Ok I am a white girl who has been married to a Nigerian man for a year almost and right now I came to a different state to see my family and I am 5 months pregnant with his first kid and it is a boy but for some reason I feel he is cheating on me and it hurts because I gave him my life how can I keep him forever how do Nigerian men want their ladies to be and act I don't want to lose him please help.

@ OP Congrats on your pregnancy. I am also a non Nigerian married with a beautiful son to an Igbo man. Well we are now living in Nigeria with him as we have many business over here, but i do visit my family in Canada when I can. You are asking a difficult question, because you have not given us a lot of information. How does he treat you? Is he kind and caring? Do you talk to his family? Are you sponsering him to get his immigration status in your country? Do you doubt his love for you? Really hard to give you any answers because we dont know the circumstances around the marriage. Look it is obvious that you love him very much, I hope he returns this love to you. Try to give some more info so we can better advise.

Well is caring and everyday he tells me he loves me he has never asked me to do his papers but yes I am going to help him with that but he still likes to go out to the club and me at home he is very jealous over me when it comes to other guys

And yes I do talk to his family all the time

my dear keep luving him no matter what happen one day he will be tied of cheating n ask u to forgive him

Just a feeling I have and us being apart and sometimes I call he don't answer and he is always going out

@ Poster dear....there is a big difference between 'feeling' and actually sure he is cheating and I mean with evidences, your emotions are everywhere because of your state, don't aLlow what you think you are 'feeling' affect your relationship.

And I wish you luck, welcomee to the club!!! .

Well poster most Nigerian men behave like your husband. Very possessive about their wives but feel they can stay out late with friends. You want to keep him?you have to get hooked on loads of patience, tolerance, keep looking sexy, dont nag, treat him like a king always. Nigerian women who are in your shoes pride themselves on being the first lady, the woman he comes home to every night and so they dont go looking for trouble.

Nigerian men want their ladies to ignore all their shortcomings, tolerate their excesses, Sex them like a LovePeddler in the bedroom and act like a cultured lady outside, be a good cook, if in the event that you discover a Nigerian man is cheating, you can be angry, quarrel with him but never leave him, just endure the days of his cheating until he is ready to cut off from his mistress despite all you must still love him.To alot of Nigerian men this is a perfect wife.
lest i forget they like their wives to be very spiritual as well.

Talk with your husband about how you feel.Stop bothering yourself whether he is cheating or not. Focus on yourself and love yourself.

andromida: Well poster most Nigerian men behave like your husband. Very possessive about their wives but feel they can stay out late with friends. You want to keep him?you have to get hooked on loads of patience, tolerance, keep looking sexy, dont nag, treat him like a king always. Nigerian women who are in your shoes pride themselves on being the first lady, the woman he comes home to every night and so they dont go looking for trouble.

Nigerian men want their ladies to ignore all their shortcomings, tolerate their excesses, Sex them like a LovePeddler in the bedroom and act like a cultured lady outside, be a good cook, if in the event that you discover a Nigerian man is cheating, you can be angry, quarrel with him but never leave him, just endure the days of his cheating until he is ready to cut off from his mistress despite all you must still love him.To alot of Nigerian men this is a perfect wife.
lest i forget they like their wives to be very spiritual as well.

Talk with your husband about how you feel.Stop bothering yourself whether he is cheating or not. Focus on yourself and love yourself.

am loving this,nice one agiboma.

@op dis is a very good advice

stereotyping at work, truth be told - if its not panadol then its not panadol.