If so, how much younger?

And you can interpret "date" any way you like, from hook-up to serious relationship.

No, I wouldn't date Mr. Cork.

This has been discussed so many times on this board. A quick search would help

by that metric, almost nothing would ever be posted on this forum. Since it has already been discussed before. .

1 or 2 yr younger nothing more please.

isnt this how pleep started till he revealed himself as the useless thing that he is?

tpia@:

isnt this how pleep started till he revealed himself as the useless thing that he is?

What do you mean?

i mean he started off in this manner.

running after older women than him until his crappiness was fully revealed.

but with a user id named pleep i guess the joke's on whoever thought he was a human being to begin with.

Yes, of course I would. To me, age is nothing but a number. If we respect each other and have feelings for each other, then a number won't change any of that. People don't fall for one another because of the age difference between them; it's irrelevant.

tpia@:

i mean he started off in this manner.

running after older women than him until his crappiness was fully revealed.

but with a user id named pleep i guess the joke's on whoever thought he was a human being to begin with.

Lol.

He seemed like a good dude to me. I guess you've had a bad experience.

Anyway nothing wrong with having a fetish for older women lol.

ogugua88:

Yes, of course I would. To me, age is nothing but a number. If we respect each other and have feelings for each other, then a number won't change any of that. People don't fall for one another because of the age difference between them; it's irrelevant.

What of the practical aspects? E.g. kids, marriage? I guess the problem when the woman is older (say by 4 or 5 years) is that her time-frame for getting married and having kids is going to be much shorter than the guy's (at least in principle.)

ekt_bear:

He seemed like a good dude to me. I guess you've had a bad experience.

yes, he's a good dude and i just had a bad experience.

ekt_bear:
What of the practical aspects? E.g. kids, marriage? I guess the problem when the woman is older (say by 4 or 5 years) is that her time-frame for getting married and having kids is going to be much shorter than the guy's (at least in principle.)

Marriage isn't necessary to me. It's not something I plan on doing. If it happens, it happens. If not, then it doesn't lol. I don't want to have kids until I'm about 30 anyway, so, in my case, it'll work out.

I don't know enough either way to conclude, you may be right.

Anyway, for you, how many years younger (if any)?

ekt bear, I hope your gf aint older than you.

We dont do that abomination where we come from o. Just saying.

^^^^ A few of my aunties are older than their husbands, and their marriages are fine. I don't see how or why it would be considered an abomination.

ogugua88:

[b]Marriage isn't necessary to me. It's not something I plan on doing. [/b]If it happens, it happens. If not, then it doesn't lol. I don't want to have kids until I'm about 30 anyway, so, in my case, it'll work out.

Hrm. Radical feminist?  Never gotten this vibe from you before. Also,won't your guy be upset at bolded?

Ileke-IdI:

ekt bear, I hope your gf aint older than you.

We dont do that abomination where we come from o. Just saying.

It is funny though. Evidently my grandfather's wife (my grandmother) was like 2-3 years older than him. So isn't quite true.

^^So your gf is older than you?

ekt bear, you know that's back then, we didnt keep records of our age and it wasnt much of a big deal. My aunt made up a birthday for herself because such records were not kept.

@Ogugua

Different opinions then.

i dont know what the culture is where pleep comes from, but in yorubaland in general and ekiti in particular, young men do not run after older women.

if you want to be a radical who wants to revolutionize that sort of stuff, then i guess your leg suppose to waka outside.

Ileke-IdI:

^^So your gf is older than you?

Eh, she is. By about 1.5 years or so. But I dunno if I should say "gf" any more lol. It is a long story (not for this thread.)

ekt bear, you know that's back then, we didnt keep records of our age and it wasnt much of a big deal. My aunt made up a birthday for herself because such records were not kept.

40s and 50s? Naw my folks kept records even in the 1910s, 1920s and such.

tpia@:

i dont know what the culture is where pleep comes from, but in yorubaland in general and ekiti in particular, young men do not run after older women.

if you want to be a radical who wants to revolutionize that sort of stuff, then i guess your leg suppose to waka outside.

Tpia, I am not sure why you think I am asking for myself. This thread has nothing to do with me, was just a general commentary.

Thanks for your concern, though (I'm not being sarcastic, I genuinely appreciate it.)

Yes, I would and do date younger men. If we " click" I dont worry about the age.

ekt_bear:

Eh, she is. By about 1.5 years or so. But I dunno if I should say "gf" any more lol. It is a long story (not for this thread.)
40s and 50s? Naw my folks kept records even in the 1910s, 1920s and such.

Kept what? What records?
If I remembered correctly, birth certificates in Ekiti start became "required" beginning at the latest period of my mother's generation. Correct me tho.

Yea, let her be an "ex", find someone younger than you. But for another thread

ekt_bear:
Hrm. Radical feminist?  Never gotten this vibe from you before. Also,won't your guy be upset at bolded?

No, I'm not a radical feminist lol. Are men that aren't in a rush to marry considered radicals? I don't need that kind of formality, personally, and as far as I'm considered, marriage and dating are the same thing these days. If I ever cross those waters, however, three people will attend my wedding. Myself, the man, and the person performing the wedding

Ileke-IdI:

Kept what? What records?
If I remembered correctly, birth certificates in Ekiti start became "required" beginning at the latest period of my mother's generation. Correct me tho.

Yea, let her be an "ex", find someone younger than you. But for another thread

Hrm I dunno if they were required, but both of my grandfathers had 'em. You might be right though, maybe not mandatory? I'll ask around sometime.

ogugua88:

No, I'm not a radical feminist lol. Are men that aren't in a rush to marry considered radicals? I don't need that kind of formality, personally, and as far as I'm considered, marriage and dating are the same thing these days. If I ever cross those waters, however, three people will attend my wedding. Myself, the man, and the person performing the wedding

Hrm, interesting. Btw nice dodge of the implicit question I asked.

Lol

YES. If he doesnt act his age,its okay by me. Age is just a number.

ElmA, :

YES. If he doesnt act his age,its okay by me. Age is just a number.

I like older woman cos of their maturity. Any girl of same age with me or younger i often find immature and i quickly get bored.

No way, it aint my thing. am omo yoruba

I read somewhere that some women experience reduction in sexual desire after menopause due to oestrogen deficiency and loss of libido.

That is one of the disadvantages of such a union, from a male point of view.

Rokiatu2:

No way, it aint my thing. am omo yoruba

I love you Rokiatu