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Questions & Answers On Mutah,mutah Is Zina by bilms(m): 7:37pm On Dec 30, 2011
The issue of Mutah is not recognized in Islam,It has no place. So stop if you have been engaged in it.

1. Question: Does the word MUTAH appear anywhere in the Quran?

Answer: NO!

2. Question: Are there any examples of Mutah in the Nahjul Balagha or in Kitab ul Ershad?

Answer: No!

3. Question: Who brought the idea of MUTAH?

Answer: Kafirs

4. Who brought the idea of NIKKAH?

Answer: The Nabi

5. Question: In what situation did the Nabi allow people to do mutah?

Answer: When they threatened to castrate themselves.

6. Question: Is there any evidence that women from the family of the Nabi did mutah?

Answer: No!

7. Question: How many times has it been recorded when the Nabi forbad Mutah?

Answer: 7 times

8. Question: What kind of ahadith allow mutah?

Answer: Weak ones

9. Question: Are there any ahadith in Shia books that say mutah is forbidden?

Answer: Yes, many!

10. Is there any hadith of Imam Ali that forbid mutah?

Answer: Yes





SHIAS AGAINST MUTAH



Here are more facts that make many fellow shias go against the idea of mutah.



1, WHAT KIND OF MARRIAGE IS IN THE QURAN?

The Qur’an says to men that they can only establish relationships with their ‘wives’ and with those whom their ‘right hand’ possesses. These are the only two types of relations allowed in the Qur'an.



The pro-mutah lobby insist that a woman in mutah is temporary ‘WIFE.’ So the question is that is it true that a woman who does mutah with you is your wife – be it a temporary one? Let us search the answer from the Quran.



QURANIC POINT OF WHO IS A WIFE
A wife in the Quran has rights of inheritance, divorcee payments, three months idda, right for her children etc. All these are marriage rights for a wife.



But mutah wives do not have any of these rights.See any fikh book which say that there is no inheritance for mutah wives, no divorce, no rights for children who are born of mutah and even the father can deny they are his children.



Since mutah is not even mentioned in the Quran and there are no mutah rules of ‘mutah wives’ we can safely say that the wife in the Quran is the only one who is a proper wife and not the ‘prostitute’ with whom you pretend to have a ‘temporary marriage.’



So the Quranic verses that say that you can only have sex with your wives are the wives who are wives according to the Quran. There is no concept of mutah wives in the Quran.



Now let us come to slave women and prisoner women. Before Islam these women had not right to say NO to their owners. But the Quran changed it in those jahil days when women were just treated as ‘booty.’ Study these facts:



1, The Quran tells us that slavewomen should not be be forced in to sex with their masters. The quran tells us that they must remain chaste. And they can even marry a free man provided they are chaste and have not taken lovers in secret. Yes they should be chaste and not have lovers in secret. If they had lovers in secret then you should not marry them. All this is Quran. (read the relevant page on this point on this website).



2. Before Islam the prisoner women who came to help their men wage a war were regarded as fair booty to be raped or sold in slave markets. Islam changed this. First you cannot rape them but you were allowed to do mutah with them provided they said yes. Mutah was only valid for this reason. Nothing else! The proof is apparent when you study the mutah rules in fikh books. You begin to realise that they are the rules originally meant for war prisoner women or slave women. Here are the proofs:



i. The Idda of mutah is two months which is nearly half than the normal period of divorce as slaves are only entitled to half of everything in law.

ii. Furthermore, the status of a ‘divorcee’ is not associated with mutah as slaves girls or prisoner women can’t be divorced if they are ‘possessed!’

iii. No witnesses are needed but in a nikka marriage two witnesses are required.

iv. In one narration it is said that some men at the time of the Prophet used to do mutah with their prisoner women for a ‘handful of dates’ as payment for Mutah! This shows the formality of the mutah process and was not really a way to endore an earning through sex.

v.'Sheikh Thani who is one of the earliest writter in Shia Islam says: "The bed ot Mutah is not the same as the bed of a wife!" Also Sheikh Ansari says: "The woman of mutah is a rented woman and does not have the same status as a married wife!"



Hence marriage in the quran is only nikka and the fikh book rules on mutah match with sex with slave girls or prisoner women provided they agree.



The fact that slave girls and prisoners were given the right to say no is a milestone in history as before such women were treaty as goods to be abused, sold or discarded by murder. Even the holy bible allows them to be raped and in hindu scriptures you are allowed to burn them to death.



