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My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by olajos10(m): 9:45am On Mar 26
My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better. She owns a fashion design business, which I support in every possible way to help her brand grow. Although I'm not financially stable at the moment, I provide moral support and contribute my skills as a graphic designer and photographer to promote her brand.

Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.

I confronted her to understand her reasons, especially since I've never complained about supporting her or feeling stressed. Her response was, "You don't have to, because I don't want to be callous."

I don't know what to do now.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Shifi1: 9:50am On Mar 26
Why u didn't open a shop for urself ...working in woman..u think she will value you..
You are blocking her chance to meet better clients

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by adamma24: 9:51am On Mar 26
olajos10:
My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better. She owns a fashion design business, which I support in every possible way to help her brand grow. Although I'm not financially stable at the moment, I provide moral support and contribute my skills as a graphic designer and photographer to promote her brand.

Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.

I confronted her to understand her reasons, especially since I've never complained about supporting her or feeling stressed. Her response was, "You don't have to, because I don't want to be callous."

I don't know what to do now.


She is directly telling you to.... MOVE ON ..she Don see say ur future no bright...you are blocking potential guys...

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Coolsat(m): 10:00am On Mar 26
There's a guy better than you proposing to her, women are mathematician when it comes to relationship games.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Dexy4yah(m): 10:07am On Mar 26
Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.



This life..when you no use your head... somebody else go help you use am.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by advanceDNA: 10:09am On Mar 26
olajos10:
My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better. She owns a fashion design business, which I support in every possible way to help her brand grow. Although I'm not financially stable at the moment, I provide moral support and contribute my skills as a graphic designer and photographer to promote her brand.

Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.

I confronted her to understand her reasons, especially since I've never complained about supporting her or feeling stressed. Her response was, "You don't have to, because I don't want to be callous."

I don't know what to do now.

Walk away now....u have been replaced...she's just trying to spare ur heart by not telling u straight up she has someone else.....

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Sccarrr: 10:23am On Mar 26
She dey play with ur head, another guy somewhere don dey fvck her brains out... crazily, that one fit no dey support her in any reasonable way but just good look ,good fuvk and sweet empty talks 😂😂..count your loss, move on and don't ever look back, she honestly don't deserve u

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Ever8090: 10:30am On Mar 26
Ok...so wetin you want make we do?...

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by ogashman(m): 10:35am On Mar 26
In this life if u have discerning ability, u have solved 90% of relationship problems.


Op ur babe is subtly telling u that u re not good enough for her and u should move on.


If u had discerning spirit, u would have figured this out long ago because her behaviour and attitudes would have exposed her.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by vibemad007: 10:56am On Mar 26
olajos10:
My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better. She owns a fashion design business, which I support in every possible way to help her brand grow. Although I'm not financially stable at the moment, I provide moral support and contribute my skills as a graphic designer and photographer to promote her brand.

Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.

I confronted her to understand her reasons, especially since I've never complained about supporting her or feeling stressed. Her response was, "You don't have to, because I don't want to be callous."

I don't know what to do now.
dem don replace u guy, na u dey bring her down as u never reach her standard.

Graphic designer lol

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by silibaba: 11:28am On Mar 26
Your preek self no dey rest?

Take break for the sake of your preek biko.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Yadid(m): 11:39am On Mar 26
Hmmmmmm
Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Rokiat(f): 11:46am On Mar 26
Some people self so scared of hurting people feelings.

What is take a break? grin

If you feel a man is not improving your life or adding value to it in any ways break up with him plain and simple.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Caspry5: 11:50am On Mar 26
"My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better"

Bros this na old line na..that bae don meet another guy wer dy chop her work very well. Collect your breakfast in peace grin cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by mablie(m): 12:04pm On Mar 26
Hehehe

There is another bull in the ring


I love women's ruthless mindset whenever anything concerns their self-interests grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Geovanni412(m): 12:13pm On Mar 26
olajos10:
My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better. She owns a fashion design business, which I support in every possible way to help her brand grow. Although I'm not financially stable at the moment, I provide moral support and contribute my skills as a graphic designer and photographer to promote her brand.

Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.

I confronted her to understand her reasons, especially since I've never complained about supporting her or feeling stressed. Her response was, "You don't have to, because I don't want to be callous."

I don't know what to do now.

Which kain talk be say u no sabi what to do...

You want to beg her or what?

Baba, dem don show you red card.

Take your L and move in peace.

Better girls dey

As for your graphic design business, do you have a template website on carrd and how many people have you DMed or sent cold emails to land clients?

