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That is why we tell people to set parameters for what they want in a partner, find the person that reasonably qualifies. Do the necessary checks, work at being financially capable and get married ASAP. Doing anything contrary is just looking for trouble and when it comes people start complaining and looking for help for what they have brought upon themselves.

Your cousin is emotionally-bonded with her ex. Her mind is bringing-out all the 'sweet' times she had with him and reminding her that it was only time and distance that tore them apart. Hence, she still wants him.

This looks like the case of a wife about to cheat on her husband! I am sure your cousin collected the guy's phone number and probably even knows where he lives already.

Oh yes! All the ingredients are falling into place for an adulterous relationship but wait! Must she do it?

The answer is a big No! She needs to delete his contacts on her phone/ computer. Then she should focus on her job and her husband. You need to give her the 'Jennykadry shock therapy' (JST). Tell her that if she destroys her marriage because of this, she is nothing but a shameless slut!

Let her be faithful to her husband!

Things like this happen everytime, she would be a fool to let her ex ruin her marraige, she should curb those feelings and do the right thing, If her ex, wanted her by all means, distance would not have been a barrier.

This is hilarious, it means it is from Hilary. Tell your cousin that by the time she loses her marriage due to adultery which she is just about to start, her so called ex-boyfriend and co-adulterer will run from her because no man will marry an adulterous woman. The ex-boyfriend will tell her categorically that he cannot marry her because she is adulterous and that she can do the same to him.