Just wanted to find out from you boys and girls, if you get a kick out of being told those words from ur partner or a friend. Personally, i think those word's 've been abused, but once again, thats what "I" think.

"I LOVE YOU", it's losing it's meaning. I actually don't espect more from people that tell me they love me. I don't take it as a special "vavava-voom". If you Love me as in intimate. Show me, You can tell me, but show me.

I love you is a thingi say to just about anybody, and when i say it, i know it just means i love you as in, aww you're soo adorable.

My point basically is: I LOve You, has no big meaning to me, not that it don't, but i don't take it as Arghhh, how do i say this? Okay i mean, i prefer when someone shows that they love me, rather than when they say it. Cos saying has no meaning anymore, just show me if you do. ya dig?

Show u, show u, show u what? How?

lol, show me you love me than just saying it. Saying it isn't the only way you can show me you love me. I have this little thing in my head that it doesn't really mean alot if you say "i love you". Show that you do.

i wish i can explain better.

Begining to get u. "i love u'' to me could pass for "Ur money or ur life" for whatever the words may mean. fact remains that d gullible nature of 'SOME' girls is unbelievable. tell them u love them, ,THE END.

the end of "what"?

The end of long-talk.

Im still lost.

He's trying to say that once you tell some girls "I love you", self-control flies out of the window and they are willing to do anything with you. Once you say "I love you", no more toasting is required!

I've overheard some girls complain that "I love you" only comes from the man in bed after the act -- as if they can't say it otherwise.

It still carry alot of weight if it coming from a sincere mind or some1 i luv 2

Very true but how do one know it's coming from a sincere mind? Personally, I still believe the act of actually showing the meaning of those words as well as saying it

In the first place, I don't believe in love so how can you tell me you love me and it will hold a meaning?

Its funny you dont really know when the mind is sincere but instinct kind of tell you when it real.
AT least i do know!

Well, congrats.I'm happy for you.

@2c
Why

@Dojo: because I want these words to mean something, but I've heard them said so many times from people who weren't feeling what they were saying. How do you know who to trust? or who to believe?

I'm sincere. I really mean what I said

To me it is as good as the chewing gum which anyone can chew for pleasure at anytime he/she feels like

Ok 2c thats a fine blend of emoticons u got lined up there.

Grizzly Bear, haven't you ever had mixed emotions before?

Grizzly bear?

i love you can mean different things at the same time
it cld be i want you in bed or i love your money or your body, it all depends on who is saying it and who they are sayin it to
i love you. why do you luv me? what do u understand by that L-word? these are things we girls shld consider b4 believing it. guys can do anything to get wht they want including saying i love you because it gets us just fine but girls are different just lie guys are so my ladies when a guy says dat u may want him to explain himself.

"I love you" means a whole lot to me. I don't use it anyhow and I don't expect people to say it unnecessarily to me.

I do not believe it when guys say I love you on first meetings (even if it's true) because actions speak louder than words. Show me love over time, let it grow and then when you say it, it'll be a verbal confirmation of what I know.

I'd rather not say "I love you" than say it and not mean it.

babygal i totally agree with you it's too abused don't say it unless you mean it that's d drill

sincerely speaking, those words do not mean a thing to me

Rhoda

Maybe she's broken up with Ken. Did you notice her signature has changed?

@ Dojo well, basically, it's just that im really used to my boyfriend telling me that all the time, so it's like, it's no longer anything new to me, see what i mean?

@Zah
breaking up with Ken, is like committing sucide i love da gu-y, i really really do, there's no way im ever going to break up with him, we want to get married you know?

breaking up with Ken, is like committing sucide.i love da gu-y, i really really do, there's no way im ever going to break up with him, we want to get married you know? Wink Kiss Kiss

@Rhoda
Actually,you'll be sad but it's not the end of the world because life goes on.It has happened to me before.
Congratulatios to you and Ken.Hold on tight to each other.I wish you all the best in life.

awwwwwww how sweet cheers, we'll make it i wish ya all the best toooooo