Kobojunkie:
What the heck?🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

So what else does she want, when she has kids, and has a farmland given to her, women back then weren't as greedy as women of this generation. They weren't as entitled as the women right.

Bro look around, too many single women. Everywhere, way too many single women are out there, some are side chicks to married men, some other, are doing friends with benefits while in their 30's.

And this isn't that, there are no men, there are men, but selfish there are people women consider as men. Someone who has money and is rich. So you expect me, as a rich man. To settle for a broke lady. Or a lady, who can't provide for her self.

I will knack the lady tyre, common sense will tell her this relationship isn't heading anywhere


And if she tries, to monitor me, instant breakup.

almarthins:


Your advice is an emblem of wickedness in the heart. Did nt the holy book say the poor shall always be in the land?

Some thing is wrong with the way you perceive reality.

The same, poor setting standards to gain wealth through marriage. Keep dreaming.

Look at the work place, it's already playing out. Because business men understands the reality of life. As a cleaner, you earn less, as a driver you earn less,as a professional chef you earn a little bit higher, then as a graduate with experience and certification you earn averagely then as a director you earn big.

Why don't the company pay, degree holders or Diploma holder the same. This is real life every one has a level, work with your level to attain a bigger level.

Same with relationship, marry based on your level and work as a team, to achieve the pay of a director.

You can't be an OnD level, instead of developing your skills or education, you want to associate with the degree and start feeling you a degree holder, atleast develop yourself to HND. At all at all

Most women feel entitled to getting married to rich men, this is someone who can't even afford to buy herself hair, common nails she can't afford for herself. And she wants to manipulatively get a man who can do all this for her, with his money in the name of marriage.

I understand it's her choice, but if she gets dumped after being ran trains on, by different bigboys she should come online to say all men are scum, who are the all men, when there is a category of men she was after. How many legit hustling men could afford these splashing money you see in the internet.

Most of these boys, who are genuinely wealthy are spending their father money. And one broke girl wants to have him all herself in the name of marriage, aunty you will have heart attack o! Because his cheating skills will be on a premium level.

There are decent men out there, who can be peace to a woman heart, they are striving now. Tag along and strive with them. Or better still. Endure whatever you see in your already wealthy man.

na idiot the guy be

I always draw a line between being poor and being broke. Being broke is simply an unavailability of cash, it doesn't affect the behavior of a person at all.

A broke person for example can be friends with Dangote, and Dangote would never know his friend is broke unless he asked, or maybe saw a clue that this guy doesn't have cash. Even rich people can be broke sometimes too, which means they might have to skip some weekend flexing or forego a holiday trip.

But poverty is a mindset. Poverty affects the character and has a well-defined attitude associated with it. a poverty mindset for example is unproductive. They can't help themselves but hope for a helper to save them from themselves. Poverty has a high taste, but expect you to afford their taste for them.

You can even buy an iPhone 13 for a girl with a poverty mentality, and she would be angry, asking if she is too small to use an iPhone 15. They only take, collect, consume, never give, and are a loose loose to be with.

If being broke is a seed, then poverty is like a stone. With time, a seed will grow, especially if you bury it in rich soil, pour it into water, and expose it to sunlight. That's the situation of broke people. But a poor person will still be sterile, like a stone, it won't grow.

I see nothing wrong with being with a broke woman, especially in Nigeria, where the system has made it almost impossible to enjoy generational wealth for most. If a broke woman has a very good character, then she is better than a karashika who is wealthy.

A broke person can later rise to be wealthy, many Nigerian celebrities are broke from the beginning. But a poor person, hmmm, forget it. That future impossible tense.

toujurs:
■ So what else does she want, when she has kids, and has a farmland given to her, women back then weren't as greedy as women of this generation. They weren't as entitled as the women right. Bro look around, too many single women. Everywhere, way too many single women are out there, some are side chicks to married men, some other, are doing friends with benefits while in their 30's.
■ And this isn't that, there are no men, there are men, but selfish there are people women consider as men. Someone who has money and is rich. So you expect me, as a rich man. To settle for a broke lady. Or a lady, who can't provide for her self. I will knack the lady tyre, common sense will tell her this relationship isn't heading anywhere. And if she tries, to monitor me, instant breakup.

1. Now you are telling more fables, abi?

2. Dude, you are still not making any sense! I can tell from that stewpid statement in bold that you are mentally a boy ranting for the sake of it. If you want a cause then discourage your fellow Nigerian boys out there to abandon in its entirety the traditional marriage route and then you will start to make sense.

pansophist:
I always draw a line between being poor and being broke. Being broke is simply an unavailability of cash, it doesn't affect the behavior of a person at all.

