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Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by gforce5: 2:41pm On Apr 04
This social media age has made relationships so difficult for many people. What makes me laugh the most is when women keep stating that they want a man who is "rich, tall, handsome, has six packs and speaks well". Not only that, they expect such a man to be loyal only to them. I mean, how delusional can you be? You expect a man with all those qualities to be 100% faithful to you? Women fail to understand that such men make up less than 2% of any society. Yes, even in the "developed world", such men are a minority not a majority. In a country like Nigeria, the percentage is less than 1%. Most rich men in this country are 45+, chubby and very average looking. Ladies, just know that loyal men like David Beckham are a rarity. Even at that, he still cheated on Victoria with Rebecca Loos.

Same thing with the fellas. If you aren't affluent, your chances of securing a woman that has everything i.e. face, tits, bum, slim, intelligent, speaks well and is submissive is slim. There's too much competition to date such a woman and they usually taken once they cross the legal age.
Re: Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by franchasofficia: 2:59pm On Apr 04
gforce5:
This social media age has made relationships so difficult for many people. What makes me laugh the most is when women keep stating that they want a man who is "rich, tall, handsome, has six packs and speaks well". Not only that, they expect such a man to be loyal only to them. I mean, how delusional can you be? You expect a man with all those qualities to be 100% faithful to you? Women fail to understand that such men make up less than 2% of any society. Yes, even in the "developed world", such men are a minority not a majority. In a country like Nigeria, the percentage is less than 1%. Most rich men in this country are 45+, chubby and very average looking. Ladies, just know that loyal men like David Beckham are a rarity. Even at that, he still cheated on Victoria with Rebecca Loos.

Same thing with the fellas. If you aren't affluent, your chances of securing a woman that has everything i.e. face, tits, bum, slim, intelligent, speaks well and is submissive is slim. There's too much competition to date such a woman and they usually taken once they cross the legal age.
Very correct.


It is highly impossible to find a Nigerian man below 32yrs that is rich and single.


Due to harsh economic realities in Nigeria, most men become financially stable from 35yrs and above, and they start entering the rich class mostly from 40yrs and above and by this time they are either married, divorced or seriously engaged, yet Naija girls will be daydreaming of having a 30yrs old guy that is rich, tall, handsome, born again and faithful as boyfriend lol



Don't come and tell me about some Yahoo boys that have made millions at 22 or 25 or below 30, Yahoo money no be money, na wind, it can blow away any time when maga stops paying which must happen.



And for the guys, unless you are financially successful that you can comfortably buy a car of 10million without stress, you own a good car worth 7m above in Naija, you earn a legitimate income of at least 800k and above every month, my brother forget about getting that tall, slim big ass, firm boobs, flat tummy, glowing skin under 28yrs chick, just manage your Wunmi, Amaka and Onome in peace until your money reach lol.


Yes you can be lucky, but even when you are lucky to hook one of your pretty village chick or your pretty classmate or street babe or lesson class hottie, she will fly away if you remain broke cheesy

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Re: Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by Lonestar124: 3:05pm On Apr 04
Where do you get the name Gforce, that is the name of engine oil I used cheesy
Re: Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by gforce5: 3:24pm On Apr 04
Lol, that a nickname one of my uncles gave me when I was a child. I've been using it ever since.

Lonestar124:
Where do you get the name Gforce, that is the name of engine oil I used cheesy
Re: Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by gforce5: 3:36pm On Apr 04
Any rich block in Nigeria that is below the age of 32 is either an entertainer, has rich parents or started business at an early age. Even at that, they form less than 0.5% of the male population of this country. Nigerian women aren't ready for that conversation. Men who worked hard for their money marry women of a certain class e.g. Bank W, M.I. and Captain Demureen (Toolz's husband). Even Moses Bliss of recent is married to a British-Ghanian lady who is comfortable.

franchasofficia:
Very correct.


It is highly impossible to find a Nigerian man below 32yrs that is rich and single.


