most times when i read through the posts in this forum i begin to wonder if it has really created positive impacts on the people involved. so i decided to ask this questions openly;

@ guys
every day different posts of guys looking for girlfriends, wives to be, or sex mates are posted, guys pls is it that the girls in nland has so much cheapened themselves or what?
can,t opposite sexes just be good friends without having sex? and all this guys that keep posting how much they need a babe, what about ur other babes what happened to them?

@ ladies
how can a financially okay and handsome young guy tell u he has no girlfriend and u believe him even without investigating?
lets not make it so easy for the guys to feel they can post their demands and the next minutes girls will be running after them and falling for their pranks.
the African woman is a virteous and hard working woman! for all i know most of this guys might be out to have fun and free sex and the next minute they are gone without minding the feelings of the lady they are leaving behind.
i think its high time we the ladies in this forum tell our selves the truth and see this guys and their posts for what they truly are.

sanrima:

most times when i read through the posts in this forum i begin to wonder if it has really created positive impacts on the people involved. so i decided to ask this questions openly;

@ guys
every day different posts of guys looking for girlfriends, wives to be, or sex mates are posted, guys please is it that the girls in nland has so much cheapened themselves or what?
can,t opposite sexes just be good friends without having sex? and all this guys that keep posting how much they need a babe, what about your other babes what happened to them?

@ ladies
how can a financially okay and handsome young guy tell u he has no girlfriend and u believe him even without investigating?
lets not make it so easy for the guys to feel they can post their demands and the next minutes girls will be running after them and falling for their pranks.
the African woman is a virteous and hard working woman! for all i know most of this guys might be out to have fun and free sex and the next minute they are gone without minding the feelings of the lady they are leaving behind.
i think its high time we the ladies in this forum tell our selves the truth and see this guys and their posts for what they truly are.

Seriously sister, your question is realy okay, I mean you 're not wrong asking those questions, but I think you sound a bit like a saddist, you sound like someone from nairaland has done something not nice to you, or you dont just like guys,,,
Well the truth is that you are actually talking about people that do such things, but they ar not the only people on Nairaland,

Maybe this 'd hellp you, try visiting other forums like tecnology, jokes, family, education, and others then you'd realise that you actually getting what you want from nairaland,

Okay
Cheer up, yoou don't have to be brutal, I mean your mode of saying the truth, is actually harsh,

e clear say dem don use and dump this poster so much

sister abeg take am easy not all guys bad as u look am
and even u sef knw say not all girls are angels
take am easy abeg u dey vex sha, ur BP go don dey boil pass 300kmph
easy abeg