thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

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MJos11:
But God when are you sending my own woman helper naaaa 😞

Don't worry there's a ronny for you somewhere in this world

She will go some day and if she's saying she's still young bla bla bla then her mind is still outside to continue doing sisi

jaxxy:


The example u gave are elementary level issues u should have known how to sort out from ure dating period. Abi una no dey date?


A couple isn't ready for marriage if they don't know how to resolve basic issues and conflicts.

They must also not not mandatory depending on the dating experience and level of each partner know how to resolve major conflicts in record time.

Most people have more issues when they are married. Most people don't see the true nature of their wife when they dating. Sometimes you will wonder if you dated. eg. Women will like your friends and family during dating, when you marry them thats when your friends and family will be bad for you.

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Is your wife the Breadwinner of your Family?

She is either a patient of ignorance or has her mind fixed on another man outside. If the former is the case, organise good counselling sessions for her, but if the latter is the case, I'm afraid, you lost the woman you call your wife long time ago.

If this happens in marriage it simply means, either the woman in question is having another man whom she loves more than the husband or she prefers going back to her parent's house

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

just tell her to leave,Na so my ex- wife start own wahala,but she later go and after three weeks she was begging me to accept her back weerey dey disguise nibo.

Have she forgotten the way to her father house abi na transport she no get?.

Wetin de worry this one, she wan run away abi she wan vanish?

Oga order Uber for her ni...

When she old she go come back ni.. since she is still young.

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Dazz hull...

Hmmm,there's no doubt, somebody,somewhere is encouraging her seriously. Peradventure, he may be telling her, 'she is still young'according to her statement.I want to ask if she's contributing 50% in the house? Or, is she the one who is authoritative ? All these are the reasons women gain advantage over the husband. Nonetheless, identify causes of your argument with her.Call her in the zero hour in the night and bear your mind over her incessant nagging. Where these fail, let her go for a leave of absence for sometimes. I would never encourage you to divorce her as a Christian, God hate being put away.

She go soon find excuse leave one day
Na you need to prepare your mind now
No let am shock you
She go soon leave as she use to threaten

ogunsbanjul:
If this happens in marriage it simply means, either the woman in question is having another man whom she loves more than the husband or she prefers going back to her parent's house

Its not always black and white. The problem is; some women want you to enter their head or mind and read what they want that moment in time. If they don't get that it's war.

Even if you are doing what the want, the one time you failed to do it will take you to square one. You will hear thing like you never do this or that, or tell me this and that.

Woman wey don born dey do shakara
Allow her to enter street
Body go tell her

Prepare for plan B.
She's going to leave you.

Female thoughts are very unstable.

No need stressing yourself over her shenanigans.
Anytime she threatens to pack out and after, give her 3month allowance in full. Inform her parents her decision ignore pleas from them .

Put your mind at rest, focus & enjoy your daily job hangout with buddies or girlfriends.

When her brain reset on it's own accord she will contact you with deep remorse. If not abeg begin replanning your future . Without any fault from you, never beg a woman either a wife or girlfriend to remain with you for life. If you do, your future will be filled with regrets daily.

Then let her go naa. Please immediately she leaves, even if you don't have a girl friend, buy some woman stuffs like earrings, lipstick or slippers at home, So that she will understand replacement is on the way.

Next time, allow her to leave, she is blackmailing you...is she the one paying rent.


Allow her to leave, call her bluffs... she get people wey dey tast her outside na dem dey give am moralle, trust me

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Anytime she threatens to leave, simply help her pack her stuffs and throw everything out. Please let her know she’s not coming back.

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

This one don use him money marry nonsense Marry matured ladies una no wan hear.

She is manipulating you to always do her bidding. Hold your mind one day and tell her to leave. Insist on it. Make her and her people beg. Then the nonsense will stop. Who have the time for second hand wey original full everywhere!

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

You already know the solution to your issue. When you're ready you will tell her to leave. I wonder how young men to the level of women and wives threatening they will leave you after marriage, na woman suppose dey fear make the man no drive am comot. No one wants to leave a man with value, and it's not just money. Money follow o but u don't need to be wealthy. If u are making progress, getting better as a human being, Finances, career, network, personality, well being..mur woman go fall in line

Let her go but make sure you do video so that she will not be telling people that you are the one that send her away and any time she start to do the leaves do like you are making calls like Faith you can come now my wife is leaving me alone

You red my mind. Very necessary at this point.

madridguy:
My only be say make this your wife and her mother no kill you one day

Meanwhile, I hope you don finally do your daughter's DNA.

I don't want to say anything concerning your wife now but make you enter transfer market for now make you dey shadow for replacement.

bemeruca:


Most people have more issues when they are married. Most people don't see the true nature of their wife when they dating. Sometimes you will wonder if you dated. eg. Women will like your friends and family during dating, when you marry them thats when your friends and family will be bad for you.

yes u are very correct. its not as easy road to understand human beings talkless of a woman.

A man should know a woman's 1st thought after knowing u is how to manipulate u. She thinks this way consciously and unconsciously.

A man's 1st duty to a woman is to know when she is manipulating u and decide whether to accept or reject it.

This is a key to male and female interactions.

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Here's my 2cents, next time she threatens, show her the door.

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat every time we have issues

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Stop begging her to stay. Let her go if she wants to go.
Don't let any woman take away your masculinity. You are the man. If you keep begging her, she keeps doing it and disrespecting you.
Don't allow her riddle you.
Tell her if she leaves, then you'll go and Marry another woman, moreover you're a man, women will still come to you. And watch her reaction.

Please go to twitter and follow "John Doe". Read and study all his posts. Even send him a DM, he will respond

Next time she threaten u/pack her 🎒
Just maintain/sidon dey look.Oncr she leave,if light dey,abeg! play ur favourite music,buy your cold drink,and drink away your trouble and dance 🕺 join jare.Dnt accept apology from anybody. Even if ur papa use the your village deity beg u nor gree .Such fellow can poison u

Somebody is deceiving her outside. Please be man enough to put her to where she belongs. It is nonsensical for a woman to be doing such . Except you have made her the bread winner of the home .

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

First of all, it is not “my child” it is “our child “ .

I am saying that to say, you People should not come and use your own to spoil that of a child that did not ask to be born. Whatever you decide, children should not be used as a weapon and they should have access to both parents in an atmosphere of peace.

Now, as per you wife, pregnancy has been known to affect people in different ways. Read up on post partum, it might help you understand her Better.

don’t tell her to go. But tell her that you are tired, of the threats. She should stop threatening and do what she pleases , IF she pleases.

My brother,if I should advise you I will definitely ask you to let her leave the very next time she do such thing...let her pack her things and go don't let her feel like a queen, begging her to stay will definitely put you under marital bondage...let her leave but make sure you do DNA ....