Check my profile for the beginning of my story. Now he is living with another woman at the moment and I don't know how to function anymore. I can no longer sleep without taking alcohol. I have developed high blood pressure. I suffer from heart palpitations now. WHERE WILL I START FROM? A 40 year old single mother

thy lord will c u tru,!

They always join the men to call some of us Men haters ,when we advice our fellow women n't to stoop so low and give all to men.


A man can dump you at anytime no matter how long you have spent or sailed in a ship with him acrossed the ocean in a stormy weather [She stay3d because she saw his future ] , I trusted NL Men to blame her for that again. This is why I always laugh at those ladies in a relationship that's not up to 4mths,6mths,or a year that do carry relationship and Men for head like canopy. If a man can leave a woman that spent 30, 40 to 70 yrs with him, then who are you ?.

My dear take heart, I wish you a fast recovery...

Start from hitting a gym to reset yourself physically. Mentally, you’ll get better.

MsJackson:
Check my profile for the beginning of my story. Now he is living with another woman at the moment and I don't know how to function anymore. I can no longer sleep without taking alcohol. I have developed high blood pressure. I suffer from heart palpitations now. WHERE WILL I START FROM? A 40 year old single mother

Is it this delta guy?

https://www.nairaland.com/1420792/graduate-lady-dating-non-graduate#17819066

I took time to read your stories and I must say I felt for you.
It's a pity that SOME men are like this.

Please take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Reach out to family and friends for support at this trying time.

it is okay to grieve over your situation but also look ahead. Set new goals for yourself and think about what you want to achieve in this new chapter of your life.

And please stay positive for your sake and for your kids.

Jeon:
They always join the men to call some of us Men haters ,when we advice our fellow women n't to stoop so low and give all to men.


A man can dump you at anytime no matter how long you have spent or sailed in a ship with him acrossed the ocean in a stormy weather [She stay3d because she saw his future ] , I trusted NL Men to blame her for that again. This is why I always laugh at those ladies in a relationship that's not up to 4mths,6mths,or a year that do carry relationship and Men for head like canopy. If a man can leave a woman that spent 30, 40 to 70 yrs with him, then who are you ?.

My dear take heart, I wish you a fast recovery...

for every Nigerian man that dumped an innocent woman for whatever selfish reasons, I can show ten Nigerian ladies that dumped their husbands for similar reasons, you ladies finds harder to take what you dish out.

What actually did you do?

Wetin you do the man?

What you need most is a job or Something to occupy your mind.

MsJackson:
Check my profile for the beginning of my story. Now he is living with another woman at the moment and I don't know how to function anymore. I can no longer sleep without taking alcohol. I have developed high blood pressure. I suffer from heart palpitations now. WHERE WILL I START FROM? A 40 year old single mother

So you dont have a life aside from your husband? Were the two of you conjoined twins with the same umbilical cord?

As a graduate of OAU, why not get your own life.

Women have been dumping their husbands for flimsy reasons since time immemorial. The difference is that when women dump their men, nobody pities the man, but if the man was the one who did the dumping, the society sympathizes with the woman.

Besides, we have not heard the man's own side of the story.

Nairalander248:


Is it this delta guy?

https://www.nairaland.com/1420792/graduate-lady-dating-non-graduate#17819066

YES

chatinent:
What actually did you do?

Please check my profile. Everything you need to know is there

mysticwarrior:
Wetin you do the man?

Please check my profile. Everything you need to know is there

My email address is ejirodetermined01@gmail.com. The one registered on Nairaland is no longer functional.

When you use your character to frustrate a man to the point he has to seek solace in the arms of another woman, then what is your complaint for?

A few questions for you.

Were you legally married to him? If yes, Sue him. if not, pick up your pieces and move on.

You can't be doing this to yourself when the one you're dying because doesn't care about you. You're the one losing out in the battle.
Get a grip on yourself and look for something doing. Clean up and Polish yourself so at least another man can find you appealing and who knows? you might get lucky this time.

Life goes on. He will still treat the other woman the way he treated you if he's the type that doesn't have respect for women. In all don't bother yourself any more with what he does or doesn't do. If he comes begging, don't accept him back. Men are not worth the headache if you ask me especially when he's a dickhead. You're going to be fine without him if you can allow yourself heal and move on.


