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Can't Be Trusted Around Each Other by jezuzboi(m): 9:01am On Mar 08
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It’s a disgusting behaviour to look down on people but suddenly change when you find out they have money.

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Ex-husbands, looking down on their ex-wives before their divorce on account of their ex-wives having fallen on hard times, denied them access to their trust fund to entrap them in a moneyless economy. From then on their relationship ceased to get off the ground, & all the ex-wives could do was dodge their ex-husbands’ calls while talking to divorce attorneys. That shows the severity of the situation their ex-husbands had plunged them into, hence their divorce. But in spite of what their ex-husbands did, they managed to move on & turned out huge successes.

It wasn't long before those ex-husbands of theirs, having become cashless & jobless, got on their ex-wives asses as if their ex-wives owed them something. One would expect that the women, having been so meanly ill-treated by their ex-husbands, would turn deaf ears to the men's plea for a second chance. Ironically, the now elite women, though doubting the genuineness of the men's motives in asking for a second chance, shockingly put forward that, "in truth, the only thing more attractive than men married to their jobs are unemployed ex-husbands begging for second chances."

Now, an old American proverb has it that—if you want to con someone, you must first get them to trust you...or at least feel superior to you. That would make such persons to let down their guard. These same women had accounted of the men as having been helplessly anti-seductive envious souls who deliberately refused to acknowledge their individual qualities & had become closer sadists whose bitterness had those ex-husbands only wanting to torture them with unreachable goals. So, how did the only thing more attractive to the women than men married to their jobs become unemployed ex-husbands begging for second chances?

Could it have had a thing to do with the old American proverb that says that if you want to con someone, you must first get them to trust you...or at least feel superior to you?" Which makes them let down their guard & become so trusting? Bringing that American proverb to mind, an accompanying admonition to keep potential preys on the safe side had been: "so trust & feel superior to none...feel obligated & indebted to none either." Narrowing it to women who are more likely to fall prey to such antics, a further admonition had been:

"once a woman’s attention is fixed on a man, it becomes easy for him to dominate & pull an emotional con on her because she trusts him, feels superior to him, hence letting down her guard. To make no room for an opportunity where such antics can be pulled by such men, neither trust nor feel superior nor feel obligated to them." But what did the women do? It wasn't accounted whether or not they went on to open themselves up to their unemployed ex-husbands, having considered their plea for a second chance more attractive than men married to their jobs.

So, inasmuch as it is a disgusting behavior to look down on people but suddenly curry favor with them when they become rich, what's to make of those who—having been looked down on, get rich & readily open up to the ones who looked down on them?...trusting them?...even feeling superior to them by reason of having gotten ahead of them on the financial ladder?...not to mention feeling obligated to them for any reason whatsoever?...failing to bear in mind that they could merely be leveraging the old American proverb to pull some sort of con?

So it goes beyond those with the disgusting behavior of looking down on people—only to change their attitude towards those people when those people become rich...to those people letting them get around doing that. So, what to do in such cases? Since such persons, with their disgusting behavior, prove that they can't be trusted to stick around when the going gets tough, also prove to them beyond reasonable doubt that you can't be trusted to let them come around when the going gets easy. In order words, both you & them can’t trust yourselves to be anywhere near each other. Shikena!
Re: Can't Be Trusted Around Each Other by jezuzboi(m): 1:58pm On Mar 13
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