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Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Odebayo4010(m): 2:10pm On Mar 21
If you choose a working woman, you have to accept that she can't handle the house full time.
If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and manage the home completely, you need to accept that she doesn't make money.
If you choose a submissive woman, you must accept that she depends on you.
If you choose to be with a brave woman, you must accept that she is tough and has thoughts of her own.
If you choose a beautiful woman, you have to
accept expenses too.
If you choose to be with a great woman, you must accept that she is tough and firm.

No one is perfect.
A woman has her own ′′ good thing ′′ that defines who she is and makes her unique.

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Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by MrCork: 2:13pm On Mar 21
Odebayo4010:
If you choose a working woman, you have to accept that she can't handle the house full time.
If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and manage the home completely, you need to accept that she doesn't make money.
If you choose a submissive woman, you must accept that she depends on you.
If you choose to be with a brave woman, you must accept that she is tough and has thoughts of her own.
If you choose a beautiful woman, you have to
accept expenses too.
If you choose to be with a great woman, you must accept that she is tough and firm.

No one is perfect.
A woman has her own ′′ good thing ′′ that defines who she is and makes her unique.


Corrrrrection...i am pafect!!! angry
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by iamtardey: 2:53pm On Mar 21
undecided Are you saying we should stay away from them then
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by blackpanthar: 2:53pm On Mar 21
Odebayo4010:
If you choose a working woman, you have to accept that she can't handle the house full time.
If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and manage the home completely, you need to accept that she doesn't make money.
If you choose a submissive woman, you must accept that she depends on you.
If you choose to be with a brave woman, you must accept that she is tough and has thoughts of her own.
If you choose a beautiful woman, you have to
accept expenses too.
If you choose to be with a great woman, you must accept that she is tough and firm.

No one is perfect.
A woman has her own ′′ good thing ′′ that defines who she is and makes her unique.

Please can anyone answer(I will appreciate details)
WHAT ARE THE MAJOR BENEFITS OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN?

because HEALTH WISE, it seems not to benefit
financially in today's nigeria, it is a bad decision
companionship/intimacy/friendship/etc not guaranteed

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Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by iamtardey: 2:54pm On Mar 21
Note:
marriage isn’t for err’body,
Choose wisely.

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Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Anijay1212(m): 2:59pm On Mar 21
Dear op you are saying nothing but the truth.
Dear men please choose your own wo-man wisely.
embarassed lipsrsealed embarassed
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Samesame247: 5:42pm On Mar 21
Women!!!

Can't live with them, stl can't live without them.
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by helinues: 6:02pm On Mar 21
If you choose a liability as a wife or gf,get to know you are finished financially
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Kornfusedman: 6:32pm On Mar 21
If you are still single, think very well before getting married.
That's the only thing a confused man can say
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Odebayo4010(m): 7:26pm On Mar 21
blackpanthar:

Please can anyone answer(I will appreciate details)
WHAT ARE THE MAJOR BENEFITS OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN?

because HEALTH WISE, it seems not to benefit
financially in today's nigeria, it is a bad decision
companionship/intimacy/friendship/etc not guaranteed

benefits of men in marriage are,emotional support, companionship, shared responsibilities, the potential for personal growth, and the opportunity to build a family

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Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Kobojunkie: 9:18pm On Mar 21
iamtardey:
undecided Are you saying we should stay away from them then
If you struggle with accepting the reality of things, you should probably do that. lipsrsealed
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by blackpanthar: 9:39pm On Mar 21
Odebayo4010:


benefits of men in marriage are,emotional support, companionship, shared responsibilities, the potential for personal growth, and the opportunity to build a family





All great people who are unmarried have all these.

these are things you can get without marriage. Asides sex....

Family is not an opportunity it is stress and bills UNLESS YOU ARE SUPER WEALTHY.

shared responsibility? NO, there is no burden of responsibility in the first place if you are not married. So what exactly should a person be happy for about shared responsibility. it is women who may enjoy that.

