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Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Draslo(m): 1:46pm On Mar 08
I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by thesicilian: 1:48pm On Mar 08
There's nothing wrong with a little porn. Just like a little wine. The key is to have self discipline, so you don't get addicted

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Draslo(m): 1:53pm On Mar 08
thesicilian:
There's nothing wrong with a little porn. Just like a little wine. The key is to have self discipline, so you don't get addicted
This is how they make you feel. But you ssef know say if you combine all the porn you've watched in your life, it's more than movies you've seen. You can watch a movie twice or thrice but you will hardly ever watch the same porn twice or thrice.
That little porn is what you use to whine yourself. If you have unlimited Internet monthly, e go shock you say in that space of time, you will consume almost 1TB of just a little porn

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by LagosG: 2:01pm On Mar 08
You no lie bro. I said something about this instant gratification the other time. You train your brain for long enough, you will find it hard to have the patience for delayed gratification. That's why people do drugs, gamble, rape, steal, murder etc. It's almost always instant gratification that will lead you to these vices. Nothing sweet pass instant gratification. Let me give an example. Some people will rather stick to the possibility of winning ₦60 million with a ₦100 stake in one weekend than plan and execute a career for a decade to reach ₦60 million in savings.

Omo being a human is hard.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by limcar: 2:02pm On Mar 08
Draslo:

This is how they make you feel. But you ssef know say if you combine all the porn you've watched in your life, it's more than movies you've seen. You can watch a movie twice or thrice but you will hardly ever watch the same porn twice or thrice.
That little porn is what you use to whine yourself. If you have unlimited Internet monthly, e go shock you say in that space of time, you will consume almost 1TB of just a little porn
go and sleep. porn this porn that yet you know all the styles and how many times a woman climaxes. fucking hypocrite

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Draslo(m): 2:42pm On Mar 08
limcar:
go and sleep. porn this porn that yet you know all the styles and how many times a woman climaxes. fucking hypocrite
I don't think there's anywhere I said I was innocent or a Saint. If you're frustrated, tackle whatever is frustrating you in real life bro. Be a man.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by rocknation62(m): 2:55pm On Mar 08
P0rn is very addictive once you engage yourself in such act you find it so difficult to quit just like drugs & gambling.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by eazzzy1(m): 3:25pm On Mar 08
1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Draslo(m): 3:46pm On Mar 08
eazzzy1:
1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.
You suppose go submit application for the marketing section of XVideos

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Feldie: 4:05pm On Mar 08
I was unable to get the point you were trying to make. Men used to marry 10 wives and have concubines, that's no longer possible. Would you rather the man spend most of his time trying to have sex with his wife or girlfriend and become a woman wrapper or sleep with different women who are probably filled to the brim of their vagina holes with different sorts of diseases? It's better he masturbates. I do feel those onlyfans subscribers are weird though. You don't really have any reason to pay for nudity.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by bigdammyj: 4:39pm On Mar 08
Reading...

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by wittywriter: 4:40pm On Mar 08
LagosG:
You no lie bro. I said something about this instant gratification the other day. You train your brain for long enough, you will find it hard to have the patience for delayed gratification. That's why people do drugs, gamble, rape, steal, murder etc. It's almost always instant gratification that will lead you to these vices. Nothing sweet pass instant gratification. Let me give an example. Some people will rather stick on the possibility of winning ₦60 million with a ₦100 stake in one weekend than plan and execute a career for a decade to reach ₦60 million in savings.

Omo being a human is hard.

bigdammyj:
Reading...



Wittyness.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by inoki247: 4:40pm On Mar 08
Lol why men alone....


So he dey mak woman life better...


Have never seen anyone been Jailed for watching Porn so far no be underage own u dey watch....

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by LegendHero(m): 4:41pm On Mar 08
Nonsense!

Porn is not ruining anybody life. I don’t know where you guys got this fake narrative from.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Rebuker(m): 4:41pm On Mar 08
Never allow your erection to determine your direction grin grin

Get busy, find something doing; joblessness is a licence to a lot of nonsense.



Meanwhile, A.J Vs Francis fight tonight: who are you expecting to win?

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Robertgreene1(m): 4:41pm On Mar 08
This girl just shut d fvck up abeg...is it your porn?...is it your masturbation?...is it your life?
Posting long Epistles about what another human being chooses to do with his life shows how idle you are....
As long as one's actions dosen't negatively affect other people like murder... stealing...rape...scamming...etc...then you have no right whatsoever to judge what that person decides to do with his life that gives him joy and satisfaction!
As a man, watching Porn and then masturbating than spending ur valuable time to beg and still pay those useless girls for a few minutes fvck that they will even still enjoy pass you sef...which one is less stressful...time and money saving?
If porn and masturbation eventually leads to my not satisfying a woman in bed in the future...so fvcking be it!!! I only care about satisfying my self! Why must we men live to satisfy women all our lives sef?
You satisfy them financially (this one needs no explanation whatsoever)
You satisfy them emotionally (by giving them ur undivided attention and valuable time)
You satisfy them Physically ( by protecting them and fighting for them)
You also satisfy them sexually!
To really gain what!!!
And they will still pay you back with cheatings...unnecessary and annoying dramas...frustrations... and endless billings...
That's why l called you a girl masquerading as a man to post this rubbish...cus you girls never like competition...you people will forever want men to be under your yokes and manipulations just cus of that smelly hole in between your legs...
As a man... before you make any promise to a girl or send that money to a girl or generally SIMP for a girl...just watch porn and masturbate once and ur eyes go clear!!!
Very simple and short!