A broke person for example can be friends with Dangote, and Dangote would never know his friend is broke unless he asked, or maybe saw a clue that this guy doesn't have cash. Even rich people can be broke sometimes too, which means they might have to skip some weekend flexing or forego a holiday trip.

But poverty is a mindset. Poverty affects the character and has a well-defined attitude associated with it. a poverty mindset for example is unproductive. They can't help themselves but hope for a helper to save them from themselves. Poverty has a high taste, but expect you to afford their taste for them.

You can even buy an iPhone 13 for a girl with a poverty mentality, and she would be angry, asking if she is too small to use an iPhone 15. They only take, collect, consume, never give, and are a loose loose to be with.

If being broke is a seed, then poverty is like a stone. With time, a seed will grow, especially if you bury it in rich soil, pour it into water, and expose it to sunlight. That's the situation of broke people. But a poor person will still be sterile, like a stone, it won't grow.

I see nothing wrong with being with a broke woman, especially in Nigeria, where the system has made it almost impossible to enjoy generational wealth for most. If a broke woman has a very good character, then she is better than a karashika who is wealthy.

A broke person can later rise to be wealthy, many Nigerian celebrities are broke from the beginning. But a poor person, hmmm, forget it. That future impossible tense.

I agree with you, when she rises she can tag along with her so called rich men.

Yes, dangote can be broke, but never broke that he can't afford basic things of life.

These broke girls, beg for as low as low, food money, money for clothes. Basic things she can't even afford, she would make it mandatory for a man in a relationship with her to provide these little things for her self care all the time.

There are levels to being broke. Some requests for monthly allowance. And some guys do pay. Obviously a thief would who defraud other people off their hard earned money.

Because i don't understand how a man who worked for money and understands the value of self
independence.

Even if, the guy does these things there should be a convincing and congent reason for it.

Not some flimsy reason like she is my baby, or she is a soft girl, she can never be in a relationship and still buy basic things for her self care.

So her money should be saved that's if she works, while the guy works his ass off for two. Just because his in a relationship. It's crazy.

I will continue saying this,women don't care about your sacrifices they are always loyal to their feelings

Kobojunkie:
1. Now you are telling more fables, abi?

2. Dude, you are still not making any sense! I can tell from that stewpid statement in bold that you are mentally a boy ranting for the sake of it. If you want a cause then discourage your fellow Nigerian boys out there to abandon in its entirety the traditional marriage route and then you will start to make sense.

I know people like you, i have met them. People who think they are smart and know better than others. While their lives is in a great mess.

In a total mess, in tears, and easily depressed.

Keep up the energy, Life at 40. Will have a ruthless conversation with you. Keep up, the standards, rude behaviour and arrogance. Life always leave those who are not willing to learn. In the dark. While they cry to God for solutions, whereas their attitude stinks of bitterness and anger.

toujurs:
■ I know people like you, i have met them. People who think they are smart and know better than others. While their lives is in a great mess. In a total mess, in tears, and easily depressed. Keep up the energy, Life at 40. Will have a ruthless conversation with you. Keep up, the standards, rude behaviour and arrogance. Life always leave those who are not willing to learn. In the dark. While they cry to God for solutions, whereas their attitude stinks of bitterness and anger.

Attacking the messenger and not the message is a sure way to reveal you have indeed been rambling as previously accused.

toujurs:
The same, poor setting standards to gain wealth through marriage. Keep dreaming.

Look at the work place, it's already playing out. Because business men understands the reality of life. As a cleaner, you earn less, as a driver you earn less,as a professional chef you earn a little bit higher, then as a graduate with experience and certification you earn averagely then as a director you earn big.

Why don't the company pay, degree holders or Diploma holder the same. This is real life every one has a level, work with your level to attain a bigger level.

Same with relationship, marry based on your level and work as a team, to achieve the pay of a director.

You can't be an OnD level, instead of developing your skills or education, you want to associate with the degree and start feeling you a degree holder, atleast develop yourself to HND. At all at all

Most women feel entitled to getting married to rich men, this is someone who can't even afford to buy herself hair, common nails she can't afford for herself. And she wants to manipulatively get a man who can do all this for her, with his money in the name of marriage.

I understand it's her choice, but if she gets dumped after being ran trains on, by different bigboys she should come online to say all men are scum, who are the all men, when there is a category of men she was after. How many legit hustling men could afford these splashing money you see in the internet.

Most of these boys, who are genuinely wealthy are spending their father money. And one broke girl wants to have him all herself in the name of marriage, aunty you will have heart attack o! Because his cheating skills will be on a premium level.

