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Advice Needed! by Lacrissa: 10:37am On Jan 11, 2012
There is this guy I met and told him about my distant relationship and all but he still agreed to date me that he really likes me and then asked me to be his girl. I felt it was too fast but agreed because he is really a good guy. On my bb display pic, I had put a picture of myself in a flowy dress above my knee and my legs were showing not all the way to the top, innocently and then he sent me a message that there are some pictures to be shown between lovers and the outside world. If I was really dating him and would someday be his wife, this is not the kind of pic to display that it would attract boys. He now said maybe we should just date since he feels he doesn't know me too well because of the picture.

I told my friends who said he was right and I should do all not to lose him so nairalanders, am i in the wrong here and what can I do. Thanks
Re: Advice Needed! by jaybee3(m): 10:38am On Jan 11, 2012
smh
Re: Advice Needed! by Lacrissa: 10:42am On Jan 11, 2012
jay bee:

smh

Why now? sad it's a serious question.
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 11, 2012
Smh x3!
Re: Advice Needed! by MrCork17: 11:19am On Jan 11, 2012
Lacrissa:

There is this guy I met and told him about my distant relationship and all but he still agreed to date me that he really likes me and then asked me to be his girl. I felt it was too fast but agreed because he is really a good guy. On my bb display pic, I had put a picture of myself in a flowy dress above my knee and my legs were showing not all the way to the top, innocently and then he sent me a message that there are some pictures to be shown between lovers and the outside world. If I was really dating him and would someday be his wife, this is not the kind of pic to display that it would attract boys. He now said maybe we should just date since he feels he doesn't know me too well because of the picture.

I told my friends who said he was right and I should do all not to lose him so nairalanders, am i in the wrong here and what can I do. Thanks

sweeery ignore them. whats you number? wink
Re: Advice Needed! by freecocoa(f): 11:22am On Jan 11, 2012
Chei,how old is this lacrissa? Waste of 2 seconds outta my time.
Re: Advice Needed! by annawhite(f): 11:27am On Jan 11, 2012
smh@dis guys!
Lacrissa dont u have a girlfriend,this is no gist for nairaland!
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 11, 2012
freecocoa:

Chei,how old is this lacrissa? Waste of 2 seconds outta my time.
Remember our fight? Who caused it? smiley
Re: Advice Needed! by justwise(m): 11:33am On Jan 11, 2012
Lacrissa:

There is this guy I met and told him about my distant relationship and all but he still agreed to date me that he really likes me and then asked me to be his girl. I felt it was too fast but agreed because he is really a good guy. On my bb display pic, I had put a picture of myself in a flowy dress above my knee and my legs were showing not all the way to the top, innocently and then he sent me a message that there are some pictures to be shown between lovers and the outside world. If I was really dating him and would someday be his wife, this is not the kind of pic to display that it would attract boys. He now said maybe we should just date since he feels he doesn't know me too well because of the picture.

I told my friends who said he was right and I should do all not to lose him so nairalanders, am i in the wrong here and what can I do. Thanks

Tell that control freak to move on fast to Deeper life church, as long as you did not make a private part a public one in ur dressing then u are ok. if he pushes you around at the early stage of the rela/ship what will happen when you get married?
Re: Advice Needed! by Mynd44: 4:14pm On Jan 11, 2012
I still wonder why people bring their personal issues to NL
Re: Advice Needed! by ebonyvibe(f): 6:49pm On Jan 11, 2012
Sorry I didnt get something are you still in a distance relationship with someone else whilst dating tis guy if so why do you expect him to trust you now with or without the picture if you can do it to some else you can do it to him

If he is now your main boyfriend you will need to post the picture of us to make an accurate comment I can't comment on a imagery picture
Re: Advice Needed! by itiswell1(m): 7:56pm On Jan 11, 2012
Well said ebonyvibe




Pls post the pics let's see
Re: Advice Needed! by 25omega(m): 8:04pm On Jan 11, 2012
poster is a distance relationship and is cheating on her distance relationship man with this dude who finally got some azz and now is thinking twice about a woman who would gladly date another man while she is in a relationship. Is that about right poster?


na God catch you now lay on that sword
Re: Advice Needed! by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jan 11, 2012
@OP
what everyone is trying to say is that:¨what kind of animal are you that you have a bf, throw yourself at the first donkey that comes your way, and then come to NL to complain about his sorry self?¨
Re: Advice Needed! by kemmeye: 12:58am On Jan 12, 2012
*face palm* SMDH
Re: Advice Needed! by freecocoa(f): 1:14am On Jan 12, 2012
sexkillz:

Remember our fight? Who caused it? smiley
Dearie I really am sorry walahi,I've even said in one of her threads that I can't believe I fought with you cos of her issue. I didn't know she's this what-I-cant-find-an-adjective-to-qualify-her-with-now. Ndo biko.
Re: Advice Needed! by IbroSaunks(m): 4:10am On Jan 12, 2012
this is a serious question
Re: Advice Needed! by Cuddlemii: 5:43am On Jan 12, 2012
freecocoa:

Chei,how old is this lacrissa? Waste of 2 seconds outta my time.

She is Fickle's 19 years old daughter wink.

@op, u need a vacation, go somewhere to chill out cos with the way u worry in all ur post, u r likely break down soon.
Re: Advice Needed! by Mynd44: 5:52am On Jan 12, 2012
I wonder why you would even agree to date the guy in the first place? Women don't understand that when most guys tell you they don't mind being the other guy, they don't really care about you.
Re: Advice Needed! by Ranoscky(m): 6:26am On Jan 12, 2012
Una don start to dey fvck difrnt prick again o! Wen gbege hapun now, una go com here dey shout heart break! Op, u beta let dat guy be! If u aint contented with ur distance r/ship, u beta make it known to d distanced guy, and cal it QUIT b4 proceedin into anoda!
Re: Advice Needed! by deniyor: 7:31am On Jan 12, 2012
There will be quite a lot of guys after him.
Re: Advice Needed! by seedord247(m): 8:08am On Jan 12, 2012
Ranoscky:

Una don start to dey fvck difrnt prick again o! Wen gbege hapun now, una go com here dey shout heart break! Op, u beta let dat guy be! If u aint contented with your distance r/ship, u beta make it known to d distanced guy, and cal it QUIT b4 proceedin into anoda!
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I swear if you get headache and you need quick relief just come NL . . tongue lipsrsealed
Re: Advice Needed! by cynthiafred67(f): 8:54am On Jan 12, 2012
Walks into thread Spits on thread and walks out.
Re: Advice Needed! by Mynd44: 9:25am On Jan 12, 2012
The OP has the brains of a two year old and even that can still be argued
Re: Advice Needed! by soloyes(m): 12:51pm On Jan 12, 2012
@ poser i fink u shuld just go wit him cos some men re just vry jealous. It's also a sign dat he truly luvs u.
Re: Advice Needed! by jaybee3(m): 1:57pm On Jan 12, 2012
Re: Advice Needed! by Mynd44: 2:10pm On Jan 12, 2012
hmm intresting
Re: Advice Needed! by justwise(m): 2:11pm On Jan 12, 2012

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