POTENTIAL? for growth? haba, that is for singles. ONCE YOU MARRY, YOU DON'T GROW, you manage where you have grown to and focus on growing others(wife and kids)
Before marriage GROWTH increases your income, AFTER MARRIAGE what you call growth divides your income.

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Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Odebayo4010(m): 9:49pm On Mar 21
blackpanthar:


All great people who are unmarried have all these.

these are things you can get without marriage. Asides sex....

Family is not an opportunity it is stress and bills UNLESS YOU ARE SUPER WEALTHY.

shared responsibility? NO, there is no burden of responsibility in the first place if you are not married. So what exactly should a person be happy for about shared responsibility. it is women who may enjoy that.

POTENTIAL? for growth? haba, that is for singles. ONCE YOU MARRY, YOU DON'T GROW, you manage where you have grown to and focus on growing others(wife and kids)
Before marriage GROWTH increases your income, AFTER MARRIAGE what you call growth divides your income.


Don't fool yourself,old Age will tell you that marriage is important,you can not just happy only, you need someone to create it for you such as your wife children grandchildren

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Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by dbestuncle: 10:43pm On Mar 21
I don't expect to see submissive on this list. Every woman should be
Odebayo4010:
If you choose a working woman, you have to accept that she can't handle the house full time.
If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and manage the home completely, you need to accept that she doesn't make money.
If you choose a submissive woman, you must accept that she depends on you.
If you choose to be with a brave woman, you must accept that she is tough and has thoughts of her own.
If you choose a beautiful woman, you have to
accept expenses too.
If you choose to be with a great woman, you must accept that she is tough and firm.

No one is perfect.
A woman has her own ′′ good thing ′′ that defines who she is and makes her unique.

Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by blackpanthar: 12:08am On Mar 22
Odebayo4010:


Don't fool yourself,old Age will tell you that marriage is important,you can not just happy only, you need someone to create it for you such as your wife children grandchildren

you can have children and grand children without marriage.

I do not ask this for myself, I earlier explained that in the first post.

If a young man comes to you and asks you the benefit of marriage to men... SEEING ALL THAT IS GOING ON NOW IN THE WORLD....

what would you answer.

DANGOTE is not married...

many at the top are divorced.

so pls be practical... the rise of single men not wanting marriage is increasing, without STRONG LOGICAL REASON THAT CAN'T BE ARGUED, many will no longer desire it.

many who are married if they could go back to the past would rather remain unmarried because of the stress and many hidden issues we face.

So how will you sell it to the younger generation

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Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Felabrity: 12:38am On Mar 22
Interesting
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by iamtardey: 3:36am On Mar 22
Kobojunkie:
If you struggle with accepting the reality of things, you should probably do that. lipsrsealed
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Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by CrazyBen(m): 11:58am On Mar 22
Men need marriage to remain responsible.... Singles may end up following young girls while their mates are all settled down and expanding their bloodline..
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by obinna58(m): 12:15pm On Mar 22
Most importantly if you choose olosho you must accept your children may not be yours
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Odebayo4010(m): 8:55pm On Mar 22
blackpanthar:


you can have children and grand children without marriage.

I do not ask this for myself, I earlier explained that in the first post.

If a young man comes to you and asks you the benefit of marriage to men... SEEING ALL THAT IS GOING ON NOW IN THE WORLD....

what would you answer.

DANGOTE is not married...

many at the top are divorced.

so pls be practical... the rise of single men not wanting marriage is increasing, without STRONG LOGICAL REASON THAT CAN'T BE ARGUED, many will no longer desire it.

many who are married if they could go back to the past would rather remain unmarried because of the stress and many hidden issues we face.

