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What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by QuinModah(f): 5:09pm On Apr 09
recently hung out with a group of girlfriends I hadn’t seen in a very long time. I’d like to say that it’s because we’re all busy,so I was grateful to get the opportunity to catch up with my girls.

As usual, those ladies that were single lamented about their nonexistent relationship status. “Where were all the good guys?” “Why do they all live with their mama or have multiple baby mamas?” “How come they don’t have great jobs or make a lot of money?” I quietly sat there listening, not missing any of my single days. However, the more I listened, the more questions formulated in my head. “What constitutes as a great job?” “What is ‘a lot’ of money?” After all, those things are pretty relative, so I was curious to learn what types of guys they were attracting and why they felt these men weren’t good enough.

One friend said, “The doorman in my building asked me out on a date. Can you believe it? Like I’d date ‘the help’.” Suddenly, I began to understand why some of these women were still single.

“What’s wrong with the doorman?” I asked.

“Uh, he’s a doorman,” she responded, as if the answer was obvious.

I followed up by asking if it was just doormen she was against, or any man who was in a service/customer service type of job. After all, “the help” is not limited to doormen, maids, butlers, janitors or any other job that reminds her of “slavery” (her words, not mine). Service industries also include positions within sectors such as hospitality, sales, public health and any other position where your responsibility is to service or be of service to other people. But because those were still considered service industry jobs in a sense, were they too deemed not respectable? “Would she not date a man in any of those fields?” I thought to myself. What Occupation would stop you from dating or marrying Someone?
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Jennyclay(f): 5:11pm On Apr 09
I can’t date or marry a teacher, farmer, mechanic bricklayer, plumber, oga Keke rider or bike rider and other dirty jobs. God forbid!! undecided

Biko, it’s not me they will come and put in abject poverty. These set of men can murder or raise their filthy hands on a lady over any petty things one could think of undecided

They don’t have money but they want true love. Shior!! undecided

Nonsense men!!

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by chatinent: 5:15pm On Apr 09
Ok
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Ahmed0336(m): 5:34pm On Apr 09
Any occupation that would make my wife spend less time with myself and the kids would be highly resisted.

8-4 job is fine and I wouldn't want a nanny raising my kids.



Dats all.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by eddynaira125: 5:42pm On Apr 09
Hotel and Restaurant Job is not acceptable

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Beebah321(f): 5:46pm On Apr 09
I no fit date or marry soldier.
Never! lipsrsealed

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Sonnobax15(m): 5:47pm On Apr 09
lipsrsealed
Hotel workers,cuz I've had my own share of it's misfortune thereby losing the banny whom I once loved with my heart..

Secondly,bankers..... especially those bannies working under the marketing department grin. Guys,once your GF tell you say na marketing department dem shift her go, just know say na from that very day you go begin to dey share her kpekus with other guymen,cuz she must shift pant for her to meet her target...

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:47pm On Apr 09
@OP
you sef, would you marry a gateman?

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by QuinModah(f): 5:53pm On Apr 09
eddynaira125:
Hotel and Restaurant Job is not acceptable
Why?
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by QuinModah(f): 5:53pm On Apr 09
shocked
Beebah321:
I no fit date or marry soldier.
Never! lipsrsealed
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by KillIgbohoN0W: 5:56pm On Apr 09
Makeup artiste
Waitress
Actress
Nurse
Flight attendant
Model
Content creator
Banker
Receptionist
Choirister
Church worker
Usher
Marketer
Hotel staff
Online vendor
Male wears seller
Alagbo
Chef/Cook
OAP
Event planner
Interior decorator
Gym attendant


Avoid these women with everything you got.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Olarewaju89: 6:03pm On Apr 09
Jennyclay:
I can’t date or marry a teacher, farmer, mechanic bricklayer, plumber, oga Keke rider or bike rider and other dirty jobs. God forbid!! undecided

Biko, it’s not me they will come and put in abject poverty. These set of men can murder or raise their filthy hands on a lady over any petty things one could think of undecided

They don’t have money but they want true love. Shior!! undecided

Nonsense men!!


A man who has driven many cars is an expert but a car driven by many men is a junk.

This post isn't about cars!

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by tochez24(m): 6:16pm On Apr 09
Olarewaju89:



A man who has driven many cars is an expert but a car driven by many men is a junk.

This post isn't about cars!


You have time to respond to a damaged woman⚠️

Broke damaged ladies are always the first to broke shame broke guys, imagine what she listed as dirty jobs Legit hustle millions of guys started from🙄

I know one guy way back that started life with one keke, now he owns about 20 Keke people are driving for him, he doesn't even drive his own keke constantly again sef.
Now every week without doing anything he makes an average of 25,000×19 = Do the maths!!!!

But a foolish and damaged lady like jennyclay will easily downplay such hard working guys simply because she doesn't make her own money and has zero accountability whatsoever!!!!

