your deek. Or being poisoned because you drink too much.

A predator attacked the weak first. You couldn’t defeat your vices hence, the enemy recruited it to attack you. Know your weakness, fight it, that way, you defeat the world.

10. Be grounded. For example, you can always get help from your enemies because they have more to prove. An idiot that is a customer is useful. A criminal should not be punished, unless you’ve learnt all his operations, and probably rehabilitate him to work for you.

You can always learn from a manipulator if you just play along and let them expose all their tricks. In any case, make sure you’re not a victim.

T0BY:
Even with all these information, some guys will still learn lesson the hard way.. that's how some people are wired. Experience will do the needful.

Good writeup though.

The information is too generic

Sounds like motivational speaker stuff

No details on how to be health conscious of how the speaker became health conscious

UnemployedGradu:
Wife doesn't matter! Just look for a rich man's daughter to pregnant. Dress cute always, avoid staying indoors.

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Thank you you sir.
Where do I find rich men daughter in PH

UpTown001:
I'm 29 and I wish I never met women especially that favor girl, I was never favoured

, I wish I never got into gambling... It is well though.

I just got into Crypto trading , free minning of Crypto assets and investments. And it has been beautiful.
DM me if u want to be part.

how do we connect?

NPFLADMIN:
Coincidentaly I'm 19.
Thanks for the advice.

But you see that source of income and that health consciousness, e no easy.

Since 2023, I've been looking something to do online but no result.

Amazon KDP, upwork, crypto, youtube, e.t.c

All to no avail.

Every single person I meet will tell me to bring capital.
Me wey no get nada.

Worse still, I'm to scared/shy to ask from others that even I hate it.

Na only NL you fit see me posting account number cause I don't know anyone in real life here.

I should have just learnt barbing late last year while waiting for admission but mumu me go waste chance.

And I always stress myself with treaking and thinking of the future, family issues and so on that I'm always tired at the end of the day.

currently preparing for Jamb

You are extremely lucky you are 19/20.

Focus on self growth and development, learn as many skills as you can learn, it's now you will have the time.

Draw closer to God and make Jesus Christ your Lord.

Avoid Religion like a plague.

Read, Read, Read as much books as you can.

Invest heavily in knowledge. Money comes and goes but knowledge would remain with you forever and you can use knowledge to create wealth.

Thank you so much

Sirchiboy:
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Thank you you sir.
Where do I find rich men daughter in PH

Trans Amadi avenue.

Anonimoux:

You are extremely lucky you are 19/20.

Focus on self growth and development, learn as many skills as you can learn, it's now you will have the time.

Draw closer to God and make Jesus Christ your Lord.

Avoid Religion like a plague.

Read, Read, Read as much books as you can.

Invest heavily in knowledge. Money comes and goes but knowledge would remain with you forever and you can use knowledge to create wealth.

Sometimes I wish I knew all these when I was young and still have enough time I would have seek for knowledge especially in terms of reading. I'll make sure my kids don't make such mistake. Knowledge is POWER.

Don't do drugs.

DrFunmisticGlow:
You forgot to add. Get a vasectomy if you know you are going to be a dine and dash father.

Why is it that when men have custody of the kids he doesn't ask the woman of child support but if it's the other way round she must ask for child support? If you think this statement is just only about child support then you need an upgrade to your frontal lobe.

NPFLADMIN:
Coincidentaly I'm 19.
Thanks for the advice.

But you see that source of income and that health consciousness, e no easy.

Since 2023, I've been looking something to do online but no result.

Amazon KDP, upwork, crypto, youtube, e.t.c

All to no avail.

Every single person I meet will tell me to bring capital.
Me wey no get nada.

Worse still, I'm to scared/shy to ask from others that even I hate it.

Na only NL you fit see me posting account number cause I don't know anyone in real life here.

I should have just learnt barbing late last year while waiting for admission but mumu me go waste chance.

