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If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 9:18am On Apr 19

If you're an highly intellectual person, then this post is for you.

Avoid TOXIC relationships!

Using myself as a case study,

Just one 'hard' word against me can make me restless or scatter my day.

Once I am mentally and emotionally stressed, it shows without my consent.

During my interview stage, the HR asked what tunes down my productivity and I said TOXIC environments.

Can you define that?

She asked.

I said, a place where nothing I do seem good enough and even doing the extra doesn't make any difference.

My wrongs are more capitalized than my rights and never forgotten...

I said, when I don't get appreciative comments or encouraging words when I don't seem to understand what next to do.....

Now, I used to think that nobody can make me uncomfortable if true then something is wrong with me.... it means my heart has gotten used to hurts and don't know Love.

It means, I have settled toxicity into my system.

Yesterday I had a situation, and I didn't know the energy followed me to work and affected my day...

I was fighting a war in my head and so I looked drained.... persons around noticed even after affirming myself.

You owe yourself as a high value person to avoid and walk away from relationships, environments that makes you second guess your abilities and loose confidence in yourself because it's just a matter of time, you'll loose yourself.

P.S Do you agree with me? Kindly share your thoughts in the comments section.

Fun fact: My Priority Love language is Words of Affirmation 🤭 Don't play!
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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by colossus91(m): 9:29am On Apr 19

Hmm

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Namaster: 9:47am On Apr 19

This entire post is NONSENSE!

The title says Highly Intellectual people. But body of your post describes a NEUROTIC and EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE person that is ULTRA NEEDY.

Plus if a single word of criticism can ruin your WHOLE day, you may be dealing with a case of EXTREMELY low self-esteem.

Work on that.

Plus you don't even need to be an intellectual juggernaut to AVOID toxic people. You just need common sense.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by oglalasioux(m): 10:06am On Apr 19

A highly intellectual person is supposed to do the opposite of your ideas. A highly intellectual person should rein in his or her emotions.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Peakdesign23(m): 10:19am On Apr 19

As an intellectual person this doesn’t make sense, I feel like you need to build your emotional capacity.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Elegantspiker(m): 11:15am On Apr 19

One of the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is the belief that one's work is terribly important - Bertrand Russell (1870 - 1916)

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Rexymania(m): 1:18pm On Apr 19

You're correct

Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by KingNom(m): 2:16pm On Apr 19

Hmmm

Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by silverlinen(m): 2:23pm On Apr 19

Damnnn

People dey para for here o

Most of those people up there, wey dey claim say them Sabi "rein their emotions in", are actually the ones with low self esteem.

Ehmm OP, if that's how you're, continue to do what works for you, and ignore those that affects your well-being and state of mind.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Nnaemiemax: 2:54pm On Apr 19

This post lacks the vital elements to be classified as one written by an intellectual person.

NB: I skipped 'highly' because that's a whole different level of intellect! undecided

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by toujurs: 2:59pm On Apr 19

Most of you women, who recite all these words of affirmation, Are emotionally traumatized and lack self confidence.

Instead of you all, to learn from your mistakes and take corrections to be a better person, you will rather decieve yourselves with words of affirmations.

What are you affirming, your bad behavior, or your selfish attitude. undecided

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Zonefree(m): 3:41pm On Apr 19

toujurs:
Most of you women, who recite all these words of affirmation, Are emotionally traumatized and lack self confidence.

Instead of you all, to learn from your mistakes and take corrections to be a better person, you will rather decieve yourselves with words of affirmations.

What are you affirming, your bad behavior, or your selfish attitude.

The person that introduced this nonsense "words of affirmation" to Nigerian girls will find it difficult to make Heaven.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Charliepecca(m): 5:19pm On Apr 19

A toxic environment will always drain you. I resigned from my job in an Airline because the environment was too toxic. From the top to the least, everyone gossips. I was a threat to them all because I was different.

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by Raddiesy47: 5:35pm On Apr 19

[quote author=lavylilly post=129518878][/quote]

Seriously trash na u b the toxic person ur write just proved it all

Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 4:53pm On Apr 20

Raddiesy47:

Seriously trash na u b the toxic person ur write just proved it all

Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 4:54pm On Apr 20

Rexymania:
You're correct

Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by EreluRoz: 4:54pm On Apr 20

Zonefree:

The person that introduced this nonsense "words of affirmation" to Nigerian girls will find it difficult to make Heaven.

Zonefree alaboshi

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Re: If You're An Highly Intellectual Person, Then This Post Is For You. by lavylilly: 10:16pm On Apr 22

Namaster:
This entire post is NONSENSE!

The title says Highly Intellectual people. But body of your post describes a NEUROTIC and EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE person that is ULTRA NEEDY.

Plus if a single word of criticism can ruin your WHOLE day, you may be dealing with a case of EXTREMELY low self-esteem.

Work on that.

Plus you don't even need to be an intellectual juggernaut to AVOID toxic people. You just need common sense.

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