Good day every one,
Please I do really need advice on this matter; I was dating this lady since for years now and she has not actually added any monetary value to me.
And even when I did advise her to have her own business so that I can borrow some money for her to start; she said she can't work for a man that has not paid her bride price.
So I forget about the business ideas I wanted to share with her.
In the process sometimes last year she got pregnant and we lost the baby last month.
And my Mom was like I should let the lady go her separate way, I was like it is not too fair because we just lost our baby though it was out wed luck.
Now her father called me and said they have family burial; that I should send him Money to assist him for the burial.
Though I told him, I heard him but my .
But my question is your Daughter doesn't want to support me financially and I am the one paying all her Bill and the father want to bring in their family burial again.
So, I just thinking now since we are not officially married now should I leave the lady and move on she, since she and her family like to take and can't add to me too.

Please what should I do?

Two red flags....lazy, unambitious wife to be and exploitative inlaws as supporting striker...

.U never marry, dem don ask u to pay for burial wey nor concern you??......if u marry her finish ...that means u will be asked to come build their town square and village dibia's shrine.....

If u are not a billionaire...person wey marry dis kind family nor go live long.....two weeks after wedding..them go pad u with two cousins and one distant relative wey u go dey sponsor.. .

U better carry ur two legs and look for a decent family to marry..

You leave candid advice wey your mama give you, run come nairaland to come disturb us with your family problem abi?

Danboy43:
Good day every one,
Please I do really need advice on this matter; I was dating this lady since for years now and she has not actually added any monetary value to me.
And even when I did advise her to have her own business so that I can borrow some money for her to start; she said she can't work for a man that has not paid her bride price.
So I forget about the business ideas I wanted to share with her.
In the process sometimes last year she got pregnant and we lost the baby last month.
And my Mom was like I should let the lady go her separate way, I was like it is not too fair because we just lost our baby though it was out wed luck.
Now her father called me and said they have family burial; that I should send him Money to assist him for the burial.
Though I told him, I heard him but my .
But my question is your Daughter doesn't want to support me financially and I am the one paying all her Bill and the father want to bring in their family burial again.
So, I just thinking now since we are not officially married now should I leave the lady and move on she, since she and her family like to take and can't add to me too.

Please what should I do?

..
Do you want to end up living a life of penury.
You want to end up living with a debtor.
You want to marry her because she be yellow paw paw.
You will end up with a chronic debtor for life.
You won't achieve anything because you will end up using using you are hard earned money paying debt.
This is how my unfortunate f
Uncle ended because she married for beauty instead of getting married to Brain.
All the 35 years of service in government.
No single achievement because his wife pushed him to debt
Aboy use your brain make I no vex for u

Danboy43:
Please what should I do?

See question . You've been footing all her bills throughout the years you've been dating and she's still refusing to work and now her father wants to start billing you too, and you're asking what you should do. What do you think you should do?

You better run...

Make sure your 2 legs touch the back of your head!

They are seeking compensation for turning their daughter into a sex object.

Danboy43:
Good day every one,
Please I do really need advice on this matter; I was dating this lady since for years now and she has not actually added any monetary value to me.
And even when I did advise her to have her own business so that I can borrow some money for her to start; she said she can't work for a man that has not paid her bride price.
So I forget about the business ideas I wanted to share with her.
In the process sometimes last year she got pregnant and we lost the baby last month.
And my Mom was like I should let the lady go her separate way, I was like it is not too fair because we just lost our baby though it was out wed luck.
Now her father called me and said they have family burial; that I should send him Money to assist him for the burial.
Though I told him, I heard him but my .
But my question is your Daughter doesn't want to support me financially and I am the one paying all her Bill and the father want to bring in their family burial again.
So, I just thinking now since we are not officially married now should I leave the lady and move on she, since she and her family like to take and can't add to me too.

Please what should I do?

Your last chance to dodge the bullet with matrix style.

Bro,you should have listened to your mom......Any lady who isn't adding any financial value to her man's life doesn't worth to be in a relationship...........If you check very well, you'll find out that she's also toxic and doesn't give tht op peace of mind.........Op, just let her go.....I know it'll hurt,but you'll definitely heal with time..