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Well, one thing about being a celebrity is that marriage doesn't come easy. whether you're a man or woman. You'll meet tons of women and men but the problem is that most times they'll love you for what you are (a star) and not for who you are (your plain self without all the cash).

So it's nice once in a while as a celebrity/popular person to meet someone who doesn't even know you're famous or exist and get that person to fall in love with, then you know you've scored big time. I guess that's what he and a lot of guys there are facing. Believe you me, I know fully well what I'm saying because I've had the experience.

I met this chick on Easter Sunday, and you know I was with my ride and I had some cash to spare...plus my flow was good (as 50 said I told the chick whatever she wanted to hear). you bet I got her, but man sustaining such a relationship was just beyond me. because she had this kind of notion that I'm a rich guy...and I ain't like that man.

Anyway I wish everybody finds true love in their life time. P.Diddy's affair with Jennifer Lopez didn't last because he had a criminal charge then and J.Lo's family thought it was best for them to split as her music career was just taking off then. You know they wanted the 100% positivity thing for her, but P.Diddy can get any girl he wants right now. It's just to get the right one.

Look , the problem there is that there is no love in the first place. the lady or the man which ever way is there just because of the riches or becuase you are a star. and secondly, there is no care or attention due to the nature of work, business or duty from the man or woman in which ever way from both.

Successful Businessmen are usually much, much richer than music/movie/TV stars, and yet they often have long, healthy marriage. Bill gates, the richest man in the world, is quite happily married. If you look at the divorce rate among the 40 richest people in the world, it is not much different from the divorce rate in the general population.

If rich businessmen who are hundreds of times richer than Puff Daddy can stay married, why can't Puff Daddy stay married? No, the problem is not their money. When you subtract the expenses of their celebrity lifestyle, how much do they have left? And do they even know how to manage the money?

I think the problem is the stress level of their work. Afterall doctors are reputed to be the professionals with the highest divorce rate. Maybe they have no time to develop emotional maturity.

One of the failures are the press and fans. They start spreading gossip and then the whole thing escalates. And then they are pressured by the press and paparazzis. I mean but if they really love each other they should not let themsleves be driven to destruction but we are all humans and have our weakness. It is only the stongest that survive. That is why I love celebrities that sticks with the same partner.

I quite agree with Chigszy, but sometimes celebrities are surrounded by too many people who pretend to love them. And this may make the celebrity to be confused and thereby marry the wrong person who may later on, seek for a divorce (by that time, perhaps, he may have equally made himself popular by marrying a celebrity) .

I don't think they marry for love. It's always a 60 year old lady getting married to the 21 year old guy.
they marry 4 money usually. anything that'll get them more wealth like they don't got enough.

I in person will never want to marry a celebrity 4 wat ever reason. Unless the person is really ready to face problems in his life by struggling with alot of such advances, they themselfs are not faithfull to themselfs not to talk of being faithfull 2 their spouses n that gets them into divorce marriage divorce marriage.
Another thing is that most celebreties are filled with pride cos they feel they will always find someone 2 hookup with, they are always not submissiver 2 their apouses.

Insecurities, jealousies, extremely busy lives, a little bit of selfishness, seeing 'better' ppl out there.

thing is,most celebrities walk with their head in the clouds...

Oh, yeah, and pride!!!

they al feel really big to be treated anyhow afterall they are celebrities

i think all relationships have their problems but celebrities have theirs publicised more because well, they are stars and more in the face of the world. i really dont think they have a higher share of relationship difficulties. they dont have to be stars before being proud and all that.

I have wondered about this issue before now- o. Honestly I don't know. May be pride on the sides of the celebrities.

Celebrities maariage never last, do they?

Have you seen SHREK (Movie) before, there the DONKEY let you know how celebrity marriage is

They dont, simply because of PRIDE. tell them to go to hell with their pride. It Sucks!

Some so-called christian stars face such ''challenges''  too. I just finished reading some stuff about the separation and divorce of popular gospel artiste and star, Amy Grant.  A bit of insight into why she evetually broke up with her then husband, Gary Chapman, after more than 16 years of marriage reveals such things as intolerance, infidelity, lust, and above all pride.

Her divorce sent a once beautiful and respected family reputation down the drain.

Wish Beyonce Knowles will break up with JayZ so I will keep fantasizing about her like a single lady , LOL Kidding. I wish them luck

Well to hell with Beyonce cos I got a replacement, little girl Leona Lewis

that wan concern them.

u either choose btw family or fame, u cat have both at the same time, thats whats up

u cant have both , i heard B is tryin to keep jay -z , with all the beating and asx whipping j is giving her, so muhc for irreplacable /, only God knows who reaslly needs to br upgraded //lol

celebrities and failed relationships/marriages.

personallly i think stars live for the moment and marriages/relationships are eternal.

they live in massive cribs expected of them and date pple of their so called status. they hardly have time to sort out whats real and what is not, most of them cant grasp the word sacrifice or trade-off. alot of them are hedonistic (believing life is all about pleasure) and they constantly need the attention of pple like you and i to make them believe they are larger than life. i dont think its all that important to them and not pple who truly care about them to let them know they are special. for them, its just anotha something they gotta do.

Well, as for the celebrity couples, i believe they really don't value their union as much as they value what they do on screen and for the singles, they tend to have this feeling that they are sowing to a greater hight and marriage to them is like an obstacle in achieving that hight. it just unfortunate.

love . commitment and weeding to sell movies are difference things

simple you can have it all,
you win some,you lose some,
there is always a price to be paid for everything in life.

@ poster!! they all see their fame as their marriage. To them, nothing can come in-between even if the couples wedd in church, they can easily get divorce. what a life