I bumped into a particularly old thread here on NL Romance where some random dude was asking for advice; some other random dudette had really spent on him and for so long, and now she wants to get married. Problem is said dude aint into it anymore and he wants out. That was the tale; the responses were something else. I've never seen feminine venom like that before, lol.
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Now here's my issue with it: I've heard ladies say so many times that spending on [your] gurl doesn't in any way equate to her owing you love or marriage or anything at all - and i totally agree. But how come the reverse isn't acceptable to the womenfolk?? Ladies have made it abundantly clear to guys that when they (the guys, i mean) spends on 'em, it is totally their own decision and no one forced them to spend, thus the ladies dont owe them nothing. But for some reason, [most] ladies can't seem to accept the reverse scenario - WHEN YOU SPEND ON A GUY, HE AIN'T OWING YOU NOTHING NEITHER.
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So here's my dare: Ladies, state your take on it and lets clear the issue once and for all, does spending [money] by one party imply a debt by the receiving party?

He doesn't owe nottin, u do it out of ur will
Sm men jst think wen u spend on dem, u r a mugu
*same as sm ladies 2 sha*
Bt I personally, no no no
Nt anymore, sm men r nt jst worth it men

kay9: I bumped into a particularly old thread here on NL Romance where some random dude was asking for advice; some other random dudette had really spent on him and for so long, and now she wants to get married. Problem is said dude aint into it anymore and he wants out. That was the tale; the responses were something else. I've never seen feminine venom like that before, lol.
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Now here's my issue with it: I've heard ladies say so many times that spending on [your] gurl doesn't in any way equate to her owing you love or marriage or anything at all - and i totally agree. But how come the reverse isn't acceptable to the womenfolk?? Ladies have made it abundantly clear to guys that when they (the guys, i mean) spends on 'em, it is totally their own decision and no one forced them to spend, thus the ladies dont owe them nothing. But for some reason, [most] ladies can't seem to accept the reverse scenario - WHEN YOU SPEND ON A GUY, HE AIN'T OWING YOU NOTHING NEITHER.
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So here's my dare: Ladies, state your take on it and lets clear the issue once and for all, does spending [money] by one party imply a debt by the receiving party?

Fair is fair.
I agree with you.

(although I may be one of those spitting out venom)
but again, fair is fair.

My thing is don't dish out and invest in what you are not sure of.
That is the biggest mistake ppl make on a daily basis.

Yawns


I'm goin back 2 bed - Jamo com join me

Yeah fair is fair but when you accept the whole kaboodle knowing you've got no intention of meeting the persons expectations of you then you are a f[i]u[/i]cking low life b[i]i[/i]tch arse demon!

Lord_Reed: Yeah fair is fair but when you accept the whole kaboodle knowing you've got no intention of meeting the persons expectations of you then you are a f[i]u[/i]cking low life b[i]i[/i]tch arse demon!

I don't follow you.

MsDarkSkin:

I don't follow you.

I could be wrong Sis....but he is saying that if people have no intention on being with the person they are accepting things from are just a low life biatch arse demon.

Mrs.Chima:


I could be wrong Sis....but he is saying that if people have no intention on being with the person they are accepting things from are just a low life biatch arse demon.

LOL ok.
Thanks sis.

MsDarkSkin:

LOL ok.
Thanks sis.

You are welcome Sis. I didn't want you to start swinging on him.

You know us Southerners get to twisting our necks and popping our lips...it on then!

Mrs.Chima:


I could be wrong Sis....but he is saying that if people have no intention on being with the person they are accepting things from are just a low life biatch arse demon.

Yep you are correct! Collect your pink furry animal at the exit.

Dyt:
Sm men jst think wen u spend on dem, u r a mugu
*same as sm ladies 2 sha*

Yeah maybe, but said men actually learnt that line of reasoning from the women. It gets so chics actually save guys' numbers as ''Mugu1'', ''Mugu2'', etc... Need i continue?
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MsDarkSkin:

Fair is fair.
I agree with you.

(although I may be one of those spitting out venom)

Darn right u were! Truthfully it was mostly your response back there that gave birth to this thread. So...what informed this change of mind?

190_@:
Yawns


I'm goin back 2 bed - Jamo com join me

What happened to the old '190'? Pooped inside the cathedral again?

Lord_Reed:

Yep you are correct! Collect your pink furry animal at the exit.

Tsk tsk tsk... Unfinished business with mama chima, yes?
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Mrs.Chima:


I could be wrong Sis....but he is saying that if people have no intention on being with the person they are accepting things from are just a low life biatch arse demon.

Ehn, u got him on spot... But i'm more interested in your own view.

Lord_Reed:

Yep you are correct! Collect your pink furry animal at the exit.

Furry? I don't want furry arse!!

I want some skin!

kay9: Tsk tsk tsk... Unfinished business with mama chima, yes?
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Ehn, u got him on spot... But i'm more interested in your own view.

Excuse me? I know you aren't bossing me!

Mrs.Chima:


Excuse me? I know you aren't bossing me!

It'd be a thankless job.
You dont have an opinion then, yes?

Lord_Reed:

Yep you are correct! Collect your pink furry animal at the exit.

chima...i am glad you resisted!

Mrs.Chima:


Furry? I don't want furry arse!!

I want some skin!

I thot all females like pink furry/fuzzy animals! O well shows what I know.

As for skin....hmmmm