In the modern world the plight of prisoner women continues despite the watchful eyes of the UN. Take the example of American troops in

xml:namespace prefix = st1 />Vietnam or Russian troops in Afganistan or Serbs in Bosnia. How many girls they raped under the watchful eyes of the UN! The attempt of the Prophet to stop rape and put the onus on the women to say No is a commendable one when you see that the Prophet was acting at a time when rape was a norm and there were no UN rules of wars.



Today the value system of Islam that rape should not happen even in war is a must. No muslim troops in Iraq, Palestine, Kashmire etc can every rape. At maximum they can only do mutah with them provided the situation is similar to those jahil days when the Nabi allowed. But even then mutah will not be a marriage as the only marriage acceptable is in the Quran.



each of the points mentioned above are coherent points. So judge for yourself if the fasle and disjointed points of the pro mutah lobby is a true representation of Shia Islam or are the coherent and proven points we present the true representations of the Imams. Judge for yourself!














2. FAMOUS HADITH

Imam Ali is reported in both Sunni and Shia books to have said that after Khybar Mutah was forbidden. This fact is so important that nobody can overlook it if they want to get to the truth. Yet the pro-mutah lobby inisit in saying that it is a false hadith.



But this hadith adds to the evidence that mutah is not a marriage and was forbidden by Islam.






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3. THERE IS A BIG MISMATCH OF CONCEPTS AND MODELS



Islam sees Fatimah Zahra and Bibi Mariam as role models! Islam describes them as ‘pure’ and chaste. In the surah of the Qur'an on Mariam when Angel Jibrael (as) comes to her then she says: "I am chaste, no man has touched me." She does not say: "O I have not done mutah." She says 'no man has touched me and that makes me chaste." So real chastity is about staying a virgin for your husband. A woman who does sex contracts is not a chaste woman as the man with whom you do mutah is not your husband but a stud. To call him a husband is totally wrong as mutah is not a marriage as proven above.



Nevertheless can we ever contemplate that our role models like Mariam and Fatemah would engage in mutah type sex! Of course not! So how then is mutah a sawab?



The idea that Imam Ali did mutah every night is making Imam Ali look like a man out of control on sex! This says that the Imam had an inflated sexual ego! Can we ever believe in such a thing when we know that the Imam used to stay all night in prayer? This kind of stories are an insult to our Imam and yet we insist in believing in them! This is another mismatch between what we say on one hand and then change it on the other!







4. DID THE IMAMS DO MUTAH?



The renting of 'vaginas' is a big issue for Shias who do not want to accept that Imams were of high moral character and they would never talk about things like 'renting vaginas.' But our pro-mutah lobby mullas are of low character and have no shame to talk about women renting their vaginas. Worst they have no shame to protray our Imams to also be like them. These pro-mutah mullas can shout and scream, and make drastic statements from mimbars, but the truth is that they are making our Imams look shameless when they say that Imam Jaffer E Sadik allowed them to 'rent out vaginas' of prostitutes.



One of the greates ironies is that even in Shia books it is written that Imam Ali (as) verified that mutah was forbidden by the Prophet. They agree with the Sunni narration that this happened after the battle of Khybar. But they will say that this hadith in both sunni and shia books is a weak one. This tells us that the pro-mutah lobby does not want to accept the truth when it is verified in both shia and Sunni books. They are just deniers of the truth. like the zionist who deny that Palestine does not belong to them. These pro-mutah lobby are the zionist of shia islam because they will find any excuse to deny the truth. In this case they are denying what Imam Ali has said - Mutah is forbidden!



Now here is a story that makes the argument foolprood against the pro-mutah lobby. Here is the story that no scholar of shia islam denies:



The Caliph Harun al Rashid sent his daughter to entice Imam Reza in to a sexual relationship. She entered his prison cells but the Imam refused to accept her advances. Harun tried several times but each time the Imam refused. So the question is that if Mutah was normal for casual relationships and was sawab then why not do it especially if it would be safeguard your life?



Stories like these tell us that mutah was never a means to open the backdoor to sex. It was never acceptable as a normal part of Muslim life. It as zina if done when there was no desperate need for it. Here is another story that no scholar of shia islam denies:



A man came to Imam Ali Reza and asked him how to do Mutah the Imam said to him: “Why do you want to do it when you are a married man and have no need for it!”