Most Nigerian ladies are very useless i tell you🚩🚩🚩

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by 1Sharon(f): 6:18pm On Apr 09
Any menial job
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by qtguru(m): 6:19pm On Apr 09
Blogging

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Picklejar: 6:24pm On Apr 09
I can't date a woman who works in a hotel, bar or the likes. Dating a woman who works in a hotel is akin to putting meat In front of a dog, and leaving it there with expectations to meet it untouched

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by poshestmina(f): 6:26pm On Apr 09
Beautician (those hairstylist, tattoo artist, pinklips people).
Police
Bouncers /Gym instructor
Yahooboys.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Bongadu: 6:28pm On Apr 09
For me ,can't marry a girl with a job

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by QuinModah(f): 7:16pm On Apr 09
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Hotel workers,cuz I've had my own share of it's misfortune thereby losing the banny whom I once loved with my heart..

Secondly,bankers..... especially those bannies working under the marketing department grin. Guys,once your GF tell you say na marketing department dem shift her go, just know say na from that very day you go begin to dey share her kpekus with other guymen,cuz she must shift pant for her to meet her target...
Oga! Where did you get this information from, haba!!!
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Zonefree(m): 8:00pm On Apr 09
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Hotel workers,cuz I've had my own share of it's misfortune thereby losing the banny whom I once loved with my heart..

Secondly,bankers..... especially those bannies working under the marketing department grin. Guys,once your GF tell you say na marketing department dem shift her go, just know say na from that very day you go begin to dey share her kpekus with other guymen,cuz she must shift pant for her to meet her target...
Now I understand. To love is to die.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by PerfectStranger(m): 8:34pm On Apr 09
Zonefree:

Now I understand. To love is to die.
grin grin

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by PulaPower: 8:54pm On Apr 09
KillIgbohoN0W:
Makeup artiste
Waitress
Actress
Nurse
Flight attendant
Model
Content creator
Banker
Receptionist
Choirister
Church worker
Usher
Marketer
Hotel staff
Online vendor
Male wears seller
Alagbo
Chef/Cook
OAP
Event planner
Interior decorator
Gym attendant


Avoid these women with everything you got.
Lol..

There’s this dude that was always listing like 40 jobs like that - wonder where the dude is..

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Karlifate: 12:21pm On Apr 10
PulaPower:

Lol..

There’s this dude that was always listing like 40 jobs like that - wonder where the dude is..

Na EvilForest be dat grin

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by QuinModah(f): 7:49pm On Apr 13
shocked
KillIgbohoN0W:
Makeup artiste
Waitress
Actress
Nurse
Flight attendant
Model
Content creator
Banker
Receptionist
Choirister
Church worker
Usher
Marketer
Hotel staff
Online vendor
Male wears seller
Alagbo
Chef/Cook
OAP
Event planner
Interior decorator
Gym attendant


Avoid these women with everything you got.
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by 43Ronin: 12:52am On Apr 14
PA or secretary to Oga. Abeg carry your oga dick go one side

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by AngelicDamsel(f): 12:34pm On Apr 14
I love manual labourers, but the bitters, agbo and drugs they take...... After that hard labour, some of them release their toil in the night, and that will not be me. grin grin grin

I love them though.
Respect to legit hustlers!

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Auxtan(m): 1:37pm On Apr 14
Jennyclay:
I can’t date or marry a teacher, farmer, mechanic bricklayer, plumber, oga Keke rider or bike rider and other dirty jobs. God forbid!! undecided

Biko, it’s not me they will come and put in abject poverty. These set of men can murder or raise their filthy hands on a lady over any petty things one could think of undecided

They don’t have money but they want true love. Shior!! undecided

Nonsense men!!

You're simply empty upstairs.

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by ednut1(m): 1:45pm On Apr 14
Mortician, stripper and prostitute

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Polynek(m): 1:50pm On Apr 14
Jennyclay:
I can’t date or marry a teacher, farmer, mechanic bricklayer, plumber, oga Keke rider or bike rider and other dirty jobs. God forbid!! undecided

Biko, it’s not me they will come and put in abject poverty. These set of men can murder or raise their filthy hands on a lady over any petty things one could think of undecided

They don’t have money but they want true love. Shior!! undecided

Nonsense men!!
I thought you are sensible until i read this post

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by VinnyBaba: 2:00pm On Apr 14
For me, it's not about profession.

Can't marry any Lady that is a Fan of Bobrisky, Tonto Dike, Toke Makinwa,etc. undecided

As a Man, If you have a Wife who is a Fan of Bobrisky, Ur Plasma TV is MORE VALUABLE than her. sad

You no get Wife, Wallahi. sad

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Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by Janded42: 3:01pm On Apr 14
Jennyclay:
I can’t date or marry a teacher, farmer, mechanic bricklayer, plumber, oga Keke rider or bike rider and other dirty jobs. God forbid!! undecided

Biko, it’s not me they will come and put in abject poverty. These set of men can murder or raise their filthy hands on a lady over any petty things one could think of undecided

They don’t have money but they want true love. Shior!! undecided

Nonsense men!!



You are not a serious person.
I'm a full time cassava farmer!!
You are the set of people that look down on farmers! Wo I can buy you with money and feed your entire household as a farmer.

Mumu woman
Re: What Occupation Would Stop You From Dating Or Marrying Someone? by QuinModah(f): 1:03pm On Apr 21
undecided
43Ronin:
PA or secretary to Oga. Abeg carry your oga dick go one side

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