As a young man growing up in Nigeria, I always thought I had my life planned out. I had dreams of pursuing a successful career, building a home, and starting a family—but all in due time. However, life has a funny way of throwing unexpected curveballs our way, and I found myself facing a challenge I never anticipated: an unwanted pregnancy.

It all started during one of those carefree nights out with friends. We laughed, joked, and perhaps indulged a bit too much in the revelry of the moment. In the haze of the festivities, I made a mistake—a mistake that would change my life forever. I had unprotected intercourse with a woman whose name I barely remembered the next morning.

Weeks went by, and life carried on as usual—or so I thought. It wasn't until I received a frantic phone call from the woman I had been with that I realized the gravity of the situation. She was pregnant, and she claimed I was the father. Shock, fear, and disbelief flooded my mind as I grappled with the sudden reality of impending fatherhood.

In a society where traditional values and expectations weigh heavily on the shoulders of men, the news of an unwanted pregnancy felt like a heavy burden. I was torn between the fear of societal judgment and the moral responsibility to own up to my actions. How could I face my family, my friends, and my community with this unexpected news?

But as the days passed and the reality of the situation sank in, I knew I couldn't run away from my responsibilities. I couldn't turn my back on the woman who was carrying my child, no matter how daunting the prospect of parenthood seemed. Deep down, I knew that I had to step up and do what was right, regardless of the challenges ahead.

So, I took a deep breath and made the decision to confront the situation head-on. I reached out to the woman, and together, we sought guidance and support from trusted family members and community leaders. We discussed our options, weighed the consequences, and ultimately decided to embrace the unexpected journey of parenthood together.

It wasn't easy. There were moments of doubt, fear, and uncertainty along the way. But with the love and support of our families, we navigated through the challenges and emerged stronger than ever before. And when our child was born—a beautiful, precious gift that brought light into our lives—we knew that our decision to embrace parenthood was the right one.

In the end, facing an unwanted pregnancy taught me an invaluable lesson about responsibility, courage, and the power of love. It reminded me that life doesn't always go according to plan, but it's how we respond to the unexpected twists and turns that define who we are. And as I held my newborn child in my arms, I knew that the journey of fatherhood was a blessing worth cherishing, no matter how it began.

Dey play, as a single guy, if you want to have sxx with a vvoman strap up.. Or else you will face the great Tinubulation..
I hate that pregnancy stuff,chaiii

Oga the pregnancy wants you.

I don't really care how old you were, but I can say for sure that you acted responsibly. You did well by embracing the responsibilities that come with being a parent. Many a man would have denied or worse, rejected the pregnancy. If we had more men like you, the World would have fewer kids without parents, wrecking havoc everywhere they go. Kudos to you. The importance of a father figure in a child's life can never be over emphasized.

as a woman we are not protected am not getting intimate, apart from pregnancy I fear STD

Adamjc:
Baba for this economy omo na to find solution oo before things go out of hands

so you suggest I terminate it ?

VeryWickedMan:
Oga the pregnancy wants you.

annford:
I don't really care how old you were, but I can say for sure that you acted responsibly. You did well by embracing the responsibilities that come with being a parent. Many a man would have denied or worse, rejected the pregnancy. If we had more men like you, the World would have fewer kids without parents, wrecking havoc everywhere they go. Kudos to you. The importance of a father figure in a child's life can never be over emphasized.

I am 23 years old and thank you

if she had sex with you (a stranger) unprotected then how many other dudes also had sex with her unprotected? you shouldnt have automatically assume responsibility of the child until a prenatal paternity test confirmed that you were indeed the father.

in this day and age, accepting the responsibility of a pregnancy, just because a girl says you are the father, is INSANE.

Nice one
Ao are you finally going to settle with the lady in question?
How were you able to come to term that the pregnancy was really yours?
And why did you take full responsibility since rarely known the lady's name?


Please rephrase your topic
How you(I) were (was) able handle unwanted... or something

MrBrownJay1:
if she had sex with you (a stranger) unprotected then how many other dudes also had sex with her unprotected? you shouldnt have automatically assume responsibility of the child until a prenatal paternity test confirmed that you were indeed the father.

in this day and age, accepting the responsibility of a pregnancy, just because a girl says you are the father, is INSANE.

so because you guys did it the first day you think she is a slot and might pin the child on him

Asavivian:
so because you guys did it the first day you think she is a slot and might pin the child on him

not at all but you must therefore make sure that you are indeed responsible for the pregnancy... as there is a high possibility that others also had unprotected sex with her.

