I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.

Pls advise me what to do pls.

Never ever mix business and pleasure. She has seen everything, what else is there to be afraid of?

Did you seek my advice before sleeping with her

Sack her

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel , there is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal, or the workers in the hotel workers respect me to the bone. Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she we say may may u are a very handsome guy o . during my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too . I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut we lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.
The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors . my supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel I told them I will handle the issue. Pls advise me what to do pls.

She most likely has proof you slept with her. You have to disgust her, so she can leave you alone.

Always avoid women who know your office or house if you don't intend to be serious with her. Every man should know this.

What were you thinking?

See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Many gals here will support the gal because most of them don't think.
They feel sex means I can do anything.

Bro give am suspension. 2 weeks.

If she come again and do anyhow give am 1 week extra.

Because she will do same to you if situation was reversed.

If I am the owner of the company I can sack you not because you had sex but because you can't get your shit together. You should know what to do. You no rape am na.

Nigerian women really weaponize sex ooo.
To them na tool of control.
Manager you timid
Wey you for change for am.
Madam I bought you drinks. I paid for the whole stuff. You agreed now it is over. You are not acting well again. Better change or else I will treat you as disgruntled staff.


Staff that you vetted and employed. You toast am she gree. I am sure you gave her money.
No whine me oo. She wants to be able to determine how others are. I know the thing she wants. She wants to be able to sack her colleagues and show them that she is in control. Lool

Isolation
Isolate her from the group
Anyone found with her gossiping
1 week suspension straight.
They will avoid her like plague
Her power is in the group
Now no one will want to be a part of her plans or whatever she wants to share.
She will know you mean business.

Finally avoid your workers pussy

You know that saying that you should never poop where you eat? This is the reason. At what point did you come to realise that sleeping with your staff is bad? Is it before or after sleeping with her?

Obviously she liked you and wanted something more, but your plan was to hit and run. You treated her bad and now you're surprised that she's disrespecting you.

What I'll suggest you do is to take her out again and apologize to her, because you've wronged her. If both of you are single and want to continue the relationship discreetly, its ok. But it must not be allowed to affect the job. Both of you should spell out the terms of the relationship. If it's something that cannot work for one reason or the other, then you should also be able to break it off in a civilised manner. If that is not possible one of you will have to leave the establishment.

Personally I'll prefer you leave (both as a matter of honour and as punishment for sleeping with someone under your care and supervision) instead of trying to force her out

Op, so after you chop her finish, you come realise sey e no good and una no go dey kpansh again?!

Dey play you hear.

Yugoslavia247:
See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Wow.
What's her crime?
Some of you will be worse than Idi Amin, Abacha and Hitler combined if given the opportunity to be in power

Samesame247:
Op, so after you chop her finish, you come realise sey e no good and una no go dey kpansh again?!

Dey play you hear.

The idiot even say she do am well lol

I don laugh miss road

How do u pple do dis? How do u people complain about losing ur respect afta sleeping wit a lady?

Can Neva be me!!! My respect dey always stay intact ooo no matter what

thesicilian:

Wow.
What's her crime?
Some of you will be worse than Idi Amin, Abacha and Hitler combined if given the opportunity to be in power

Her crime is that she stepped out of line.

That's definition of see finish, she have seen your Gbola so no more respect for you, next time you won't try that with your staff.

Ok

phorget:



Her crime is that she stepped out of line.

You can't maltreat someone and expect them not to react. If you don't understand this simple principle then you're not really ready for leadership

U didn't commit any crime

She is just stupid

Sack her

Mumu

BscHolder:
are you in any serious relationship?

why are you asking?

I know this post will soon hit front page and feminists will abuse you. They'll say you took advantage of her instead of she being the one who took advantage of you.

You wasted money buying barbecue 10k-20k, Hollandia 1.5k, paying for hotel, 20-25k, and her TP 5k. That is a total of 37-40k or more.

That is about $38. Let's just call it $40. Yes, it's small, but if you buy a meme crypto coin with that $40, in 2025, you may end up withdrawing more than a million Naira.

You missed this opportunity and still lost respect. If your wife finds out, you'll still lose your marriage. If the CEO of the hotel finds out, you may still lose your job. She didn't even give you a Mouth Action, but she don blow your spirit.

People will still blame you for not acting like Joseph.

She's a bad girl and you're an unfaithful husband. The only men that are meant to cheat are billionaires and multimillionaires.

My dear, if you sack her, she'll expose you and still find your wife and tell her.

If you had banged her well, she would've been worshipping you by now, but no, you laid on the bed and she did 80% of the work.

Most times, women respect a man based on how good he is in bed and how he can provide.

If any of them is missing, don't expect total respect.

The only option is for you to act like she doesn't exist, or continue having sex with her, but this time, deliver like a man or quit the job or sack her and lose your marriage.

The end.

Yeye man see wetin your prick done put u

Lol

Holluwhakemmy:
why are you asking?

don't mind all most all the men here have mental problem trust me

BscHolder:
I'm interested in friendship with you.
All these moments I've been nurturing affections for you via this forum

Eyah no vacancy

Were you a 2 second man? Say the truth here and let's shame the devil together.

On a lighter note, never mix business with pleasure. There are more beautiful ladies out there.

Holluwhakemmy:
Eyah no vacancy

ok then let's talk via mail

Sack her

Serves you right

orohbiro:
don't mind home most men here have mental problem trust me

I knew already. Thanks

Holluwhakemmy:
why are you asking?

He wants to record ur name in the list of single or engaged women of Nigeria.....


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