who is actually at d loosing end in a breakup and why is it that ladies always tink they are at the loosing end wenever there is a brkup in a relationshiop? have they forgotten that guys also have emotoions? or what? everyone is welcome

I believe both guys and the girl folks do feel the break up surge,only that we guys tend to pretend or force ourselves to believe that guys are strong,that we shouldnt nud for a shork!!
Well,that isn't true,whether you are white or black,short or tall,fat or slim, we've all got emotions,
For example,i just ended a relationship two months ago,the truth of the matter is that i actually felt it,even at the point of calling it a quit with her,she just couldnt believe i said so,she looked at me and asked agian "u mean u're no longer my baby,my man,my future?",though it was hard to say yes,but i had to.I felt it real bad,but the truth is that she actually lost her mind and she felt it even more than i did,but she realized that she was the one who screw up,she did the first time and asked for a second chance which i did gave to her,but now she probably needed the third chance,but hell no!!!Though we shared everything you can think of,i mean every damn thing togehter,yet i still had to be a man a stay by my word!!

So we all have emotions,and we all feel it,not equally though!!!

Cheers.