Try get closer to God. Attend church programs to get your mind off him. Engage in the work of God and pray sincerely from your heart and before you know it, he'll be a thing of the past as the holy spirit will fill your heart with peace that no man can give.

Try not to divulge your problems to anyone in any church you decide to choose. I must warn you. Face your God and your service to him there. He will surely come through for you. Alcohol will only worsen your mood and plunged you further into depression. Stop it!

Dogalmighty17:
When you use your character to frustrate a man to the point he has to seek solace in the arms of another woman, then what is your complaint for?

You don't know half of what I saw with him. I supported him with all my heart, even gave up a job slot for him because they were only looking for male workers. I used my money and time to make the home a bit comfortable for him because he was not working. He still not working. I loved him with all my heart and accepted him like that. I have never used his jobless State to insult him, never deprived him of sex. We had our normal couple's quarrel but we also resolved it. God knows I'm not perfect but I didn't deserve the treatment meted out to me by him and his family. Don't conclude like you know me.

Jewessgratitud3:
A few questions for you.

Were you legally married to him? If yes, Sue him. if not, pick up your pieces and move on.

You can't be doing this to yourself when the one you're dying because doesn't care about you. You're the one losing out in the battle.
Get a grip on yourself and look for something doing. Clean up and Polish yourself so at least another man can find you appealing and who knows? you might get lucky this time.

Life goes on. He will still treat the other woman the way he treated you if he's the type that doesn't have respect for women. In all don't bother yourself any more with what he does or doesn't do. If he comes begging, don't accept him back. Men are not worth the headache if you ask me especially when he's a dickhead. You're going to be fine without him if you can allow yourself heal and move on.


Try get closer to God. Attend church programs to get your mind off him. Engage in the work of God and pray sincerely from your heart and before you know it, he'll be a thing of the past as the holy spirit will fill your heart with peace that no man can give.

Try not to divulge your problems to anyone in any church you decide to choose. I must warn you. Face your God and your service to him there. He will surely come through for you. Alcohol will only worsen your mood and plunged you further into depression. Stop it!

Thank you my dear. We're legally married. Court, traditional and white wedding. My bride price was properly paid.
ALL his family members have blocked me from reaching them both online and offline. I am alone with my daughter. I appreciate your advice, and pray that God comes through for me. This trial is too heavy.

MsJackson:
Thank you my dear. We're legally married. Court, traditional and white wedding. My bride price was properly paid.
ALL his family members have blocked me from reaching them both online and offline. I am alone with my daughter. I appreciate your advice, and pray that God comes through for me. This trial is too heavy.

I can gives you more alcohol... You knows nowadays, alcohol works like paracetamol... I can gives you more paracetamol, so you won't see tremor or ends up in tremor/with tremor... Useless bunch of people or useless set of people...?

MsJackson:

You don't know half of what I saw with him. I supported him with all my heart, even gave up a job slot for him because they were only looking for male workers. I used my money and time to make the home a bit comfortable for him because he was not working. He still not working. I loved him with all my heart and accepted him like that. I have never used his jobless State to insult him, never deprived him of sex. We had our normal couple's quarrel but we also resolved it. God knows I'm not perfect but I didn't deserve the treatment meted out to me by him and his family. Don't conclude like you know me.

You have to take heart, so the man is not even working you have to work on your self esteem.

Three years after I got married, my husband married another wife I was depressed because we were living in one room and also struggling to make a living, he changed towards me and that period I was nursing a two months old baby I was not working if I ask for feeding from him because he used to come home two days in a week if he didn't give me and I pressurized him too much, he would beat hell out of me.

When the beating got worse, my neighbors advice me to move to my parents house his mum changed towards me she said the lady is from their home town that I am not from their side.

I moved back to my parents house, my mum also started embarrassing me she would come out of the house and started shouting at me that she is not the one that gave the bad husband that I married at the end of the day I went back to my husband because I was helpless I couldn't feed the children and nobody to assist me
But now I am emotionally strong and working to survive my eyes don see shege for marriage but you have to be strong for your self and children.