So how will you sell it to the younger generation

I think you're entiest,if not you wouldn't said such thing, biblical didn't not support unmarried
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Kobojunkie: 9:00pm On Mar 22
obinna58:
Most importantly if you choose olosho you must accept your children may not be yours
That applies only to those who choose the traditional marriage route. The traditional marriage laws typically alow paternity fraud as part and parcel of the marriage agreement. grin
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by obinna58(m): 10:08pm On Mar 22
Kobojunkie:
That applies only to those who choose the traditional marriage route. The traditional marriage laws typically alow paternity fraud as part and parcel of the marriage agreement. grin
Traditional marriage laws denies your claim as their standard says the opposite grin
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Kobojunkie: 10:13pm On Mar 22
obinna58:
■ Traditional marriage laws denies your claim as their standard says the opposite grin
Igbo traditional laws for example are known to insist that all children born within a marriage — irrespective of paternity—belong solely to the man the woman is married to at the time. You are free to unsubscribe from tradition completely but you can not pick and choose which of its laws you will adhere to and which of its laws you would choose to flout. lipsrsealed
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by obinna58(m): 10:24pm On Mar 22
Kobojunkie:
Igbo traditional laws for example are known to insist that all children born within a marriage — irrespective of paternity—belong solely to the man the woman is married to at the time. You are free to unsubscribe from tradition completely but you can not pick and choose which of its laws you will adhere to and which of its laws you would choose to flout. lipsrsealed
Is this a cruise kobojunkie? I’m Igbo you know and I don’t think you’re Igbo so why are you trying to lecture me on my traditional which you’re probably not part of.

Again the tradition denies your allegations grin
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Kobojunkie: 10:36pm On Mar 22
obinna58:
■ Is this a cruise kobojunkie? I’m Igbo you know and I don’t think you’re Igbo so why are you trying to lecture me on my traditional which you’re probably not part of. Again the tradition denies your allegations grin
Are you certain you know well your traditional marriage laws? Where in Igbo land are you from? undecided
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by obinna58(m): 10:42pm On Mar 22
Kobojunkie:
Are you certain you know well your traditional marriage laws? Where in Igbo land are you from? undecided
you’re in no position to ask me that except you’re Nwa afo
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Kobojunkie: 10:45pm On Mar 22
obinna58:
you’re in no position to ask me that except you’re Nwa afo
Go learn of your traditional marriage laws and stop rambling abeg! undecided
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by obinna58(m): 10:48pm On Mar 22
Kobojunkie:
Go learn of your traditional marriage laws and stop rambling abeg! undecided
Even when I no learn anything I still know better than you
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Kobojunkie: 10:52pm On Mar 22
obinna58:
■ Even when I no learn anything I still know better than you
Keep lying to yourself! grin
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by blackpanthar: 11:36pm On Mar 22
Odebayo4010:


I think you're entiest,if not you wouldn't said such thing, biblical didn't not support unmarried

timothy didnt marry, paul didnt, elisha didnt, elijah didnt, what are you saying. YOU DON'T KNOW THE BIBLE.

Being unmarried is HIGHLY SUPPORTED and I know plenty scriptures.

We are talking about convincing the GEN Z generation when they ask questions about it
Re: Reality Every Man Must Know Earlier by Kobojunkie: 11:40pm On Mar 22
Odebayo4010:
■ I think you're entiest,if not you wouldn't said such thing, biblical didn't not support unmarried
Please never again attempt to spew that bullsheet for Pete's sake!!

Jesus Christ said the following:
● Marriages are of the world of men and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 46
● God's special permission belongs only to those who choose to live as Eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom of God - Matthew 19 vs 11 -12
● The women who cannot have babies are the ones God has blessed. It’s really a blessing that they have no children to care for - Luke 23 vs 27 - 31 — basically who live as Eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom of God are those who are blessed by God. undecided
Marriage, and even childbearing, was never blessed by God in Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ never hid this fact from those who would listen to Him. undecided

what seems clear is you have never in fact read that book called the Bible for yourself and that must be the reason why you think to spread lies using it in a sordid attempt to win the argument by con. lipsrsealed

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