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Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by lolaluv1(f): 4:30pm On Dec 01, 2011
If your friend is in a fix, will you allow him/her to stay with you in your matrimonial home?? Why??
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Dec 01, 2011
[size=14pt]Depends. . .[/size]
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by xynerise: 4:59pm On Dec 01, 2011
lola.luv:

If your friend is in a fix, will you allow him/her to stay with you in your matrimonial home?? Why??
YES. I have a boys quarter grin
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by slimyem: 5:50pm On Dec 01, 2011
hell NO!!
I'd rather assist with funds for an alternative accomodation.

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Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by MrCork17: 7:39pm On Dec 01, 2011
Move where?   dont you people live in face to face flats ther in Nigeria?  (no oofeince)  undecided
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by BCuZiMBlaCk(m): 8:02pm On Dec 01, 2011
slimyem:

hell NO!!
I'd rather assist with funds for an alternative accomodation.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by freecocoa(f): 8:11pm On Dec 01, 2011
It really depends on things like,how long he or she is staying,how well I know him\her etc.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by claremont(m): 11:19pm On Dec 01, 2011
I will rent him/her a place, and probably provide a monthly stipend. I will NOT allow him/her to stay with me in my own matrimonial home, hell No!
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by expert555: 11:45pm On Dec 01, 2011
[td]@ Claremont
I will rent him/her a place, and probably provide a monthly stipend. I will NOT allow him/her to stay with me in my own matrimonial home, hell No![/td]

May I asked why, just to help-out old friend
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 12:15am On Dec 02, 2011
no.
way.
Jose. tongue
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by 195(f): 12:31am On Dec 02, 2011
^Mzdark

There is no way any of ur friends are coming to live with us

No fu[i]c[/i]kin way angry - else i'll send u packing back to Kingston angry
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 12:33am On Dec 02, 2011
Who is us? waka pass jor. tongue tongue
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by 195(f): 12:34am On Dec 02, 2011
^Kip decieving urself - angry

PLATE Day would soon break on your head
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 12:35am On Dec 02, 2011
^now i am convinced you are a spam b0t. tongue grin grin
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by 195(f): 12:36am On Dec 02, 2011
^Not only imma a spam bot but a robot capable of impregnating u come 2012 cheesy
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 12:39am On Dec 02, 2011
MsDarkSkin:

no.
way.
Jose.  tongue

sista, whats happening?! again i saw the news today and thought of you. . . . . . . . .
what happened to Vybz? did he lost his GODDAM mind?! breaking out of jail killing a guard? i love his music but he is taking this gangster shiit one step too far!

@post
some of my trusted closed friends will be welcomed in my house until they can sort themselves out. as the saying goes: "mi casa es su casa". as for the rest of them, i will give them a hand but wouldnt allow them to stay with me. trust is very important before you can have someone stay in your crib like that.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by 195(f): 12:40am On Dec 02, 2011
^brownie u just disturbed our discussion btwn me and my wife

she wants to bring in her sexy elder sister to our matrimonial home

been a nigerian man and a sharp one at that - dont u think its worth it
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 12:44am On Dec 02, 2011
190 sit down.

MRbrownJAY:

sista, whats happening?! again i saw the news today and thought of you. . . . . . . . .
what happened to Vybz? did he lost his GODDAM mind?! breaking out of jail killing a guard? i love his music but he is taking this gangster shiit one step too far!

LMAO!!  grin grin hey bro.  smiley
My mom looked it up last night and it turns out it was a fabricated story some r3tarded fans cooked up.
he is still in prison awaiting trial.  I personally know Kartel and he isn't that much of a gangster as he puts out.  tongue lipsrsealed

@post
some of my trusted closed friends will be welcomed in my house until they can sort themselves out. as the saying goes: "mi casa es su casa". as for the rest of them, i will give them a hand but wouldnt allow them to stay with me. trust is very important before you can have someone stay in your crib like that.

yeah but with your WIFE though? say your best GUY friend was desperate and in need of a place to stay, would you allow him to live under the same roof with your wife and yourself? Would you be comfortable doing so?
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by 195(f): 12:45am On Dec 02, 2011
MsDarkSkin:

190 sit down.


Yeah honey cheesy
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 3:00am On Dec 02, 2011
MsDarkSkin:

190 sit down.

