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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by seguntijan(m): 2:30pm On Apr 30
That's why I laugh when Nigerian girls says Nigerian men are not romantic. The burdens you place on them is enough to take away any romantic thoughts on their head. Reasons you find Non-Nigerian aiming to have a Nigerian man.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by drimzsmoke(m): 2:30pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper


This post is old nah!!!😡😡😡😡😡

Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Hotzone(m): 2:34pm On Apr 30
Namaster:
Women are HILARIOUS! grin

From what she wrote, it's easy to infer she's been married for years and have also been employed for quite some time.

It is also easy to infer that this is the FIRST time she has done something like this. EVER!

Yet she's on social media forming good wife and EMERGENCY marriage counsellor.

Contributing to your own living expenses and the upkeep of your children should be the NORM. Not something that needs to be ADVERTISED on social media like some kind of unparalleled virtue.

Be like u have sense
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Btruth: 2:37pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper
nice piece 👍
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by GUNITGuy: 2:40pm On Apr 30
Is this for real ??like do women like this exist
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Gbadugbakun(m): 2:43pm On Apr 30
Akwamkpuruamu:
Evening. newspaper no de tire you.?
The older the wine, the better the taste.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by ffo(m): 2:49pm On Apr 30
immortalcrown:
If you are referring to girls like Jennyclay, those girls will not emulate her unless she is one of them pretending to be different. Social media do not change people. Social media may connect people to their role models. You role model is someone who is ahead of you in your chosen lane.

i disagree with you that SM does not change people. when people (esp Nigerians) see good things on SM, next thing is "must you bring it to SM" but when its a negative news, they are okay with that.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by JuanDeDios: 2:53pm On Apr 30
immortalcrown:
I must confess that your husband must have, in one way or another, motivated your action. How he treats you made you conclude that he deserves what you did to him. It takes two to tango.

But bringing this to social media makes your intention questionable. As a matter of fact, is this the first time you earned salary since you got married?

Namaster:
Women are HILARIOUS! grin

From what she wrote, it's easy to infer she's been married for years and have also been employed for quite some time.

It is also easy to infer that this is the FIRST time she has done something like this. EVER!

Yet she's on social media forming good wife and EMERGENCY marriage counsellor.

Contributing to your own living expenses and the upkeep of your children should be the NORM. Not something that needs to be ADVERTISED on social media like some kind of unparalleled virtue.
I think she was just trying to remind her fellow women to do the right thing.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Deogratiasfx: 2:54pm On Apr 30
immortalcrown:
I must confess that your husband must have, in one way or another, motivated your action. How he treats you made you conclude that he deserves what you did to him. It takes two to tango.

But bringing this to social media makes your intention questionable. As a matter of fact, is this the first time you earned salary since you got married?

You started very well but ended badly. Must u add the second paragraph?
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by victorazy(m): 3:07pm On Apr 30
Why are women avoiding this thread?
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by tweakstar: 3:12pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by olaJako(m): 3:13pm On Apr 30
I comment my reserve... If you have a twin as you lemme know
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by mrdharkchild(m): 3:18pm On Apr 30
Obakoolex:


If your parents did well in it you'll know it's an achievement.

Family of 5, mum and dad still alive and together. I have never been to funeral in my life before.
Don't compare my family to your street family.

I didn't just grow up, I was brought up

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Absuchat(m): 3:24pm On Apr 30
mrdharkchild:


Family of 5, mum and dad still alive and together.
I have never been to funeral in my life before.
Don't compare my family to your street family.