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by porthouse7(f): 4:42pm On Mar 08
Watching porn and masturbating is the best discovery by men, just do it moderately once or twice in a week is fine

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by amnesty7: 4:45pm On Mar 08
This one too is surely a subtle but clearly paid advert from the evil apps mentioned in the thread.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by nony43(m): 4:45pm On Mar 08
Porn is actually the best movie to watch, no quarrels, no shootings , you will understand the movie anywhere you starts and everyone is always happy.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by saasala(m): 4:45pm On Mar 08
Do people still watch porn and masturbate?

When I read things like this, the only that comes to my mind is "Joblessness" or "Idleness"

There is no way your mind is occupied with productive things and still have time to watch porn or masturbate.

An idle mind is the devil's......(Complete the rest).

And you also need to have a partner. If you need to have sex, call your partner.

You cant be busy with something and have a partner and still watch porn and masturbate

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by emkz: 4:45pm On Mar 08
Draslo:
I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing [b]men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.[/b]

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.

Can you supply statistics to support your claim that men are at their lowest? While your writing seems compelling, you did not supply enough scientific evidence to back up your claim. For example, you claim that "a lot of you are porn addicts", and you know this how? Do you realize addiction is a psychiatric issue? If you now know this, do you realize that saying people are porn addicts is equivalent to saying they are mentally deranged?

Many studies have attempted to find a link between masturbation, pornography, depression and extreme sexual behaviour. Some have tried and failed to establish the harmful effects of porn and masturbation. Infact, there have been arguments that masturbation improves moods and confidence, while a couple watching pornography together seem to enjoy a healthier sexual relationship.

Please check the article below from which I extract a quote from the abstract:
Pornography use has become increasingly common. Studies have shown that individuals who use sexually explicit materials (SEMs) report negative effects (Schneider, 2000b). However, Bridges (2008b) found that couples who use SEM together have higher relationship satisfaction than those who use SEM independently. A further investigation into various types of SEM use in relationships may highlight how SEM is related to various areas of couple satisfaction. Thus, the purpose of the current study is to examine the impact of SEM use related to different relationship dynamics....Also, individuals who only viewed SEM with their partner reported as increased sexual satisfaction and dedication to their partner as compared to non-users. For example, couples, who reported sharing SEM, endorsed significantly higher scores of relationship and sexual satisfactions than couples who did not use SEM together (Bridges, 2008b).
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5370376/

It is a complicated subject and it needs to be approached from more psychological, psychotherapeutic and psychomechanical perspectives. That way, the dangers can be better articulated.

For example, rape in India is rampart, and India ranks among one of the top ten countries in the global consumption of pornography, not in terms of numbers, but percentage:

1. Pakistan

2. Egypt

3. Vietnam

4. Iran

5. Morocco

6. India

7. Saudi Arabia

8. Turkey

9. The Philippines

10. Poland
https://www.snl24.com/dailysun/lifestyle/top-10-countries-that-watch-the-most-porn-20220715

You can also see that some of the consumers are in countries where such acts are explicitly forbidden.

So what I am even more curious about are:

1. why do people watch pornography and masturbate?
2. how has masturbation affected our society?

We can draw several examples to address point 2, but it would be nice to use these as launchpads to have a conversation so as not to fall into the trap of a generalized conclusion.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Roger3D(m): 4:45pm On Mar 08
Porn is actually helping men out in these harsh economic times- The Vaseline and the hand are free. Shout out to the whole crew grin

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by GodHimself: 4:45pm On Mar 08
Facts.

It’s tough, this war on men. The strange woman is now accessible with a mouse click.

Sexual energy is being harvested; precious life force wasted; prefrontal cortex blown out.

Ambition, drive, focus, strength, self Control drained in huge volumes daily.

Draslo:
I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Olatundex22(m): 4:46pm On Mar 08
Man 🧍‍♂️ third leg get his own mind. Says by 2face, make i stop here

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Negroid001(m): 4:46pm On Mar 08
In a country where sexual education isn't discussed at home. Almost everyone from my generation got to know more about sex from porn.
We seldom discuss sex in our homes.
We have morals grin, yet Nigeria is the most populated African country. That should tell you a lot of sex is going on. We just seem to hypocritical about it. Our entitled women aren't helping matters either.

Same with religion, everywhere church and mosque but na we corrupt pass.

If you have a better alternative for sex education. Bring it up. And be realistic, will it work?

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Cheapgadget(f): 4:47pm On Mar 08
It's been almost 3 months I quit that shlt

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by obinna58(m): 4:47pm On Mar 08
Porn and masturbation has always been the savior of humanity

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by slaawomirr: 4:47pm On Mar 08
Damnnn niggar

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by ednut1(m): 4:48pm On Mar 08
Without porn there will more rape cases and angry men. Rest

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