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I Am Trying To Understand My Life by 1000Capacity: 11:07pm On May 10
Please don't judge me.
2 days ago, I met a young lady who. at first came up as a younger beautiful woman.
She noticed I was a reserved shy guy and initiated talks, I kinda liked her vibes and we exchanged contacts. Minutes into our talk, she told me she was a single mother.


That night, I kept thinking about her and I had to text her to ask if she was home. I discovered she kept infusing her daughter into every conversation we had. The following morning, I called her again, to check on her.

I summoned the courage and tried to invite her over. But she stylishly dogged the convo and said she even wanted to visit mall to get ice cream and that she has just gone to drop her bby in school. As broke boy wey get OT, I decided to divert the convon about her child.

She told me she was 2 years old and it's been very tough coping with a lot of things. At the back of my mind, I was like "am I the father of the baby?"
Well some how, by a stroke of luck I was able to convince her to come to my place.

When I saw her coming down from the bike, everybody was looking at her. She was light skinned and wore a leggings that brought out her curvy physic and a short top showing her fair flat tummy. She was so fair in complexion and her feet was very fair and beautiful.

I felt uneasy with the dressing kinda but I still hugged her because I felt like a man should b bold. When we got home, I was quick to tell her how beautiful she was but i ended it with she could have worn something less revealing tho.

She flared up and asked if I wanted her to dress like alhaja. After all that, she said she wanted a drink. I asked if it was Pepsi or coke. She looked at me with disgust and laughed. She told me she wants gin or vodka.
Well I went and got small bottle of imperial gin and Pepsi. Within 30 minutes she had finished it but I figured it really put her in the mood to talk and open up.

Now the problem is this, she kept giving me all these "ashawo vibes". Someone called her and complained about her posts on WhatsApp. She is always posting phonography. Then she she dropped the call, I saw a group on her WhatsApp. She said it's a group where people hookup each other. I was like, "of you are not on of them, what are you doing with them?" she laughed and said it was just a group.

Another person called her. In the convon, it was obvious she had gone to meet the person in a hotel but she did not agree for the person to have sex with her.. She was saying the person has changed towards her because she did not allow the person to sex her. The man dropped the call in anger.

I mean doesn't all this point to one fact?

She told me alot of men has broken her heart and she wasn't ready for any relationship. She told me about some of her exes and how the are still in contact. But since she left yesterday, all my room has been smelling of her of her fragrance. I can't stop thinking about her. She has called me like 4 times now. I don't know what to do
Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by Pussyisgud: 11:12pm On May 10
Werey alakori, won ti se e

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Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by Starz825(m): 11:25pm On May 10
Bro be true to yourself...

Do you want her ?

Cos for me ... I don't see a responsible lady here ..I might be wrong

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Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by Abeycityng(m): 11:46pm On May 10
One thousand capacity!! Use the advice above mine
Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by Dundalk(m): 11:52pm On May 10
grin grin

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Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by Lalami3232(m): 11:58pm On May 10
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Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by longetivity(m): 12:02am On May 11
I dedicate DOOM by Olamide to you.
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Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:35am On May 11
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Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by BigYash: 12:57am On May 11
This Your matter don enter penalty kick.. You wan take olosho serious cux you are shy or what? When she finishes with you,you will be bold. Those her doings are what we call manipulations.. And she is fencing your mind on her already.. You’re about to be caged,heartbroken and ruined.. No talk say I no advice you o

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Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by Mikespecialone(m): 1:35am On May 11
God’s precious gift to you ..... You dey find toto and you see toto now you r confused and don’t know what to do , I no know the kind advice I won give you now
Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by Styluss: 7:46am On May 11
1000Capacity:
Please don't judge me.to do
single mothers are dangerous to be with, I assure you that she have nothing less than 25 body counts. They are the easiest to bed, very manipulative! Don’t waste your time, chop your own and clean mouth bro!

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Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by laivwire(m): 6:26pm On May 11
That lady isn't looking for love, she's looking for a cash cow...and for sure, single mothers are smart as hell.

Don't think you will chop and run easy. Its either you chop and spend very well or you chop and commit.

But tbh, single mothers with sense are cool. They are mature, caring, sabi cook and clean house well. Just don't think you can outsmart her easily.
Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by 1000Capacity: 9:24pm On May 11
laivwire:
That lady isn't looking for love, she's looking for a cash cow...and for sure, single mothers are smart as hell.

Don't think you will chop and run easy. You either you chop and spend very well or you chop and commit.

But tbh, single mothers with sense are cool. They are mature, caring, sabi cook and clean house well. Just don't think you can outsmart her easily.

I am learning fast. Thumbs up
Re: I Am Trying To Understand My Life by wizrose(m): 10:30pm On May 11
1000Capacity:
Please don't judge me.
2 days ago, I met a young lady who. at first came up as a younger beautiful woman.
She noticed I was a reserved shy guy and initiated talks, I kinda liked her vibes and we exchanged contacts. Minutes into our talk, she told me she was a single mother.


That night, I kept thinking about her and I had to text her to ask if she was home. I discovered she kept infusing her daughter into every conversation we had. The following morning, I called her again, to check on her.

I summoned the courage and tried to invite her over. But she stylishly dogged the convo and said she even wanted to visit mall to get ice cream and that she has just gone to drop her bby in school. As broke boy wey get OT, I decided to divert the convon about her child.

She told me she was 2 years old and it's been very tough coping with a lot of things. At the back of my mind, I was like "am I the father of the baby?"
Well some how, by a stroke of luck I was able to convince her to come to my place.

When I saw her coming down from the bike, everybody was looking at her. She was light skinned and wore a leggings that brought out her curvy physic and a short top showing her fair flat tummy. She was so fair in complexion and her feet was very fair and beautiful.

I felt uneasy with the dressing kinda but I still hugged her because I felt like a man should b bold. When we got home, I was quick to tell her how beautiful she was but i ended it with she could have worn something less revealing tho.

She flared up and asked if I wanted her to dress like alhaja. After all that, she said she wanted a drink. I asked if it was Pepsi or coke. She looked at me with disgust and laughed. She told me she wants gin or vodka.
Well I went and got small bottle of imperial gin and Pepsi. Within 30 minutes she had finished it but I figured it really put her in the mood to talk and open up.

Now the problem is this, she kept giving me all these "ashawo vibes". Someone called her and complained about her posts on WhatsApp. She is always posting phonography. Then she she dropped the call, I saw a group on her WhatsApp. She said it's a group where people hookup each other. I was like, "of you are not on of them, what are you doing with them?" she laughed and said it was just a group.

Another person called her. In the convon, it was obvious she had gone to meet the person in a hotel but she did not agree for the person to have sex with her.. She was saying the person has changed towards her because she did not allow the person to sex her. The man dropped the call in anger.

I mean doesn't all this point to one fact?

She told me alot of men has broken her heart and she wasn't ready for any relationship. She told me about some of her exes and how the are still in contact. But since she left yesterday, all my room has been smelling of her of her fragrance. I can't stop thinking about her. She has called me like 4 times now. I don't know what to do



You don't even no what you want confused guy undecided

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