Red Flag #1: She Doesn't/Didn't Have a Good Relationship with Her Father


Girls that are close with their father (Daddy's Girl) usually have healthy committed relationships with the guys they choose to be with. These categories of girls have positive view of the male gender, and will tend to be submissive to their partners BECAUSE they learnt that from being close and submissive to their father.

When I meet girl I want to be serious with, one of the first things I try to find out is if she has a good relationship with her father... If she's doesn't, then no further interaction, I most times dump her on the spot and move on.... I'm trying to dodge a long-term bullet.

If you go into a committed relationship with a girl that hate her father or often complain bitterly about him or in general has a bad relationship with him, the issues will eventually surface and the issues will be transfer onto you because you are also a man like her father.


Red Flag #2: She Often Talks Negatively About Ex-Boyfriends

I have talked about this before. She might tell you that her most recent guy did treated her poorly, or he was a lying asshole or he had a small dick or had a bad attitude or he was irresponsible or he was a two minutes man or he was stingy...or he was whatever. As long as it didn't work out with him, she's going to look for a way to paint him black.

As a guy, you might feel good when she talks negatively about her past partner(s). But don't feel too good because the smoke will eventually come to you. If your relationship doesn't work out with her, i.e the moment you are done with her, she will tell her next guy the same negative things about you.

She needs to paint her ex's in the most negative way possible so she can look like the victim and justify her constant whoring around and jumping from one man to another



Red Flag #3: She highly in support of toxic Feminism idealogy


Women like these don't generally make good partners for a stable committed relationship. These kinds of women have psychological issues, are damaged emotionally, and have huge victim complex: they see men as a danger to them.

She will make your life a living hell if decide to wife her.

I don't have to explain why Dominant Masculine Men often don't have good chemistry with feminist/ antagonistic women in the long term.


Red Flag #4: She believe You Should Pay For Her (All The Time) OR she started billing you as soon the relationship begins.

This kind of wowan will wreck you. RUN from her.

Women who are looking to take advantage of you financially will often get frustrated when you refuse to treat them with financial favors, gifts, expensive date and anything that has to deal with bringing out money from your pocket. She might criticize you and try to shame you in to spending for her, don't fall for that.

A woman that cares about you tends to also put in some financial effort, even if she doesn't have much.


Anyways, that's it.
If you meet a cool woman that doesn't have any of these red flags, wife her immediately.

Number one and four is a deal breaker for me.

Abusers that don't want/ don't believe they deserve any reaction. No, men are not a danger to them. Crime demographics and Gender Based Violence statistics and even a certain gender's general experiences don't show that. The innocent, harmless and fluffy harmless "victim" men. Delusional and Deluded.

Number 1 is not necessary. If the pman na dick head nko?

Number #4 is the reason why some lady's enter relationships,

Relationship way never reach 2 weeks weréy don day bill me,

My advice to all guys out there is if you want to invest in a lady invest what you can afford to lose because relationship no get refund ✌️✌️

Pukkalolo:
Red Flag #1: She Doesn't/Didn't Have a Good Relationship with Her Father


Girls that are close with their father (Daddy's Girl) usually have healthy committed relationships with the guys they choose to be with. These categories of girls have positive view of the male gender, and will tend to be submissive to their partners BECAUSE they learnt that from being close and submissive to their father.

When I meet girl I want to be serious with, one of the first things I try to find out is if she has a good relationship with her father... If she's doesn't, then no further interaction, I most times dump her on the spot and move on.... I'm trying to dodge a long-term bullet.

If you go into a committed relationship with a girl that hate her father or often complain bitterly about him or in general has a bad relationship with him, the issues will eventually surface and the issues will be transfer onto you because you are also a man like her father.


Red Flag #2: She Often Talks Negatively About Ex-Boyfriends

I have talked about this before. She might tell you that her most recent guy did treated her poorly, or he was a lying asshole or he had a small dick or had a bad attitude or he was irresponsible or he was a two minutes man or he was stingy...or he was whatever. As long as it didn't work out with him, she's going to look for a way to paint him black.

As a guy, you might feel good when she talks negatively about her past partner(s). But don't feel too good because the smoke will eventually come to you. If your relationship doesn't work out with her, i.e the moment you are done with her, she will tell her next guy the same negative things about you.

