Below is the Email I wrote to the person who Raped me 29 years ago .

Dear G
Finally I was able to track you down Thanks to facebook .
You will never believe this letter is coming your way because you seem to have planned and executed a perfect crime and got away with it for 29 years . But the victim ( name witheld ) still remember it vividly like yesterday . Cast your mind mind back to 12.30am Friday October 7th 1983 and here is my reflection of the day .
" I was a virgin till I was about 18. the reason was that in my thinking , I will only loose my virginity to the one I marry, but alas, when I finished high school, I got a freelance job at OSRC and dated a guy called (KA) I told him I was a virgin and he was proud of it and boasted about it with his friends. One night , As we finished night shift, one of his friends G O ( G- funk ) Who was then 32 year old Station DJ and my friend's boyfriend offered to take me home and He raped me on the way. It changed things for me for good " I could not tell anyone as people would asked what was I doing in his car . It would become a cultural embarrassment and a victim would be victimized more and more and called name like slut " There is the pervasive culture of silence on issue of girls sexual abuse by the strong , powerful and well connected elite in Nigeria

You GO fall in the category of the well connected that abuses young and innocent girls . Even though you did not have any personal achievement or qualification at working in OSRC but you have a well connected uncle

Congratulations on getting away with rape .I have been told that you said it was consensual and that you were really drunk and this was your excuse. You are only lucky that Nigeria is so behind the times and that the criminal justice system doesn't work to make person like you to go to jail .

We all know what happened. You lured me away from my friends by pretending that you are giving me a ride after work at OSRC, You convinced me to get into your car. You knew that you were going to have sex with me whether I wanted it or not. because It would be a trophy for you to have sex with a virgin . You brutalised me ,savaged my body so much that I couldn't sit down for days without pain. You bruised me . You did all this while I begged you to stop over and over again. You knew you were hurting me, in fact the more you hurt me the more aroused you got. I pulled a muscle in my pelvis trying to get away from you so don't pretend that I wanted it.
I tried to get you off me but It's your time of madness and your bruit force prevails .
Remember when you stopped for a second after ages of begging and looking straight into your eyes , you just pushed me back down on on the ground and continue your evil did.
You knew exactly what you were doing. Tell me, how is it that you are able to leave with this guilt over this years without seeking atonement of your transgressions ?
You have no idea the pain you have caused me, my family and friends.Who has to tolerate my unstable mind set for 29 years.You killed my joy ,my happiness and you simply killed my soul that day


I hope one day you are in fear for your life, then will you have some idea of what it was like for me that night . You should face me and explain yourself. You should face your coward action You treated me like I wasn't even human, you wouldn't treat an animal the way you treated me , but it's you that isn't human, I'm is more of a person than you will ever be.

You may think that you have gotten away with it but someday it will come back on you ten fold and you will get what you deserve to be in jail . I'm not afraid of you again and your puerile connection . You can not hurt me anymore.


End of Email and Now to Nairaland community

I shall in due time published his real name , facebook name email address and mobile number for Nairaland comunity . We need to stand for justice in our country . No one should be silent with rampant case of sexual assault in our country .No means No !!!

Sad! Do that already!

Why waste so much time on hiding his identity? Once a rapist, always a rapist. You never know who you'd be saving.

You should have added some death threats to the mail. It would be nice to see a 61 years old man always watchin his back for fear of the unknown

What a shame.And people think the evil they committed years ago is long and buried,well hello? the ghost comes back to haunt, if you don't know how to say 'I am sorry.

Find out more about him. Sell ur story 2 Nollywood, make a film out of ur story(make money) n his biography. Edit d film 2 suit taste. D title shld be his full name. He would be forced 2 watch. Then, d hunting will pin him down. Wateva comes out of it determines d part 2.

:p
But I hope u are married shaa.

hey! ur approach is very wrong and dangerous!

He can kill you to protect his behind and no one will know!

If u have a genuine case of ra.pe, go to court and table it, he will be summoned to face the charges labelled against him!

If you make the mistake of publishing his identity online, he will sue u for defamation!

don't forget your accusation is just your words against his!

The crime was committed long ago and it lacks merit [violation cases lack merit after 5 years!]

Mam, u should av reported the matter to the police when the crime was committed cause based on your story, you sure have a lot of evidence to nail him! the fact that you are a virgin [which would av been confirmed by a doctor] coupled with the bruises and body pains, would av been enough to finish him!

I will advice you to seek legal advice from an experience lawyer. dont take the laws into your hands, it may back fire on you.

sorry for your pains ma.

So sad! Sorry mam' but I tink u shud move on n leave him for God to clean up!

@ greateros, dat was a nice 1 from u, i don't know how 2 highlight/copy ur post i wud hav done so,@ poster kindly heed to d advice of greateros, though it's a very bitter experience but if u still wana hold him, do it d legal way, Meanwhil hav u 4gotten Karma? he wud have paid for nd probably still paying for what he did dat night.

I was a victim of abuse too from 3 different men b4 i was 9yrs, first was my step broda, he came visiting us i was happy 2see him nd i sat on his laps in d compound afta somtime when it became dark nd there was no light he inserted his finger into my virgina, i felt some pain but i just coldn't tell him to stop i thing i was arround 3-4yrs then but later stopped when he heared som1's footstep it wasn't dat he later threatned me not 2tell but i just had d fear of keeping it 2myself, anoda was a man who came 2 for som house fittings he, i was alone in d house but suddenly i didn't know what came ova him but i still remeber very well dat somtin stood still in his trouser nd was rubbing his hands all ova me my body but i spanked his hands nd ran outside yet i cud not tell anybody, d last was d worst of it all may be he's a gay a teacher nd a neighbour, we usually go 2his place for lesson he held me down nd dug his manhood in my anus, i thinks i should be arround 7yrs when this happened he continued in nd out till he finally stoped, i wasn't myself for days but i still could nt open up nd i don't know why but dis i think has a psychological effect on me now cos as i type dis i'm 28yrs nd i can't let anyman touch me, my hymen is still intact nd i'm a maiden, i had just 1 boyfriend in mylife nd broke up wit him 8yrs back nd eva since then i've nt given any man anoda chance. But i know they'll pay for all they did.

[size=15pt]You enjoyed it and he enjoyed it too. So get away [/size]

Boyloaf:

So sad! Sorry mam' but I tink u shud move on n leave him for God to clean up!

do you know how many girls will fall victim before "God cleans him up"? ORISIRISI.

Expose his name because his pending victims could be on Nairaland reading your post.

Are you the rap!st or what's your own it it?

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