I thank God for giving me the opportunity to be alive today, many have lost their lives and is not by our power but by His grace.
I really appreciate GOD for this opportunity given to me and I pray to GOD that I witness more of it
NAIRALANDERS, please help me appreciate GOD.

Happy Birthday.

Long life and prosperity.

40, wao, must be really scary.

Happy Birthday

incogni2o:
Happy Birthday.

Long life and prosperity.

40, wao, must be really scary.

Thank you very much sir, I really appreciate it.

sofeo:
Happy Birthday

Thank you very much sir.

Happy birthday to you, more good life to come 🙏

Justkatty:
Happy birthday to you, more good life to come 🙏

Thank you very much ma, I really appreciate it.

Happy birthday, wishing you LLnP in Jesus name.

Telltruth123:
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to be alive today, many have lost their lives and is not by our power but by His grace.
I really appreciate GOD for this opportunity given to me and I pray to GOD that I witness more of it
NAIRALANDERS, please help me appreciate GOD.

congrats my brother

Please I like to ask u some questions though not yet 40

We’re u able to achieve all your set goals?
Like goals u set before 40?
Any health challenge?
Any life touching experience as regards marriage n raising children?
Any major problem that shook u to the root?


I just want to know

Omo, congratulations to you for making it to 40
I hope you have given your life to Christ…

Sharpsharp00123:
congrats my brother

Please I like to ask u some questions though not yet 40

We’re u able to achieve all your set goals?
Like goals u set before 40?
Any health challenge?
Any life touching experience as regards marriage n raising children?
Any major problem that shook u to the root?


I just want to know

I think it's really unhealthy to set rigid time goals for milestone achievements. No one knows tomorrow and it's out of our hands really. You can crush 80% goals only to fall ill or get fired or the economy goes bust and you feel you failed.

I think it's better to line goals up and achieve one at a time. That gives a more positive outlook of what your success is at a point in time rather than what you weren't able to achieve.

Who set all these lifetime goals really? Hearsay or tradition?

laivwire:

I think it's really unhealthy to set rigid time goals for milestone achievements. No one knows tomorrow and it's out of our hands really. You can crush 80% goals only to fall ill or get fired or the economy goes bust and you feel you failed.

I think it's better to line goals up and achieve one at a time. That gives a more positive outlook of what your success at a point in time rather than what you weren't able to achieve.

Who set all these lifetime goals really? Hearsay or tradition?

God bless u

40 sounds big.


Happy birthday bro.....

What does it feel like been 40?

If you're gonna change anything what would it be?

Any advise to a younger self in your late 20s?

Does it really feel old been 40?

Telltruth123:
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to be alive today, many have lost their lives and is not by our power but by His grace.
I really appreciate GOD for this opportunity given to me and I pray to GOD that I witness more of it
NAIRALANDERS, please help me appreciate GOD.

Sharpsharp00123:
congrats my brother

Please I like to ask u some questions though not yet 40

We’re u able to achieve all your set goals?
Like goals u set before 40?
Any health challenge?
Any life touching experience as regards marriage n raising children?
Any major problem that shook u to the root?


I just want to know

Firstly, I am a woman and a graduate of Accounting. I am married with children.
The goal I set for myself is to have my own business and stop salary work by the time I reach 40 years but I could not achieve it because of the following reasons:
1. Underemployment- my salary hardly cover transport and feeding despite my effort to get better job, it is just a little bit better.

2. Marriage Challenges: husband marring additional two wifes when we are still struggling in a rented apartment and me carrying the major expenses, the other wifes have left him, they couldn't endure. When I try to take a break at my parents house, my mummy would come out of the house and disgrace me Infront of the house, I had to go back and endure.

3 No parental Support - even before I got married what my parents were interested is my salary and immediately I got married,they left me with my faith.
4. Closest people I entrusted with the little money I saved doing business with them swindled my money I did not recover a penny .I had to start from scratch.
By the grace of God, I don't have any health challenges.

What I have learned are as follows:
1. Be close to GOD, HE is the director of the universe.
2. Trust no one, your parents can disappoint you, your partner can disappoint you, anybody close to you can disappoint you.

3. Immediately you start work, cultivate the habit of saving so that you will have something to fall back on, as a salary earner save before spending and learn the skill of business because the income is unlimited.

4. Don't do pass your self, nobody cares . don't give yourself unnecessary pressure.
5 Only you can make yourself happy.

I think with the little I have mentioned, I have been able to contribute something.
Thank you.

Oracleee:
40 sounds big.


Happy birthday bro.....

What does it feel like been 40?

If you're gonna change anything what would it be?

Any advise to a younger self in your late 20s?

Does it really feel old been 40?