I was didn't just grow up, I was brought up
No one is likely to attend yours soon.... people have learnt to attend the funerals of only those that attended theirs. Better change this habit
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by yewit37486: 3:25pm On Apr 30
yesloaded:
How you take transformed from a man to woman amazed me

In 2021 u be man but now u don turn a woman grin

It's not the OP, he gave credit to the author at the bottom.
Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Charly68: 3:32pm On Apr 30
Such a man will be strong mentally and emotionally and there will been no complain in the other room ..Women should learn how to motivate their husband.. some men are dying silently while their wives are complaining bitterly
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by okoroemeka(m): 3:33pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper
if it is indeed you in the picture then I will not bother about your money,that smile is enough for me
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by AfonjaConehead: 3:38pm On Apr 30
I really don't gbadun this...I would love to be the one paying for everything....my beloved woman and kids are the ones I should be living for primarily

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Maurindo(m): 3:42pm On Apr 30
Some women do even more than this and we never get to read about them.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by mrdharkchild(m): 3:49pm On Apr 30
Absuchat:

No one is likely to attend yours soon.... people have learnt to attend the funerals of only those that attended theirs. Better change this habit

Who cares?

Do you think the dead know about their funerals?

Put me in the ground when I die, I don't care if anyone comes, I'm either making heaven or hell, the dead don't care about who comes for a funeral or who doesn't come.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by SSpeter(m): 3:55pm On Apr 30
Bimpe29:
In as much as I am appreciative of her understanding and love, I hold the view of men are wholly responsible for the household needs. However, women are truly our helpers but the responsibility is that of the men.
that was in the past, today, whoever earns more should take up more responsibility. I only advise men to try and earn more but if wealth favors the wife, then she takes more responsibility.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Obakoolex(m): 4:09pm On Apr 30
mrdharkchild:


Family of 5, mum and dad still alive and together. I have never been to funeral in my life before.
Don't compare my family to your street family.

I didn't just grow up, I was brought up

That you've never been to a funeral service before shows am talking to a kid so I understand whatever frustration you might have as a child growing up not yet realizing what a great privilege it is to have a stable family.
Well when you become an adult you will definitely realize that marriage at some point is an achievement.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Afolue(m): 4:13pm On Apr 30
What’s the big deal if he is the sole provider? No food for lazy man, but every lazy woman dey see food chop. No man can beat that. Period!
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Bimpe29: 4:24pm On Apr 30
SSpeter:
that was in the past, today, whoever earns more should take up more responsibility. I only advise men to try and earn more but if wealth favors the wife, then she takes more responsibility.
Yes ooo 😃
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Allisgud: 4:25pm On Apr 30
Any single lady who welcome this motion and have such attitudes abeg DM now,let us start a serious relationship
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Absuchat(m): 4:27pm On Apr 30
mrdharkchild:


Who cares?

Do you think the dead know about their funerals?

Put me in the ground when I die , I don't care if anyone comes, I'm either making heaven or hell, the dead don't care about who comes for a funeral or who doesn't come.

I'm ready to do that.... please don't keep me waiting grin
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Chemlite: 4:37pm On Apr 30
Just when I thought of commending the woman, my mind recalled what my former neighbour told me.

In her words " I set trap for my husband, and I'm fall".
She continued, I hand -over my entire profits from my business for the month to am. I tell say na my support, im happy well well, not knowing say na "trap".

I come go meet am for the evening to collect money buy things before him the whole money don finish.
At least na im hand the money dey!

I couldn't make any input to the discussion neither do I understand what prompted such family issue, when we were actually discussing business and customers behavior.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by AlphaNugget(m): 4:41pm On Apr 30
mrdharkchild:
Marriage no be achievement abeg!!
You should have deleted this post few minutes after you posted it......but no, you decided to show your stupidity to the whole fu*king world!!!

Shame on you
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by AlphaNugget(m): 4:42pm On Apr 30
Dundalk:
AlphaNugget come and take your guy here..

😡😡🤡
That guy na bst

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Juoflife1(f): 4:50pm On Apr 30
Mtcheeeeeew
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by nkemjacob2(m): 4:52pm On Apr 30
These sort of women are not in the market. What we have now is urgent 2k and hook babe. Begging up and down with lack of wisdom.

If U see this sort of women...... guys. Pls borrow money and pay for her bride price even if you don't have any for the now.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by theredaddy: 4:56pm On Apr 30
[quote author=mrdharkchild post=129710385]Marriage no be achievement abeg!!
[/quote

which ever property or thing you consider an achievement take a picture, frame it and hang it in your living room.

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