LMAO!!  grin grin hey bro.  smiley
My mom looked it up last night and it turns out it was a fabricated story some r3tarded fans cooked up.
he is still in prison awaiting trial.  I personally know Kartel and he isn't that much of a gangster as he puts out.  tongue lipsrsealed

wtf MTV ran the story!!!!! what kind of BS is this?! so the guy is still locked up?! fukc Mtv!!!!
}anyway as you said, he sure doesnt look an ounce gangster but he sure does talk a lot about the lifestyle in his songs.

yeah but with your WIFE though? say your best GUY friend was desperate and in need of a place to stay, would you allow him to live under the same roof with your wife and yourself? Would you be comfortable doing so?


why not?! it is my close friend we are talking about here, not acquaintance/stranger. . . . . . . .  and also i would trust wifey/gf 100% since we are living together. living with someone you dont trust (like that) is a waste of time/life, but also energy.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by kelz88(f): 3:15am On Dec 02, 2011
Maybe, maybe not. Depends on our closeness/duration/how situation/etc. Don't like living with people that aren't family.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by topup: 3:18am On Dec 02, 2011
LOL @ :
xynerise:

YES. I have a boys quarter grin

I would for a very short period of time, in a very far wing of the house. I would prefer to help pay for a hotel though tbh.

Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 1:41am On Dec 09, 2011
MRbrownJAY:

wtf MTV ran the story!!!!! what kind of BS is this?! so the guy is still locked up?! fukc Mtv!!!!
}anyway as you said, he sure doesnt look an ounce gangster but he sure does talk a lot about the lifestyle in his songs.

tongue tongue grin grin


why not?! it is my close friend we are talking about here, not acquaintance/stranger. . . . . . . .  and also i would trust wifey/gf 100% since we are living together. living with someone you dont trust (like that) is a waste of time/life, but also energy.

that's true but as human beings who are FAR from perfect, we cannot trust ourselves much less our loved ones. undecided
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Natasha2(f): 1:46am On Dec 09, 2011
for what please oh this is not even about taking my husband, I need privacy with my huzzy,  what will my friend be doing in my house? trusted or not single or not I can't just let you stay, spending a night or two is different but living with me for a period of time, sorry you can stay with my parents  cheesy
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by sexlog(m): 6:50am On Dec 09, 2011
Even my siblings or parents can't stay with me. I will rather help with funds.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 7:26am On Dec 09, 2011
@Op; HELL NO! Prevention is better than cure.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by cynthiafred67(f): 10:14am On Dec 09, 2011
HELL NO!! I can't allow any of my friends stay with me. either trusted or not trusted u are not welcome.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by bekay911(f): 10:27am On Dec 09, 2011
No way pls i need space.n privacy. Cant imagine ma frnd in d house while i am playn love games wit ma husby
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Goldieluks: 10:38am On Dec 09, 2011
No please. Prevention is always better than cure. I'd rather help with other alternatives than allow my privacy to be interfered with.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by 195(f): 11:12am On Dec 09, 2011
Goldieluks:

No please. Prevention is always better than cure. I'd rather help with other alternatives than allow my privacy to be interfered with.
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by Nobody: 3:24pm On Dec 09, 2011
MsDarkSkin:

that's true but as human beings who are FAR from perfect, we cannot trust ourselves much less our loved ones. undecided

yeah but you gotta let go in life, you gotta give someone the benefit of the doubt, you gotta open yourself. . . . . . .if you ever wanna find happiness and peace of mind.

sexlog:

Even my siblings or parents can't stay with me. I will rather help with funds.

and what if you didnt have the money? would you let them sleep outside?

BlueBarbie:

@Op; HELL NO! Prevention is better than cure.

well if that's how you feel about your partner then why marry them at the first place. why didnt "prevention" also stopped you from marrying/dating that person? lol no wonder so many have NO IDEA what trust/love means.

bekay911:

No way pls i need space.n privacy. Cant imagine ma frnd in d house while i am playn love games wit ma husby
Goldieluks:

No please. Prevention is always better than cure. I'd rather help with other alternatives than allow my privacy to be interfered with.

may i ask what "privacy" you guys are talking about?! or do you walk around naked in front of the kids? is it THAT difficult to restrain yourself for a few months?
Re: Can You Allow Your Single Friend To Live With You In Your Matrimonial Home? by sexlog(m): 5:49pm On Dec 09, 2011
Mrbrownjay, if i dont have d money to pay for their rents, i wouldn't have made such suggestion. Its always good not to allow outsider in your matrimonial home, or else, the house could be in a turmoil.
However, if u are living in a mansion, u can help them with your BQ.

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