zicopro: pls call ur guy and and ur sister and open up. Make sure u settle it there. Do u think if u walk away the next man will be good. 98 percent of men are unfaithful even pple who ask u to run for ur life are double dating and if u walk away will they love and marry u? Pls i advice u to handle it maturedly.

What exactly do you think they'll settle? You keep saying 98% of men are unfaithful.does that include your father? See there are good men out there who may not be as rich as this guy but then contrary to what most nigerian girls think,money alone does not guarantee a happy married life.anyway the op can do whatever she likes, its her life at the end.

@op,
Usually i dont bash ppl, now like winslet said, its probably attention, u r seeking.
But if it is a true story, then i must say u r the ''most stupid'' person ever to walk planet earth. I mean, cant u read the handwriting on d wall?, u r dating a man with no scruples where ur sister is concerned, its bad enough if it was a friend of yours, but damn, ur sister is just a no no.
This kind of man, will not only have extra marital affairs, he will do it right infront of you, in fact on ur matrimonial bed sef.
As for ur parents, i think money is involved in their descision, but wait have they been told, u can not have another man who is well to do?.
Confront ur man in the presence of ur sister and ur folks, but make sure u have evidence, like sms, call records etc.

But wait o, u r just 23, going on 24 , whats d rush, that you must now throw yourself at a philanderer?.

You want the story in the link below to be the bane of your family name abi?
http://www.leadership.ng/nga/articles/23286/2012/04/30/confusion_man_impregnates_mother_sister_delta.html