Put ya focus on that. It will help you deal with the heartbreak.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Samsunny99: 1:35pm On Mar 26
Baba you' were supporting her but to her she Donn use am see you finish
My advice
Tell her the break is okay,that you were even planning to let her know you wanted a break from the relationship
Then baba lock up no ever chat or link up again with her cos if you do it means u no get esteem but if u shun her ,her mind no go rest, but seriously she's not meant for you

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Gggjhhj: 1:38pm On Mar 26
For women what ever you do if it doesn't translate to money is nonsense, all those graphics design stuff is nothing to them, infact they easily forget, give them 2million this week, if they ask you 100k next week, and you no deliver, Dem go still para
Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Ballzproblem2: 1:40pm On Mar 26
Dexy4yah:
Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.



This life..when you no use your head... somebody else go help you use am.
This comment sums up everything.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by tochez24(m): 1:45pm On Mar 26
mablie:
Hehehe

There is another bull in the ring


I love women's ruthless mindset whenever anything concerns their self-interests grin grin

Women are deadly⚠️

Whenever a girl decides to leave you.... she wouldn't care how much you love her, how much you have spent on her and if you will die the next day because of heart break!!!!

She will just leave straight up😁😁😁

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by EconomistXplain: 1:48pm On Mar 26
This exact situation happened to me in 2021... Same scenario...

Will gist u in d evening..ladies are the same thing

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by DND069: 1:58pm On Mar 26
Until we digest this mindset in our daily thoughts that this era of love/romance expires, we will continue to get disappointed at the sour stage.

Love expires! Know this and expect less.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by zed7: 2:10pm On Mar 26
Don't date when you are not financially stable, not because you need to provide for anyone but because dating when you are trying to find your feet is a big distraction.

A woman that wants to support you in your hustling days should be the one running after you trying to offer you assistance and not you trying to force a relationship.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by elmagnifico411(m): 2:20pm On Mar 26
olajos10:
My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better. She owns a fashion design business, which I support in every possible way to help her brand grow. Although I'm not financially stable at the moment, I provide moral support and contribute my skills as a graphic designer and photographer to promote her brand.

Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.

I confronted her to understand her reasons, especially since I've never complained about supporting her or feeling stressed. Her response was, "You don't have to, because I don't want to be callous."

I don't know what to do now.
let me tell u what to do.. bounce! Shes left you. Your chapter in her life has come to an end, and she needs to focus on the next chapter which shes opened.. move on bro.. thats wussup.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Negroid001(m): 2:29pm On Mar 26
When your dog starts to growl at you, it means someone else is feeding in your absence.

Dem dey chop your babe work. You just dey jasi.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by akube34: 2:50pm On Mar 26
olajos10:
My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better. She owns a fashion design business, which I support in every possible way to help her brand grow. Although I'm not financially stable at the moment, I provide moral support and contribute my skills as a graphic designer and photographer to promote her brand.

Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.

I confronted her to understand her reasons, especially since I've never complained about supporting her or feeling stressed. Her response was, "You don't have to, because I don't want to be callous."

I don't know what to do now.
she don find better person. She no know how to tell you

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Sapasenator: 2:56pm On Mar 26
Take a break na abi them tie una umbilical cord?
Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Dzzzz: 3:08pm On Mar 26
Bobo find your Square root.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Savedday2: 3:09pm On Mar 26
Kindly know that the break is to allow her jump on pricks that the relationship won't allow her to. Or she is currently enjoying some good pricks but her conscience is judging her.

But kindly note this: The day ur girlfriend/wife approach you for a break, just know u are a big SIMP or she don use you tire. Any man wey 9ja girl don use tire should go and kill himself.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by talk2hb1(m): 3:38pm On Mar 26
Another Breakfast
Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by PETUK(m): 3:50pm On Mar 26
Just walk it’s over, next time never in your life support a woman over yourself, it’s never go well

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Tallesty1(m): 4:04pm On Mar 26
tochez24:


Women are deadly⚠️

Whenever a girl decides to leave you.... she wouldn't care how much you love her, how much you have spent on her and if you will die the next day because of heart break!!!!

She will just leave straight up😁😁😁
Usually because they didn't invest in the relationship. Moving on is difficult for anyone that invested in a relationship. Check what some guys call relationship and you will be shocked. Nothing they throw in is reciprocated, not money, not gifts, not even feelings. Just their relentless efforts to please her. So why won't moving on be easy for her? A woman's 1k investment in a relationship gives her more reason to stay than your 100k. Na we no wan get sense.

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