She needs to paint her ex's in the most negative way possible so she can look like the victim and justify her constant whoring around and jumping from one man to another



Red Flag #3: She highly in support of toxic Feminism idealogy


Women like these don't generally make good partners for a stable committed relationship. These kinds of women have psychological issues, are damaged emotionally, and have huge victim complex: they see men as a danger to them.

She will make your life a living hell if decide to wife her.

I don't have to explain why Dominant Masculine Men often don't have good chemistry with feminist/ antagonistic women in the long term.


Red Flag #4: She believe You Should Pay For Her (All The Time) OR she started billing you as soon the relationship begins.

This kind of wowan will wreck you. RUN from her.

Women who are looking to take advantage of you financially will often get frustrated when you refuse to treat them with financial favors, gifts, expensive date and anything that has to deal with bringing out money from your pocket. She might criticize you and try to shame you in to spending for her, don't fall for that.

A woman that cares about you tends to also put in some financial effort, even if she doesn't have much.


Anyways, that's it.
If you meet a cool woman that doesn't have any of these red flags, wife her immediately.

You've spoken well

[quote author=Pukkalolo post=129185974]Red Flag #1: She Doesn't/Didn't Have a Good Relationship with Her Father


Girls that are close with their father (Daddy's Girl) usually have healthy committed relationships with the guys they choose to be with. These categories of girls have positive view of the male gender, and will tend to be submissive to their partners BECAUSE they learnt that from being close and submissive to their father.

When I meet girl I want to be serious with, one of the first things I try to find out is if she has a good relationship with her father... If she's doesn't, then no further interaction, I most times dump her on the spot and move on.... I'm trying to dodge a long-term bullet.

If you go into a committed relationship with a girl that hate her father or often complain bitterly about him or in general has a bad relationship with him, the issues will eventually surface and the issues will be transfer onto you because you are also a man like her father.MUMU.NOBODY PEFE

Thought I wasn't gonna make the list until I got to #4.


I'm so proud of me.

#RedFlagBabe

Rexymania:
Number 1 is not necessary. If the pman na dick head nko?

You're right... Every father has some kind of flaw. Nobody is perfect.

But If she can't condone and tolerate her father's flaws, you think she'll tolerate yours?

Olachase:
Number #4 is the reason why some lady's enter relationships,

Relationship way never reach 2 weeks weréy don day bill me,

My advice to all guys out there is if you want to invest in a lady invest what you can avoid to lose because relationship no get refund ✌️✌️

afford to lose not avoid to lose

Pukkalolo:


You're right... Every father has some kind of flaw. Nobody is perfect.

But If she can't condone and tolerate her father's flaws, you think she'll tolerate yours?

But nor be every flaw them dey tolerate, I know some men who treat their families like trash, how do you expect the kids to have good relationships with their father in that situation.

What Country Is This?

Omo, this topic wey you bring so, e heavy well-well. But make we look am well. Relationship matter na very personal thing, and everybody get their own unique experience and story. E good to share advice based on wetin person don see or live through, but make we also remember say people different, and one cap no fit everybody head.

1. **On top the papa matter**: True say family background fit influence person behavior and view on relationship, but no be every time e dey straightforward. Some people fit get strong reason why dem no close to their papa, and e no automatically mean say dem no go fit get healthy relationship. E dey important to know person well, understand their story before you judge them.

2. **Yarns about ex-dem**: E dey natural to wan talk about past relationship as e fit help your current partner understand you better. But if the talk na only bad bad things, e fit be red flag, but again, context matter. Some people genuinely pass through bad relationships wey leave scars. The key na to find balance and see how person dey move on from past hurt.

3. **Feminism talk**: Feminism get many branches and e mean different things to different people. Some dey about equality and respect, wey na something wey fit strengthen relationship. E good make we dey open to understand wetin the person really believe and how e affect their view on partnership.

4. **Financial matter**: Relationship suppose be about give and take. If e be like say na one person dey do all the giving, especially financially, e fit worth am to pause, think am well. But, na also good make partners dey open about their financial expectations from the get-go.

At the end, na about finding someone wey share your values, respect you, and dey ready to grow with you. E dey important make we listen, learn, and communicate wella with our partners. Make we dey careful not to generalize too much; instead, focus on building strong, healthy connections based on mutual respect and understanding.

OP one bottle of schnapps for you, the gods are with you

Rexymania:
Number 1 is not necessary. If the pman na dick head nko?