Thank you very much.

I have replied on the thread,

I am a year older than u and I bet u,u still have bright future ahead of u only if u could work more and start rethinking the areas u failed and the areas u did well and in so doing,u might get better before u clock 50.

I like ur resilience but mine is,ever since I turned 40,I have become very lazy,I now hate going to the office,although I get paid monthly may be because I get income from other sources but the truth is, 40years has indeed humbled me and has made me look back and realised my past mistakes and past lucks too.

Good to hear u out and love the fact u stayed back for ur children there is nothing like it honestly.

Telltruth123:

Firstly, I am a woman and a graduate of Accounting. I am married with children.
The goal I set for myself is to have my own business and stop salary work by the time I reach 40 years but I could not achieve it because of the following reasons:
1. Underemployment- my salary hardly cover transport and feeding despite my effort to get better job, it is just a little bit better.

2. Marriage Challenges: husband marring additional two wifes when we are still struggling in a rented apartment and me carrying the major expenses, the other wifes have left him, they couldn't endure. When I try to take a break at my parents house, my mummy would come out of the house and disgrace me Infront of the house, I had to go back and endure.

3 No parental Support - even before I got married what my parents were interested is my salary and immediately I got married,they left me with my faith.
4. Closest people I entrusted with the little money I saved doing business with them swindled my money I did not recover a penny .I had to start from scratch.
By the grace of God, I don't have any health challenges.

What I have learned are as follows:
1. Be close to GOD, HE is the director of the universe.
2. Trust no one, your parents can disappoint you, your partner can disappoint you, anybody close to you can disappoint you.

3. Immediately you start work, cultivate the habit of saving so that you will have something to fall back on, as a salary earner save before spending and learn the skill of business because the income is unlimited.

4. Don't do pass your self, nobody cares . don't give yourself unnecessary pressure.
5 Only you can make yourself happy.

I think with the little I have mentioned, I have been able to contribute something.
Thank you.

Telltruth123:

Firstly, I am a woman and a graduate of Accounting. I am married with children.
The goal I set for myself is to have my own business and stop salary work by the time I reach 40 years but I could not achieve it because of the following reasons:
1. Underemployment- my salary hardly cover transport and feeding despite my effort to get better job, it is just a little bit better.

2. Marriage Challenges: husband marring additional two wifes when we are still struggling in a rented apartment and me carrying the major expenses, the other wifes have left him, they couldn't endure. When I try to take a break at my parents house, my mummy would come out of the house and disgrace me Infront of the house, I had to go back and endure.

3 No parental Support - even before I got married what my parents were interested is my salary and immediately I got married,they left me with my faith.
4. Closest people I entrusted with the little money I saved doing business with them swindled my money I did not recover a penny .I had to start from scratch.
By the grace of God, I don't have any health challenges.

What I have learned are as follows:
1. Be close to GOD, HE is the director of the universe.
2. Trust no one, your parents can disappoint you, your partner can disappoint you, anybody close to you can disappoint you.

3. Immediately you start work, cultivate the habit of saving so that you will have something to fall back on, as a salary earner save before spending and learn the skill of business because the income is unlimited.

4. Don't do pass your self, nobody cares . don't give yourself unnecessary pressure.
5 Only you can make yourself happy.

I think with the little I have mentioned, I have been able to contribute something.
Thank you.

Wow..... Any regrets? Never knew the moniker is a female though.

Nice2023:
I am a year older than u and I bet u,u still have bright future ahead of u only if u could work more and start rethinking the rates u failed and the areas u did well and in so doing,u might get it better before u clock 50.

I like ur resilience but mine is,ever since I became 40,I have become very lazy,I now hate going to the office,although I get paid monthly may be because I make alot of money from my side income but the truth 40years has indeed humbled me and has made to look and realised my past mistakes and past lucks too.

Good to hear u out and love the fact u stayed back for ur children there is nothing like it honestly.

Thank you very much sir, I really appreciate your input.

Oracleee:


Wow..... Any regrets? Never knew the moniker is a female though.

I have just posted it on the thread to avoid repetition.

Telltruth123:

Firstly, I am a woman and a graduate of Accounting. I am married with children.
The goal I set for myself is to have my own business and stop salary work by the time I reach 40 years but I could not achieve it because of the following reasons:
1. Underemployment- my salary hardly cover transport and feeding despite my effort to get better job, it is just a little bit better.

2. Marriage Challenges: husband marring additional two wifes when we are still struggling in a rented apartment and me carrying the major expenses, the other wifes have left him, they couldn't endure. When I try to take a break at my parents house, my mummy would come out of the house and disgrace me Infront of the house, I had to go back and endure.

