Hi nairalanders,pls i need ur contributions,cos i am in a fix on what to do. the prob is that does physical appearance matter in choosing a life patner. there is this lady i met,we ve been on for close to a year now . i love this lady and everything about her except that she is just too short for my stndard (she is not up to my shoulder) i am seroiusly planning to settle down but am so confused abt choosing this particular lady due to her height, i dont know if i am worrying over nothing or is this a serious issue cos i want to walk up and be proud of my wife. pls this is no joking matter . i really welcome yr sggestions

height? in this day and age?

point of correction you do not love her, if you are bothered about her height.

ThoniaSlim:

point of correction you do not love her, if you are bothered about her height.

thank you,

n to think people say love is blind, people dey complain about more serious issue and u dey complain about ur gf height, how tall r u sef,

ThoniaSlim:

point of correction you do not love her, if you are bothered about her height.

you effectively encapsulated anything anyone else has to say.

Nairalanders the question u ought to av ask mengi is how tall is he?is he as tall as an electric pole or as tall as maltina bottle before we can think of nxt solution.


mengi aw tall are u?

You said you love her. Was she tall when you started loving her? So you've not been proud of her all this while you've been claiming to love her. They say love is blind, if you can see her height then you are not blind.

don't mind em' height i very important and if she's not up to standard you should dump her.
i'm sure you don't want her to come to the church with a ladder do you?

uve been going out with her for a year nowand ur just realizing her height to complain??or has she become shorter through this year??

u say u want to be proud of ur wife ??what does this have to do with height??so have u been in shame through out this year or do u think that all tall girls bing pride to a man

if you really wish to leave a girl that has been a good companion to u for a year only cause she is short and doesnt make u proud,please do cause she is better of with out u

i do understand that physical acceptance is an important issue in relationships but not the recognition of that after a whole year

If u truly loved her, even as short as she may b, u'll see her as tall as the mountain

Very funny post and straight to the point answers. I hope the poster knows now what he feels for his woman cuz its definately not love. If i may add, normal guys usually do not compalin about women's height its usually the other way round. Or is she fat? even at that, its the personality that counts not the appearance.

If you are not proud of her height _{THEN YOU'RE NOT PROUD OF HER.} ^PERIOD.

_{DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME IN THE RELATIONSHIP.}

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[confused about choosing this particular lady due to her height, i don't know if i am worrying over nothing]


men!! u guys cant be serious oh, u can date a short girl, sleep with her and all, but when it comes to marriage u get confused. guy, if she is good enough for a girlfriend then she sld also be good enough to be your wife, how old are you sef? when it comes to issues such as marriage, character is priority and not height, i just hope that when u grow up, u will understand and hopefully, she also will be a lot taller

of course u are worrying over nothing

@poster
if u love ur babe ,u must love everytin about her . i dont know when true love will come 2 light, .my brother height should not be a barrier 2 love.

ThoniaSlim:

point of correction you do not love her, if you are bothered about her height.

anney:

@poster
if u love your babe ,u must love everytin about her . i don't know when true love will come 2 light, .my brother height should not be a barrier 2 love.

wat more can i can say? they said it all already
WORD!!