A Nigerian lady has gone viral on social media after announcing her decision not to give birth until four years after marriage.

In a video, she asked her future mother-in-law not to expect grandchildren until her union clocks four years.

Speaking on the reason behind her decision, she reiterated that she wanted to enjoy her husband fully before giving birth to their first child.

In her words:

“Dear future mother-in-law, I hope your son has told you I won’t be getting pregnant immediately after our wedding. If you want me and u to be on good terms don’t expect grandchildren immediately. I need to enjoy like 4 years with my husband.”

Netizens stormed the comments section to react to the video shared on the TikTok app.

@eyinjueledumare606 said: “Person wey don get belle okay nah.”

@Ajoke_ade said: “Na una dey quick get belle pass.”

Joy Oduo said: “Same here babe.”

Annabel pinky reacted: “Me n my man need to hustle hard fes.”

Cynthia16savage said: “Exactly 100.”

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Please if you can extend it to 20 years it will be better.

We are tired of the oloshism running in your family lineage

Why no 30 yrs
olosho

I no blame her! Na mugu men wey they marry them.

A hoe with future plans.

Withe majority of future mothers out here, the future is ridiculously bleak

The same thing my wife was advocating then.
To the glory of God, she is now a proud mother of a handsome boy within the first year of our marriage.

Remove womb watchers, this is what every newly wed needs. Use the four years to get to acclimatize and see if you're ready to add an innocent person into the mix.

Once a woman puts to bed, her attention to her husband drops by over 60%. Work and housekeeping plus motherhood will take priority for her. The husband on the other hand will feel neglected and start cheating. This is a marriage that the cement used for the foundation is yet to dry at all.

This is the prevailing reason divorce is high now. Unlike before when our mothers stay at home, women now work just like the man, take care of the house,her family and the burden is transferred to the stability of the marriage.

But what do I know?

It's the audacity of these modern girls for me. Can u imagine that one when be like sausage roll for Alesh junction

If you like make it 10. We go still do DNA

This is actually reasonable. But I think 2 years is reasonable to settle into a marraige before kids come.

Why do Nigerian men always want kids right away? You will suffer it, wifeys attention will be divided.

Who tell you will give him child from unset before...not to talk of 4years
All of una supporting this shit support to be given hot for reset factory setting
When u no ready to have pikin why u go marry

Before 3yrs another woman dey come throw you out.

1Sharon:
This is actually reasonable. But I think 2 years is reasonable to settle into a marraige before kids come.

Why do Nigerian men always want kids right away? You will suffer it, wifeys attention will be divided.

Anyone one who hasn't raised kids don't know how draining it is. 2 years before childbirth is okay. Let the couple enjoy themselves first. Kids require lots of hard work and supervision. It usually rubs off on the woman. Most women would pick their kids over their husbands.
The woman knows what she's talking about.

Someone needs to give her a dirty slap.

Negroid001:


Anyone one who hasn't raised kids don't know how draining it is. 2 years before childbirth is okay. Let the couple enjoy themselves first. Kids require lots of hard work and supervision. It usually rubs off on the woman. Most women would pick their kids over their husbands.
The woman knows what she's talking about.

Surprised to see you agree with me

1Sharon:


Surprised to see you agree with me

Ikr.
I know how hard it is to raise kids from personal experience. Let the couple breathe first abeg.

This reminds me of a woman in my office. They went as far as aborting their child in their first then started using contraceptive afterwards.
Later later belle no green enter again and this is the thirteenth year.



It is well..

And as you. Even if you don’t want to have kids you don’t have to.

Do what’s best for you and not what society thinks.

Marriage miss road...
Keep slaying ojare, wetin concern me

Later, you go dey find pikin go shrine, con go born ancestor

DNA test...

Most men here are disgusting with their comments, there is nothing wrong in wanting to enjoy your marriage first

Those are one of the few things couples should talk about and opt for what suits both of them. God forbid who go marry all the men here

The Idiotic olosho is definitely hoping and wishing to find a SIMPson soonest she can tie down with marriage.

It's clear this olosho will give her so called future husband a bastard child belonging to another man. I pity the SIMPLETON in advance

Na her type go don dey cohabit with the man like 2-3 years before officially tieing the knot.So what other enjoyment does the man still has in store for her that she is willing to waste another four years to get? I trust an average African mother in law sha, her mind no go touch ground.Yeye slay queens always coming online talking wetin no dey realistic 😒