It's sad reading your story, i hope you heal fast and move on. Take this as part of life trials and tribulations. Take your daughter and move far away from him. If possible relocate to another state where the standard of living is affordable and start your life afresh. Obviously your ex has moved on so you have too, It's hard, but you have to be strong, face it squarely and mooooove on.

Most importantly quit that alcohol at once, it'll only mar your situation. And not good for your daughter's upbringing.

MsJackson:
Thank you my dear. We're legally married. Court, traditional and white wedding. My bride price was properly paid.
ALL his family members have blocked me from reaching them both online and offline. I am alone with my daughter. I appreciate your advice, and pray that God comes through for me. This trial is too heavy.

If you were legally married then report him to human rights. They'll summon him and both of you will be interviewed to know what you want and how you want it. Also as regards the up keep of your child and her shelter. He'll be made to provide for everything and if he refuses to show up it's straight to jail.

He be like you no sabi say na naija you dey and not obodo, if they summon that man and he didn't show, nothing will happen. My advice for the woman is just to move on with her life and see if nature will make him come back to her again

Jewessgratitud3:


If you were legally married then report him to human rights. They'll summon him and both of you will be interviewed to know what you want and how you want it. Also as regards the up keep of your child and her shelter. He'll be made to provide for everything and if he refuses to show up it's straight to jail.

Afodot0022:
He be like you no sabi say na naija you dey and not obodo, if they summon that man and he didn't show, nothing will happen. My advice for the woman is just to move on with her life and see if nature will make him come back to her again

I don't just talk for the sake of it. This is something that Ive seen happen. The man thought it was just a Nigerian thing until he saw himself in kirikiri.

If she's ready I'll give her a link to the one the woman that her husband was sent to kirikiri used. One customary court like that.

The man go pee for pant.

Jewessgratitud3:


I don't just talk for the sake of it. This is something that I seen happen. The man thought it was just a Nigerian thing until he saw himself in kirikiri.

If she's ready I'll give her a link to the one the woman that her husband was sent to kirikiri used. One customary court like that.

The man go pee for pant.

Please send me a message on
ejirodetermined01@gmail.com

MsJackson:
Check my profile for the beginning of my story. Now he is living with another woman at the moment and I don't know how to function anymore. I can no longer sleep without taking alcohol. I have developed high blood pressure. I suffer from heart palpitations now. WHERE WILL I START FROM? A 40 year old single mother

You too obsessed with this ur super story ok. Perhaps, tactical way to advertise urself to prospective sex-starved men.



Meanwhile, it's a lesson for other ladies that see Marriage as escape route from poverty. Women must wake up to reality and know that Marriage of today far different from yesteryears,in which wives wouldn't do anything that brings income to family but husband.

IF NOT THAT YOU ARE JOBLESS AND REFUSE TO BRING TANGIBLE THINGS TO THE TABLE, YOUR HUSBAND MIGHT HAVE NOT TREATED YOU LIKE THRASH.

MsJackson:
Check my profile for the beginning of my story. Now he is living with another woman at the moment and I don't know how to function anymore. I can no longer sleep without taking alcohol. I have developed high blood pressure. I suffer from heart palpitations now. WHERE WILL I START FROM? A 40 year old single mother

No man lets go of what is important to you. If something is serving it's purpose towards me, you will need to tie me up first before I can release it.

If your husband wasn't serving his purpose, and a richer man comes around. You would have dumped him too.

This is just one men out of 5million women who are dumping their man.

1:5Million cases.

Men need to catch up.

MsJackson:

Please send me a message on
ejirodetermined01@gmail.com

Sorry dear I don't do emails . Are you on Facebook?

MsJackson:
Check my profile for the beginning of my story. Now he is living with another woman at the moment and I don't know how to function anymore. I can no longer sleep without taking alcohol. I have developed high blood pressure. I suffer from heart palpitations now. WHERE WILL I START FROM? A 40 year old single mother

Pls stop that.
He threw you out doesn't mean end of the world.

Just see your current situations as a starter to repackage yourself. Dust ur short n make a fresh start.

If I were you, put relationship aside now n make move to make money b a better version.


Chat me if you are bored.

Goodluck