The pro-mutah mullahs dishonesty is exposed when they never mention stories like these which either forbid mutah or restrict it totally. These lobby also do not tell the truth that neither the Nahjul Balagah nor the Kitab ul Ershad have any examples of Mutah in them. The pro-mutah lobby has never told the truth that even the word Mutah is not in the Quran. They are not honest brokers. Their own argument is based on spin and misrepresentations.









5. CAN MARRIAGE EVER BE TEMPORARY



There does no conclusive evidence that mutah was ever sanctified ‘temporary marriage!’ In the past the fikh books called it ‘rented vaginas.’ Now they call it ‘marriage.’ If it was a marriage than why did Sheikh Tani say it is not the same as marriage and why did sheikh Ansari say it is ‘renting?’



Marriage by definition cannot be temporary! Marriage cannot be like a temporary contract of employment. So people should stop defining mutah as a form if ‘marriage! It is not a marriage but a prostitute sex contract.



The marriage in the Quran is the one where husband and wife are such intimate partners that they can become ‘Guides, Comforters and Helpers’ of each other! But how is this level of intimacy and sharing possible on a contact of sex? If a man and woman can build temporary relationships and break them on a contract basis then how can such misguided people themselves be guides, comforters and helpers of others?



In fact, they only learn to guide and inflate their sexual egos under their definition of mutah.



Remember, the word MUTAH is not even in the Quran. But instead the Qur’an talks of decency, morality and stability of relationships. Where istimta is mentioned in one verse it is in the context of fulfilment of marriage vows and not in the context of setting up temporary relationships. This is what ISTIMTAH is about - Fulfillment in marriage and not fullfilment of a sex contract.



It is important to say that the relationship between a man and woman is described in the most beautiful terms in the Quran. It is about love, comfort, guidance, stability, self control & restraint, patience, not being fickle, not rushing to divorce, remembering the good times and not rushing to divorce etc. Even if a wife is disobedient the Quran says that admonish her first instead of divorce. But the mutah lobby have gone totally against all these things defining prostitution as a marriage.



For them to reduce the Quran to jahil justification to make relationships so cheap is a total injustice against the Quran. It is a very sad episode that women in hijab have become mutah sluts when they should be examples of chastity in the modern world. Shame on the pro-mutah mullas who have involved decent women in to indecent acts that has taken them on the path of lust and away from the decent character that is required to build a strong man-woman relationship.









7. CANADA FASLE CONDITIONS



Some homegrown scholars are saying that contract sex is allowed unless the wife has made you sign a marriage agreement against it. This is happening in Canada Khoja community.In other words during NIKKAH she has to make you undertake that you will not do contract sex until you are in Nikkah. But:



This is against the Quran which says that the wives cannot forbid you what Allah has allowed. So here the homegrown scholars have twisted in further. It is like digging a hall for women and then giving them a broken ladder to climb out.



So first they make the women accept that mutah is in the Quran when it is not. Then they falsley ‘empower’ them by saying that the husband in nikkah can be forbidden by contract that he will not do mutah. Yet the same scholars will quote the quran saying that noone can forbid what Allah has allowed. Hence what they offer the women is bad advice and a pretence that they are being empowered. They hypocrisy is obvious in this matter.







8. WHAT ABOUT WIDOWS AND DIVORCEES



Some people today try to justify lust under mutah by saying that Fikh Law allows mutah with widows and divorcees whom nobody wants to marry! They say that these ‘poor’ women need someone to comfort them and love them!



This surely is a very unfair opinion on widows and divorcees. If you want to comfort them then you should marry them properly in nikkah becasue they dont want temporary comfort from men who just want to get a ‘leg over’ and have themselves sucked by these vulnerable widows and jilted divorcees. God help these women from such fiki mullas who do not see human beings in widows or divorcees – they just see ‘rented vaginas.’



And how many widows and divorcees would want to fall in to bed temporarily with men unless they are shameless themselves. In general a widow or a divorcee wants stability and not more heartbreaks by being used by lustful and unscrupulous men who betray their own wives for a quick leg over.





But there is an ulterior motive in doing ‘mutah’ with widows and divorcees. These poor women cannot go out and shout foul as then nobody would respect them. Hence for these men it is a very convenient thing to get a leg over with widows and divorcees and use the stigma against them to get sex from them. In truth if any man really cared for them then he should not misuse their vulnerable plight but he should marry them properly.