Due to harsh economic realities in Nigeria, most men become financially stable from 35yrs and above, and they start entering the rich class mostly from 40yrs and above and by this time they are either married, divorced or seriously engaged, yet Naija girls will be daydreaming of having a 30yrs old guy that is rich, tall, handsome, born again and faithful as boyfriend lol



Don't come and tell me about some Yahoo boys that have made millions at 22 or 25 or below 30, Yahoo money no be money, na wind, it can blow away any time when maga stops paying which must happen.



And for the guys, unless you are financially successful that you can comfortably buy a car of 10million without stress, you own a good car worth 7m above in Naija, you earn a legitimate income of at least 800k and above every month, my brother forget about getting that tall, slim big ass, firm boobs, flat tummy, glowing skin under 28yrs chick, just manage your Wunmi, Amaka and Onome in peace until your money reach lol.


Yes you can be lucky, but even when you are lucky to hook one of your pretty village chick or your pretty classmate or street babe or lesson class hottie, she will fly away if you remain broke cheesy
Re: Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by YoshihideSuga: 3:50pm On Apr 04
Thank you bros.

Na so I read for Facebook where one woman dey advocate for men to be faithful. In my books, you cannot demand for a financially comfortable man in a country like Nigeria, then expect him to be all yours. Worse is when these women don enjoy their youth finish, then expect a man to be faithful to them because of marriage. Furthermore sef, some cultures in Nigeria embrace polygamy and concubines. Na Western Christianity don change everything. The Muslim north and Muslim southwest are very much polygamous.
Re: Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by YoshihideSuga: 3:53pm On Apr 04
franchasofficia:
Very correct.
It is highly impossible to find a Nigerian man below 32yrs that is rich and single.
guy that is rich, tall, handsome, born again and faithful as boyfriend lol
Don't must happen.

And for the guys, unless you are financially successful that you can comfortably buy a car of 10million without stress, you own a good car worth 7m above in Naija, you earn a legitimate income of at least 800k and above every month, my brother forget about getting that tall, slim big ass, firm boobs, flat tummy, glowing skin under 28yrs chick, just manage your Wunmi, Amaka and Onome in peace until your money reach lol.


Yes you can be lucky, but even when you are lucky to hook one of your pretty village chick or your pretty classmate or street babe or lesson class hottie, she will fly away if you remain broke cheesy

Na your definition of being young and rich as a Nigerian man?
Re: Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by marlow1962(m): 4:15pm On Apr 04
I have nothing to say when it comes to dating in Nigeria, to me both parties are just clowns who are together for the fun. Modern day dating is dead, everything is now transactional ( you give me money, I give you pussy).
I see it as a disgrace when a woman sets standards for herself on what she wants in the dating pool, and you as a niga because you got small change and wear baggy trousers, you then go for whatever rubbish you see on the road. Many people are just dating cus of the sex and money that comes with it.

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Re: Unrealistic Dating Expectations Of Both Genders by segcymoor(m): 4:52pm On Apr 04
franchasofficia:
Very correct.


It is highly impossible to find a Nigerian man below 32yrs that is rich and single.


Due to harsh economic realities in Nigeria, most men become financially stable from 35yrs and above, and they start entering the rich class mostly from 40yrs and above and by this time they are either married, divorced or seriously engaged, yet Naija girls will be daydreaming of having a 30yrs old guy that is rich, tall, handsome, born again and faithful as boyfriend lol



Don't come and tell me about some Yahoo boys that have made millions at 22 or 25 or below 30, Yahoo money no be money, na wind, it can blow away any time when maga stops paying which must happen.



And for the guys, unless you are financially successful that you can comfortably buy a car of 10million without stress, you own a good car worth 7m above in Naija, you earn a legitimate income of at least 800k and above every month, my brother forget about getting that tall, slim big ass, firm boobs, flat tummy, glowing skin under 28yrs chick, just manage your [b]Wunmi, [/b]Amaka and Onome in peace until your money reach lol.


Yes you can be lucky, but even when you are lucky to hook one of your pretty village chick or your pretty classmate or street babe or lesson class hottie, she will fly away if you remain broke cheesy
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