3 No parental Support - even before I got married what my parents were interested is my salary and immediately I got married,they left me with my faith.
4. Closest people I entrusted with the little money I saved doing business with them swindled my money I did not recover a penny .I had to start from scratch.
By the grace of God, I don't have any health challenges.

What I have learned are as follows:
1. Be close to GOD, HE is the director of the universe.
2. Trust no one, your parents can disappoint you, your partner can disappoint you, anybody close to you can disappoint you.

3. Immediately you start work, cultivate the habit of saving so that you will have something to fall back on, as a salary earner save before spending and learn the skill of business because the income is unlimited.

4. Don't do pass your self, nobody cares . don't give yourself unnecessary pressure.
5 Only you can make yourself happy.

I think with the little I have mentioned, I have been able to contribute something.
Thank you.

life no b play ooo

This your explanation carry me go another realm, like seriously life isn’t a bed of roses truly

Everyone gat a story to tell, I pray we overcome our challenges in Jesus name

God bless u

Telltruth123:
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to be alive today, many have lost their lives and is not by our power but by His grace.
I really appreciate GOD for this opportunity given to me and I pray to GOD that I witness more of it
NAIRALANDERS, please help me appreciate GOD.

Happy birthday and congratulations on getting to the 4th floor.
Long life and prosperity.

Happy Birthday Love

Hop say God Don bless you with hse

HBD NIGGA

Happy Birthday

Happy birthday to you.
At 40 i don't pray to have wife and kids and of course baggages of problems like you.
At forty i have just few goals to achieve :
.
To have enough in my bank account.
To live my life my way and by my own rules.
To be very far from negativity in every form be it family or friends.
To still be able to enjoy palm oiled rice and beans with action bitters

Telltruth123:
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to be alive today, many have lost their lives and is not by our power but by His grace.
I really appreciate GOD for this opportunity given to me and I pray to GOD that I witness more of it
NAIRALANDERS, please help me appreciate GOD.

happy birthday to you Sir


Living long is up to you 🎉🎉🎉

Telltruth123:

Firstly, I am a woman and a graduate of Accounting. I am married with children.
The goal I set for myself is to have my own business and stop salary work by the time I reach 40 years but I could not achieve it because of the following reasons:
1. Underemployment- my salary hardly cover transport and feeding despite my effort to get better job, it is just a little bit better.

2. Marriage Challenges: husband marring additional two wifes when we are still struggling in a rented apartment and me carrying the major expenses, the other wifes have left him, they couldn't endure. When I try to take a break at my parents house, my mummy would come out of the house and disgrace me Infront of the house, I had to go back and endure.

3 No parental Support - even before I got married what my parents were interested is my salary and immediately I got married,they left me with my faith.
4. Closest people I entrusted with the little money I saved doing business with them swindled my money I did not recover a penny .I had to start from scratch.
By the grace of God, I don't have any health challenges.

What I have learned are as follows:
1. Be close to GOD, HE is the director of the universe.
2. Trust no one, your parents can disappoint you, your partner can disappoint you, anybody close to you can disappoint you.

3. Immediately you start work, cultivate the habit of saving so that you will have something to fall back on, as a salary earner save before spending and learn the skill of business because the income is unlimited.

4. Don't do pass your self, nobody cares . don't give yourself unnecessary pressure.
5 Only you can make yourself happy.

I think with the little I have mentioned, I have been able to contribute something.
Thank you.

Had same dream as you to stop working @40. Irhough it was overtaking by other events. But we move....God got us.

Happy Birthday

Telltruth123:

I have just posted it on the thread to avoid repetition.

Congratulations ma'am. It is not easy to reach 2 score age wise.

You have really come along way and most importantly you had kids to show for your journey so far.

Though not close to your age, but life has also happened to most of us. Being responsible (ability to cater for my needs in my little way and little support other there) is only possible for me approximately 3 years ago. Before then, it was total struggle and brokeness. Not there yet, but now is better than the previous few decades of my life.

I still thank God for gift of life and good health over all of us. Hopefully, to get settled down with partner with positive outlook to future without being too materialistic.

Nice2023:
I am a year older than u and I bet u,u still have bright future ahead of u only if u could work more and start rethinking the areas u failed and the areas u did well and in so doing,u might get better before u clock 50.

I like ur resilience but mine is,ever since I turned 40,I have become very lazy,I now hate going to the office,although I get paid monthly may be because I get income from other sources but the truth is, 40years has indeed humbled me and has made me look back and realised my past mistakes and past lucks too.

Good to hear u out and love the fact u stayed back for ur children there is nothing like it honestly.

I'll be 32 this year and i already feel this way. What a life

Llnp many happy returns


Should I send you my account number