i spent 4years with my boyfriend and he breaks my heart i find it hard to over come please help me.

get over it
it aint worth it
its not easy but just get over it

It would be a lot easier to advise you if you let us in into some of those things that he did to break your heart.

Stop grieving over split milk; what has happened has happened just forget about the past and move on with your life.

He broke your heart and you are still alive huh?
I don't believe you . . .did you fight with him? . . .Is he a boxer?
pls, contact me . . .I

yeah, the past is in the past. never waste your time on things that r not worth it.
like yimi said; 'whn u fall, pick something up' just make sure you're more careful next time, but at the moment, forget about it and move on. take it as one of those things, just a page in your history,. . . .  close is and open a new fresh page. . . . . more better things to come  

YEYE,  WHT DID HE DO TO BREAK YOUR HEART ,  AT WORST HE LEFT YOU FOR ANOTHER GIRL RIGHT, THATS NO BIG DEAL, YOU SELF FIND ANOTHER GUY LIKE MR Z WEY WAN BOX FOR YOU, 

[color=#000099][/color] he dumped u, he didnt break ur heart. if u dumped him first he would go drinking and tell himself pussy comes pussy goes. so u should do d same, go shopping or whatever u girls do have fun and forget abt him

It would be a lot easier to advise you if you let us in into some of those things that he did to break your heart.

yes we spent four years together in a good relationship and were planning to get married , when i got pregnant for him we were still find for the firs two months but during the third month of the pregnancy he started being arrogant, he would not even call me on phone again and when i called he answers rudely. it continue like this until i gave birth, he never even showed up to see the baby, when my baby was 8months old i took him to my guys's place only to find out that he was staying with another woman. They both abandoned me and the baby in the house went and spent the night together in a hotel, the next morning they came back and insulted me well i had to leave in tears. Till today i still feel heart broken because my guy is living happily with the girl forgetting about the baby and I .

thanks alot crazykid i feel you.

@poster, u have to move on, thats life 4 u a new day will come belive in god, tek care of ur babyboy,

storm0210:

[color=#000099][/color] he dumped u, he didnt break your heart. if u dumped him first he would go drinking and tell himself pussy comes pussy goes. so u should do d same, go shopping or whatever u girls do have fun and forget about him

It is so unfortunate. Is not easy but you have to make up your mind to continue with ur life. It is ur feelings that is affected,not ur pussy, so going for the next available guy will not solve your problem. Rather you will still get the same result, a broken heart.

If he left you, will you leave yourself, the best thing thing you will do is to check what you have, and upgrade yourself to next level. Work hard on yourself, make yourself more valuable. So cheer up. Prays for u!

A very sad story. I guess what you need to do now is to device means of survival as well as taking good care of your baby. You will need to focus your thoughts on the baby and your future. Lets hope he comes back to his senses someday.

He has been absolutely cruel and heartless. There are many of such out there, but this should not blind you to the fact that there are also a few good men, so don't take it out on any man. Forgive him first and foremost and release your hurts to God. Every bitter angry feeling you have, say it to God. He knows and he only can help you get through this. Let this draw you into a deeper relationship with God.
Re-evaluate the relationship. You did your best and you don't have to feel guilty about what has happened.
There will be difficult days when you don't want to get out of bed or see the daylight and you will drench your pillow with bitter tears of regret, remorse and everything in between, but you have to be strong for your baby. So, get busy with your job or business so you can cater for the two of you.
I don't know what your faith is but I would say pray, if you are a christian. Attend a good church where you will receive the word of God that will nourish your soul and send you on the way to recovery. And yes, you will get better day by day. God loves you in spite of everything. He gives beauty for ashes. You will still have hope that he will come back but I will advice that you put your hope in God, more than anything. If you take the right steps in letting God get you through this, you will have a double portion at the end of the day, that is, something better, something greater, something more glorious.

i don't think u should worry about it God has a way of paying people back for their bad deeds. just take care of ur son hun

my dear, let sleeping dogs lie. people have done worse, so dont worry you will heal. take care of your son and try to look good so that the right person for you would be able to approach you. he'll come back to beg to see your son, and then you will have the last laugh. take it easy dear, all is well

sad to see that some men do this. . . .my dad did the same to my mum even worse, he denied the pregnancy. . .and i came out looking exactly like d guy. . .well ive made up my mind dat ill neva b like dat to a woman as i have felt the pain from the recieving end. . .when i see thins like this, i just wana kill us men. . . just pick urself up. . .he'll sure live to regret this. . . .then dey come back beggin, blaming it all on juju. . .like it was juju that caused the erection in the first place. . .just settle down and get married to sum1 else. . . and please dont get the impression that all guys are the same