Hello everyone on nairaland.

I am a young guy in my mid 20s and finding it hard to attract beautiful ladies. In fact, I'm not attracting anyone.

It brings the question,
Does it get better after being successful and stable financially? Will the beautiful ladies come after the glow or am I doomed for life?

This shit is definitely stressing me out. This past days, I have been desiring having a beautiful lady I can call Loml.

Guys in my shoes, how are you fairing?



#Chronicles_of_a_broke_lonely_dude.

Alearna:
Hello everyone on nairaland.

I am a young guy in my mid 20s and finding it hard to attract beautiful ladies. In fact, I'm not attracting anyone.

It brings the question,
Does it get better after being successful and stable financially? Will the beautiful ladies come after the glow or am I doomed for life?

This shit is definitely stressing me out. This past days, I have been desiring having a beautiful lady I can call Loml.

Guys in my shoes, how are you fairing?



#Chronicles_of_a_broke_lonely_dude.

There are no true successful men on nairaland.

Why don't you focus on achieving your goals first. Redpillers will come and deceive you to hate women but please don't fall for it

There are levels to success. A student with good grades is successful and bound to attract ladies in his cycle. A corp member who happens to serve in a good organization is successful and will get women on his level.

You can have success with women through your looks, height, intelligence, personality etc. I had my first girlfriend at 13 when all I had was sportin waves, a face towel and #70 lunch money.

Money only makes it easier when you already know how to get girls.

here are some facts of life:
- not all men can attract beautiful ladies
- some men have absolutely no skills/character/appeal, thus wont attract anyone (let alone the top women out there)
- sometimes to get the proper skills/mindset to attract the top women, you need to get experience with the "not so top" ones FIRST
- money has absolutely NO IMPACT on the type of women you get, unless you are going after useless good for nothing goldigging pay-as-you-go oloshos
- getting a woman is ONE thing, keeping her is another... if you think that money/gifts etc is what would keep a woman genuinely wanting to be with you, then you best wake up
- the fact that you are even stressing about the issue shows us your desperate state of mind. relax, enjoy life, have fun and stop thinking so much about it. just be the best you can be and let it all flow
- if you are already successful, and you believe it, then a woman is only gonna be an accessory to your success. dont make them a necessity to your success.
- a woman who didnt value you when she thought you were broke, has no business being in your life if you suddenly show her that you have money