There are decent men out there, who can be peace to a woman heart, they are striving now. Tag along and strive with them. Or better still. Endure whatever you see in your already wealthy man.

You wrote this epistle because of me?
Well, money money is what the modern men thinks make the world go round. Money is good but it is not everything. Though you point is valid to an extent not in total.

toujurs:
If you are a guy, who struggled and made money, and now planning on settling down with a broke lady, worst is she is from a poor home as well and you plan on elevating her family, you are daft, foolish and a coward.

If you were broke, would she have taken you serious, Now that you have made it. She misses you, and loves you. And cries for a attention.

Broke girls are for sex. If you are a big boy, bang these broke bitches, and tip them for the sex. Or rather decieve them with relationship, she will definitely fall for it, because you are a big fish.

She her self, isn't genuine, so never feel guilty about it. it's because you are financially capable to handle her finances. Not really like she genuinely loves you.

Stop giving her money, and watch how the relationship dies a natural death.

Be wise and have sense. Go for comfortable or rich babes within your status, even if the babe is in her early thirties, it's better than dating a broke girl in her early or mid twenties.

It's fine if every lady, wants a rich man, it's their choice, but ask yourself, now that you have made it in life from being broke, why settle for a broke bitch. Have sense this man.

And settle down with a financially stable women. Even if she is in her thirties. Guy marry her, and long as she has a good character, and willing to listen. Never take a broke girl serious.

Where is the lie You have articulated nothing but the truth💯

The problem with most rich niggas is that they usually forget how they started life and how those broke bitches avoided them when they were still struggling⚠️

I still remember mine, and how girls refused to date me while i was broke, nah why we no dey dull🙄

tochez24:



Where is the lie You have articulated nothing but the truth💯

The problem with most rich niggas is that they usually forget how they started life and how those broke bitches avoided them when they were still struggling⚠️

I still remember mine, and how girls refused to date me while i was broke, nah why we no dey dull🙄

if you dull, it's your loss, check how these broke girls, broke shame guys who even earn better than them. But they feel entitled to broke shame someone better than them. Because the guy can't afford a car where she could seat at the front, the guy also doesn't have an apartment where she can do weekends at.

Now the said broke guy, can afford these things, he should settle for same broke girl?

It's only a mumu that would do that.

toujurs:
if you dull, it's your loss, check how these broke girls, broke shame guys who even earn better than them. But they feel entitled to broke shame someone better than them. Because the guy can't afford a car where she could seat at the front, the guy also doesn't have an apartment where she can do weekends at.

Now the said broke guy, can afford these things, he should settle for same broke girl?

It's only a mumu that would do that.

With what i have seen with my two eyes in this world my brother,

I would rather marry a girl from another African country than marry a broke Nigerian girl if i no see white girl marry sef⚠️

Some rich guys are now wiser💯

advanceDNA:
Women won't like this...they will call it hatred misogyny and attack against them because a man is telling is fellow men to marry decent well to do ladies....

But women see it as giving good advice when they tell their fellow women to ignore broke men but go after rich men than can take care of all their bills.....

I don't get it.....🤷🤷🤷.... why do broke women want rich men but expect rich men to be stupîd...

Women naturally have double standards. Go to Facebook and see how they support rubbish. They can never condemn their fellow women whenever they do something wrong.

That's how corrupt some of them have become. Only few are naturally genuine and have conscience. Majority are nothing to write home about.

Aren’t you guys tired of this gender war?? From twitter to Instagram to naira land Omo na wa o

Dejarae:
Aren’t you guys tired of this gender war?? From twitter to Instagram to naira land Omo na wa o

Like you are not one of them, continue eating awoof, then later try to run, your case will soon be like the picture below.

Just continue.

Your gender should continue this, feeling it's a smart move, you eat from a guys pocket, and tell him to give you time while you think about it.

Even while thinking about it, you are still billing him. Then you finally tell him you are interested. When you notice, he has reduced how he gives you money.

Keep it up

Dejarae:
Aren’t you guys tired of this gender war?? From twitter to Instagram to naira land Omo na wa o

Women are strong, women are fantastic, without women the world will explode, Its not easy to be a woman oooo, women are not finding it easy in in this world oooo, women need support from men, ...men should just give women money, and all the help they need

I know this is the comment u women like to see.....

Dejarae:
Aren’t you guys tired of this gender war?? From twitter to Instagram to naira land Omo na wa o

There's nothing like "gender war" in this thread.

This thread & its accompanying [reasonable] comments challenges the status quo you're used to. Hence your brain signals "war".