And I always stress myself with treaking and thinking of the future, family issues and so on that I'm always tired at the end of the day.

currently preparing for Jamb

While waiting for your jamb exams, I'll advise you to learn a skill ASAP. Learn that barbing, learn how to repair phones, there's so much money in this phone repairs. Dude in all you do, learn a skill! It'll help you in the future

[quote author=NPFLADMIN post=128820736]Coincidentaly I'm 19.
Thanks for the advice.

But you see that source of income and that health consciousness, e no easy.

Since 2023, I've been looking something to do online but no result.

Amazon KDP, upwork, crypto, youtube, e.t.c

All to no avail.

Every single person I meet will tell me to bring capital.
Me wey no get nada.

Worse still, I'm to scared/shy to ask from others that even I hate it.

Na only NL you fit see me posting account number cause I don't know anyone in real life here.

I should have just learnt barbing late last year while waiting for admission but mumu me go waste chance.

And I always stress myself with treaking and thinking of the future, family issues and so on that I'm always tired at the end of the day.

currently preparing for Jamb
Guy is not too late for you to learn something.....I learnt Barbering work at 22, now have opened my shop

NPFLADMIN:
Coincidentaly I'm 19.
Thanks for the advice.

But you see that source of income and that health consciousness, e no easy.

Since 2023, I've been looking something to do online but no result.

Amazon KDP, upwork, crypto, youtube, e.t.c

All to no avail.

Every single person I meet will tell me to bring capital.
Me wey no get nada.

Worse still, I'm to scared/shy to ask from others that even I hate it.

Na only NL you fit see me posting account number cause I don't know anyone in real life here.

I should have just learnt barbing late last year while waiting for admission but mumu me go waste chance.

And I always stress myself with treaking and thinking of the future, family issues and so on that I'm always tired at the end of the day.

currently preparing for Jamb

I can relate bro, how far have you prepare for jamb?

UpTown001:
I'm 29 and I wish I never met women especially that favor girl, I was never favoured

, I wish I never got into gambling... It is well though.

I just got into Crypto trading , free minning of Crypto assets and investments. And it has been beautiful.
DM me if u want to be part.

Share me links about minning app?

Sirchiboy:
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I am 40, no job, no wife.

Having no wife is somehow understandable in naija's economy but having no job at 40 is truly weird to me😳😳

So how do you feed and pay your bills sir??🙄

Please try and get any job around you no matter how small and look for a wife to support you... You need to start a family now and hustle together with your wife.

Coldkev17:
I can relate bro, how far have you prepare for jamb?

Still preparing

All this advice no credit alert is nothing

Learn a valuable skill, please learn a skill, its very important

Biggie225:
1.Hustle hard and be productive in life.



Try to be patient, take life easy . There is light at the end of the tunnel.

Consider learning barbing,

GoodSpirit:


Why is it that when men have custody of the kids he doesn't ask the woman of child support but if it's the other way round she must ask for child support? If you think this statement is just only about child support then you need an upgrade to your frontal lobe.

because the man in most cases has women in his life who will look after the child for him e.g his mother, sister, girlfriend. He will not be told to stop his career or denied opportunities at work because he is a single dad. His body won't take damage giving birth

UpTown001:
I'm 29 and I wish I never met women especially that favor girl, I was never favoured

, I wish I never got into gambling... It is well though.

I just got into Crypto trading , free minning of Crypto assets and investments. And it has been beautiful.
DM me if u want to be part.

I sent a Dm, please respond.

U are so wrong. Very wrong.
What do u understand by the word "child"?

A 19yr old is inexperience and immature to informations about life. He can if he has a guardian dat worked hard for him by providing information to the young lad. But which nigeria papa fit do dat one?

A 19yr old is a child. A young adult.
19-23- young adult.
24 upwards- full blown adult.

But mind u, the diffirence is how early u get quality informations dat will shape ur life. So even a 40yrs old can still be behaving like a child, though a adult.

Tankz

MrBrownJay1:
you mean YOUNG ADULTS right? a 19yr old is certainly NOT a child any longer.