The next worse thing after Hell Fire is a Bad Marriage.

After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life.
This subject is so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it.

It is better to be single believing God to be married, than to be married believing God to be single. Two cannot work or live together except they agree. For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also an believer cannot marry a unbeliever. If an elephant marry an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish when would they meet? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this.

The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?

Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.

You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God's will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage. Hebrews 13:4.

If you have had sex in the pass then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for sometime then you can seek the face of God.

Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honorable in the name of Jesus Christ.

Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.

But get married because you want to fulfill destiny. Get married because you want to be a help meet. As a man get married because you want to fulfil your purpose. God will help you in choosing wisely in Jesus Name.
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Great post. Many are already in "hell" as a result of their failure to wait on the Lord for the right person. Waiting may be painful and hard but what is the essence of the union, if there is no trace of the presence of God in it.
God bless you. God2man.

I disagree. GET MARRIED BECAUSE YOU WANT TO!GET MARRIED BECAUSE IT FEELS RIGHT.
You have the option to get out of a bad marriage. The next worst thing to hell is STAYING in a bad marriage.
Pre-marital sex or not. "Born Again" Christians have the HIGHEST rate of divorce world wide. You have absolutely NO justification to preach on the subject. Especially IF YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN DIVORCEE.
You don't get married for sex. ONLY HYPOCRITICAL CHRISTIANS DO only to get divorced after phocking and being lousy at it!
Thank you.

Jesus did not marry.
In fact, his parents, Joseph and Mary were married.
Nor did any of the apostles ...
What are we talking about?

Callotti: I disagree. GET MARRIED BECAUSE YOU WANT TO!GET MARRIED BECAUSE IT FEELS RIGHT.
You have the option to get out of a bad marriage. The next worst thing to hell is STAYING in a bad marriage.
Pre-marital sex or not. "Born Again" Christians have the HIGHEST rate of divorce world wide. You have absolutely NO justification to preach on the subject. Especially IF YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN DIVORCEE.
You don't get married for sex. ONLY HYPOCRITICAL CHRISTIANS DO only to get divorced after phocking and being lousy at it!
Thank you.

Exactly..you are on very much on cue.

I very much doubt that hellfire is worse than a bad marriage because bad marriages actually do exist and people who are living in them are alive and not crossed over into the afterlife.

Ptolomeus: Jesus did not marry.
In fact, his parents, Joseph and Mary were married.
Nor did any of the apostles ...
What are we talking about?

And who told you they weren't married?

Those 12 apostles sleeping in the same room with Jesus without their underwears and only gallons of vaseline in their nap sacks were NEVER married. How can 12 married men be following another man from village to village abandoning their wives and children for months on end? All in the name of apostleship or discipleship?

Thank God Catholic priests have shed more light on their activities of those days.
Imagine following Bishop Eddy Long or Pastor Odulele as a MALE apostle?

Callotti: Those 12 apostles sleeping in the same room with Jesus without their underwears and only gallons of vaseline in their nap sacks were NEVER married. How can 12 married men be following another man from village to village abandoning their wives and children for months on end? All in the name of apostleship or discipleship?

Thank God Catholic priests have shed more light on their activities of those days.
Imagine following Bishop Eddy Long or Pastor Odulele as a MALE apostle?

The bible recorded that of peter but was silent about the others.

next worst thing is to be possessed by demons.

procedure: next worst thing is to be possessed by demons.

I do not agree that the apostles sleep together as a matter of the devil.
I think it was an election of them.
We must understand that in antiquity there were other moral values.
At that time were normal certain types of relationships.
For example, adultery of Abraham and David were spoiled by God ...
Erl then we should not judge the behavior of the apostles with the concepts of today.