How do you know he is a dick head? Are women not vagina head too? How many times will a lady denigrate her mother because she is doing bad? If you think what comes out of a woman about her dad is true make your own side of the story and see the results. This most of the times doesn't end well

I have been in this scenario before, the day I started hearing bullshit about her dad from her mouth even when her dad contributes to her living expenses while she expects zero responsibilities from her mother even when both of them are divorced. I have her the benefit of the doubt until she actually made a statement like "my mum's mouth is sharper than a knife that is where I got my talking and anger issues from maybe that's may even be the reason why they divorced". If that's the reason why then show contempt when relating with your father while loving the mum , meanwhile the father even left the only house he built to go and rent a house as a tenant in order for the child and mum to have accommodation is the person you talk about so badly. He is within his rights to send her parking from his home because there was no minor she is taking care of but he didn't because of what his actions portray to his kids.

Never you hear anything from a woman about a man and believe without investing such information else you make a big blunder.

This new generation women are something else. People wer marry in the 90's never know wetin God do for them

Valid points boss.
I've been waiting for your post. Thanks for this.

Pukkalolo:


You're right... Every father has some kind of flaw. Nobody is perfect.

But If she can't condone and tolerate her father's flaws, you think she'll tolerate yours?

There are flaws that can’t be tolerated.

Pukkalolo:
I pray your brothers and future kids date and marry #4 red flag women. Are you happy now?

Wholeheartedly. 🤗

idahme:


How do you know he is a dick head? Are women not vagina head too? How many times will a lady denigrate her mother because she is doing bad? If you think what comes out of a woman about her dad is true make your own side of the story and see the results. This most of the times doesn't end well

I have been in this scenario before, the day I started hearing bullshit about her dad from her mouth even when her dad contributes to her living expenses while she expects zero responsibilities from her mother even when both of them are divorced. I have her the benefit of the doubt until she actually made a statement like "my mum's mouth is sharper than a knife that is where I got my talking and anger issues from maybe that's may even be the reason why they divorced". If that's the reason why then show contempt when relating with your father while loving the mum , meanwhile the father even left the only house he built to go and rent a house as a tenant in order for the child and mum to have accommodation is the person you talk about so badly. He is within his rights to send her parking from his home because there was no minor she is taking care of but he didn't because of what his actions portray to his kids.

Never you hear anything from a woman about a man and believe without investing such information else you make a big blunder.

You said it perfectly.

We often expect perfection from fathers.


We tends to ignore the flaws of mothers but highlight the flaws of fathers.

Aside that...

Many women are expert in playing the victim and emotionally manipulating men into taking their sides. I rarely ever believe any complain a woman has about a man unless I hear the men side of the story.

KingEarnest:
Valid points boss.

I've been waiting for your post. Thanks for this.

#Respect

ElliotP:


But nor be every flaw them dey tolerate, I know some men who treat their families like trash, how do you expect the kids to have good relationships with their father in that situation.

Please explain what you mean by trash

Tallesty1:
Werey

Big back don cancel No1 one for me. 2 can be overlooked too if she's a handfull upfront, after all her dad and ex could dick heads for real. 4 no be issue, to say no no dey hard me because I no kuku get. As for 3, one person no fit get all of them, she can't be that unfortunate.

You are funny sha

Kudos to the write-up BUT guys of today doesn't care about most of these red flags as long as you have yansh every other thing is secondary

Don't get me wrong okay, I did not say this to justify what is bad. I'm just stating the fact.

funkemary:
Kudos to the write-up BUT guys of today doesn't care about most of these red flags as long as you have yansh every other thing is secondary

Don't get me wrong okay, I did not say this to justify what is bad. I'm just stating the fact.

I get you. But most of these men you describe who ignore these red flag are only looking for sex... but when they want to truly settle down, they pay more attention to these red flags

Number one and four is a deal breaker for me.

Tallesty1:
Werey

Big back don cancel No1 one for me. 2 can be overlooked too if she's a handfull upfront, after all her dad and ex could dick heads for real. 4 no be issue, to say no no dey hard me because I no kuku get. As for 3, one person no fit get all of them, she can't be that unfortunate.

Actually, you're wrong lmaooo.

I meant to say no. 3. 🤣


I mean now, of all red flags for me to have, toxic feminism should be at the fore.

What's big back? You mean bumbum?


You don't have what? Be whyning yourself.