i strongly aggree that when a woman sees a man as a potential husband especially when the relationship is just begining, it can really scare him away. i am one of such men

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nice one, personally if i like a guy i ll tell u straight off and if i dont i wont hesitate to tell u. in order not to be too rude i could settle dwn for platonic frienship.all boundries on ground.

@topic----- the way to find love is to be lovable

Sounds like a job interview preparation to me!
I prefer to just be me,all this acting gets one in trouble once the real self shows up.And all this pretex is for the desperate women,find your PURPOSE in life and you will be contented and wont need to spend too much time waiting for a man to come fulfil you or fill the void.
Lets learn to appreciate each other, MEN AND WOMEN,I would rather WORK WITH THE WILLING,if a guy doesnt like what he sees,then let him keep moving until he gets what pleases his heart.
Life is not a DRESS REHEARSAL.
And men,learn from this,don't go for the nice or holy looking,they could be acting just for you.
I have an alcoholic lady friend who is always going to church,night vigil,pastors house,acts shy infront of men,acts very holy in public,drinks alot at home,lies about her age,has a messy apartment,uses alot of curse words,and yet will not accompany me to dance halls for fear of being seen by fellow nigerian men!I on the other hand do not drink,and am totally the opposite of her, but love to go dancing,am very sociable and friendly,DOES THIS MAKE HER BETTER MARRIAGE MATERIAL?

I feel the thread.

it is good to be yourself,but if u have a bad character u could work on yourself and be a better person.i agree with pinky.

10 Ways To Go From Girlfriend To Wife…….
Be a Woman All Day, Everywhere ….Have respect, pride and dignity for yourself.
Be Independent

Stay On Your Tippy Toes… Don’t get comfortable and lazy on your man

Turn His House Into a Home

Be a Godly Woman

Watch His Momma, Do What She Do

Challenge Him

Be His Biggest Fan… He need your support, your encouragement

Nurture Him The art of nurturing a man has been lost. Talk sweet to your man and whisper sweet nothings in his ear. Hug him, hold him, squeeze him too. Being a Black man is hard but with the nurturing of a good Black woman, it’s that much easier.

Be the Freakiest Person He Knows

Hey am single. Mind you I saw those post. You forgot to mention men go for God fearing ladies.