EYE OPENING FACTS ABOUT KHOJAS, IRANI AND ARAB MUTAH STUDS and SLUTS



A woman (let us call her TJ) came to Leicester from Pakistan and spoke to Shia girls who were asking her about sex. She convinced them that it was okay to do mutah with studs in colleges and universities. Hence today a lot of khoja girls are in sex relationships with men and boys. Then when a fish comes along for marriage they have their last flings with their studs and then get married. This is what people like TJ have left as contribution for the shia community.One girl boosted to her friends that she had three men in one week. She did this not knowing that it was not allowed as she had to kept idda for 2 months. But then she was taught by her friends that it is okay to have as many men and boys as you want provided intercourse does not take place.



In LA a man goes around arranging divorces and then sleeping with the divorced woman. Then he arranges marriages of these women with single man on his marriage matching database. He befriends divorcees in the same way that christian pastors befriend women in their parish so that the women soon are okay to have sex with them. To befriend women in mosques, madressas, schools, work place etc has an ulterior motive of sex.



In Iran in the holy city of Qum the poor war widows give mouth to scholars to earn money for their families. The Iranian government fails to guide these widows against the whims and lusts of talibs in the hawza. Yes there are talibs who know this is wrong but they do not have the political power to challange the established mullas who immediately shout, scream and label you as a sunni if you challage their lies. There are also mullas who earn a lot of money by providing widows to businessmen for sex.



In Nairobi a woman asked the Khoja jammat for assistant with her orphan children. She wanted money for education. One of the people in the committee phoned her and refused unless she 'hired her vagina' to him. She refused and cried foul to her friends in the jammat.



In Dar there are men who live for sex. Many are infected with VDs. They have infected their wives also. The Mullas know this is happening a lot because of mutah and the lax values it teaches. But the mullas do not say anything as it will expose their own fikh rules as corrupt.



In one website a mother says that she encourages her sons to do mutah in schools with 'white girls.' She argues that it brings the girls close to Shia Islam. This is the level of low thinking! It is like saying that Christan invite our girls to their homes to show them phonographic movies which brings them close to Christian Western culture of sex and drugs.



In another site a man is asking a mutah mulla that is it okay for him to do mutah on the phone with his cousin in Mombassa. He explains that he is going there from USA on holiday for 2 weeks and cannot live without sex. He has convinced his cousin that it is okay to do it for two week. The mullas answers him by saying it is fine to do mutah on the phone and that he too is going to Mombassa and wants to meet the cousin.



In Birmingham UK there are girls who are in sex with Pakistani sunnis boys but who pretend to be virgins. A particular sunni stud from Kashmire goes around his van and builds relationships with families until he gets his chance. He behaves so nicley with all. All except his wife who has born him 4 children. She has found out what he does and so she hates shias and calls them prostitutes.



The shia girls think that their time to 'enjoy' is now before they marry as after marriage their husband are allowed to 'enjoy' while they have to resign to burn in jealousy.



One stud mulla is also on his mobile phone all the time. Once he said even prostitution was okay to his 'traditional' audiance. They objected and told him that tomorrow 'you will tell us that drug pushing is okay.'



He too builds confidence with young girls in the khoja community and with widows. He then offers them sympathy and care. After building confidence he makes them take off their nickers. He likes carrying their nickers in his pocket when he comes to the mosque. This makes him feel close to his 'mutah wives' when he is reciting majalises in the mosque.



In London in one madressah a married woman was in 'mutah' with one of the rich committee members. She tells her friends that to do mutah is okay because she is on the pill and has no chance of becomng pregnant. She bases her argument on some hadiths that say that adultery is forbidden because it causes illegitimate children. Her argument is that if she can ensure that she will not get pregnant than she is allowed to do mutah even if she is married.



There are now an increasing number of women who have no barriers towards sex and they constantly look at men in an adulterous manner. Their attitude is to look at men and judge them on how they would be in bed.



These women will wear hijab and then wear bikines on holidays. Once woman in LA even decided to go topless as she was told that there is nothing in the Quran that says you have to cover your breasts. This wa a step after wearing bumkinies where thongs.



What has happened is that the sex jinn is out of the bottle. For shias to stop what is happening or limit it is impossible. Once people start worshipping their desires they will not stop at anything to satiate their lusts. May God send the 12 th Imam to destory these lust people who hide behid the guise of religion and shia islam when what they do is nothing but kufar and total hypocrisy - amen



Such shamelessness is something that is hidden behind the hijabs and false claims that the imams did the same. But the number one fact that mutah is not even mentioned in the Quran does bite their conscience. They are a lost people looking for guidance and as long as the present establishment is not challenged the guidance will be very far for them.

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