NO man should assume responsibility of a pregnancy until he can confirm 110% certain that he is the father.

MrBrownJay1:


not at all but you must therefore make sure that you are indeed responsible for the pregnancy... as there is a high possibility that others also had unprotected sex with her.

NO man should assume responsibility of a pregnancy until he can confirm 110% certain that he is the father.

these current generation of men and always assuming the worst of every lady you easily got access to her body

Asavivian:

so because you guys did it the first day you think she is a slot and might pin the child on him

Forget that thing.. most of them don Bleep almost all the guys on their contact for one or two favors..Some do it when they visit,just as frds,no attachment. Call girl will tell u ,go raw when e don enter her body. When you ask if its safe? She go say yes,that you are the only person she is giving that privilege cux you are good . Meanwhile she doesn’t even know your health status o.. I am sure she will still meet more guys that are good when she go still allow raw.. Guys be careful o.. don’t trust anything that comes out of their mouth o. And finally , don’t let their yash ,fine body and bowest deceive you o..

Asavivian:
these current generation of men and always assuming the worst of every lady you easily got access to her body

so should men believe anything that comes out of the mouth of a woman they barely know, who was quick to have unprotected sex with them?! look around you and understand that in today's world, NOBODY should assume the paternity of a child until it is confirmed by DNA testing that he is the father. too many men are raising (or have raised) bastard children, that they later realized was not theirs.

why would any woman see anything wrong with confirming who the father of her unborn child is?!

The truth is that your baby Mama is a kpekus distributor. The same way she gave u a stranger the kpekus that is how she has been giving the kpekus to others.

Just like as she called you about the pregnancy that was how she has called other guys that she has distributed the kpekus to same period with you

But for the fact that you are the weak one, you accepted the pregnancy. Without missing words, you are currently fathering another man's child. Kindly prepare to father more children that are not yours.

I wish I know the girl, I would have invited her for some knacking, after that will pass her to my other niggas in the street for more knacking.

Trying to convert a community property to a personal property is always a big problem.

MrBrownJay1:


so should men believe anything that comes out of the mouth of a woman they barely know, who was quick to have unprotected sex with them?! look around you and understand that in today's world, NOBODY should assume the paternity of a child until it is confirmed by DNA testing that he is the father. too many men are raising (or have raised) bastard children, that they later realized was not theirs.

why would any woman see anything wrong with confirming who the father of her unborn child is?!

do you know we woman go thru cause the guy rejected the pregnancy

Savedday2:
The truth is that your baby Mama is a kpekus distributor. The same way she gave u a stranger the kpekus that is how she has been giving the kpekus to others.

Just like as she called you about the pregnancy that was how she has called other guys that she has distributed the kpekus to same period with you

But for the fact that you are the weak one, you accepted the pregnancy. Without missing words, you are currently fathering another man's child. Kindly prepare to father more children that are not yours.

I wish I know the girl, I would have invited her for some knacking, after that will pass her to my other niggas in the street for more knacking.

Trying to convert a community property to a personal property is always a big problem.

brother if she dope wella invite me for party

Nobody even noticed that the young man who thought he had his life planned out used chatgpt to properly 'plan' this article.

Asavivian:
do you know we woman go thru cause the guy rejected the pregnancy

do you know what men go through when they realize after a few yrs (or even few months) that the child that they thought was theirs, is not theirs? why should it be a problem for women to make sure that they confirm who the child father is?

BTW a man that asks for confirmation that he is indeed responsible for your pregnancy (after you guys had unprotected sex but didnt know each other) is NOT rejection... its just to make sure that they are not being taken for a ride.

asking for a DNA test is like saying:" i may be the father but want to make sure 110% that i am, before investing time/energy and money into this pregnancy"....rejecting the pregnancy is like saying:" i am not the father of that child!"

You sure say na u get am?

Stop fornication stop fornication they'll not hear. Unwanted pregnancy everywhere. Shamelessness on point. Imagine a child growing up and realising that he/she was an unwanted pregnancy or bastards.

How is it so difficult for you as a woman to close your legs and only open it when legally married? You go about blaming guys for your wayward behaviour, if you close your legs and maintain discipline will the man come and force it open?