https://www.nairaland.com/8077051/boyfriend-married-another-lady-claims/1#129711189.The people who claim that I am an opportunist, social climber, and lazy are the reason I am writing this. Am I truly such a sloth? for a student who pursued independent training while in college. For the previous three years, my partner has been employed, but I have never requested financial assistance. I've always thought that a man's duty is to love, take care of, and defend his woman. Not a single time do I feel entitled to her income; I pay my dues and bills

Before you hang me, my intended migrating partner and I truly filed for individual student visas. She was lucky enough to be admitted, but I was turned down. My friend, seeing my efforts, thought I had potential and that we could combine our resources, get married, and relocate; after that, I could follow my own path if I didn't want to live with her. I am paying eighty percent of the total cost of her studies. Could you please explain to me how I'm utilizing women to achieve my goals? Maybe it is wrong for me to obey this quote: 'When life gives you lemons, make lemonade'

My now-ex is a girl that I innately love and admire. We have the best friendship and relationship ever. Even if I go above and beyond to win the family over to my side, her dad still believes that I'm not good enough. I essentially take no short cuts when it comes to improving my financial situation and personal growth. I never wait around to hang out with anyone. Those calling me names should have their heads examined.

It's not my fault that I came out of a polygamous home, but her dad is uncomfortable with me doing so. I accepted his decision since I wasn't prepared to wed a woman without her father's approval, but if she can play her role and make her dad comfortable with me, I love her enough to do anything to be with her. I only need a little respect for myself.

As I write this, I'm prepared to give up on the idea of moving overseas for my sweetie, if only her family would accept me for who I am. I know the other lady will find this difficult, but she is a good friend who will understand. Please be aware that I gave my consent to love and marry her without being aware of her job or her family's wealth; all I did was fall in love with my girl for who she is, not for what she has or her background. Please read both of our stories; if you have any helpful advice, please share it with me.