And I'm very serious about this.
I asked this girl I'm seeing (who's quarter to being dumped really) that question and hear what she said:

1. Sex, good sex - biatch pls. I can get better with a love peddler
2. Mother to your children in future - in which life?
3. Take care of your home - i have been a bachelor for 3 years. I think i have done a good job taking care of my home.

At this point she goes silent. What else? I ask. What else do you want? She retorted, matter of factly. In my mind I smh. She has no clue, this one. How sad. Meanwhile we had spent the last hour having her list all she expects from me.

So ladies in the house what do you really bring to the table in your relationships? I am waiting for the answer that will make me take notice, not the usual ramblings from the usual suspects. Over to you

What do you guys bring? I thought you would tell us that.

Odunnu: What do you guys bring? I thought you would tell us that.

Dey bring nottin oda dan hrt ache

Odunnu: What do you guys bring? I thought you would tell us that.

Stop being defensive and answer the question, if you may. What we bring does not take an Einstein to figure out. I said she spent the last hour of that talk listing all of them, I lost count. So over to you once again.

Dyt:

Dey bring nottin oda dan hrt ache

Another girl on the defensive.

Before I run off because bottles will soon start flying soon.

Though most women really and truly do not bring much to the table but believe it that there are extreme exceptions.

When you meet that "one woman" whoc comes as a mother, sister or best friend figure. Who gives you the best of advice and support, you will wish you had found her from birth and your greatest nightmare will be letting her slip by.


Some women are just exceptional.

acidtalk: Before I run off because bottles will soon start flying soon.

Though most women really and truly do not bring much to the table but believe it that there are extreme exceptions.

When you meet that "one woman" whoc comes as a mother, sister or best friend figure. Who gives you the best of advice and support, you will wish you had found her from birth and your greatest nightmare will be letting her slip by.


Some women are just exceptional.

Good talk there. But that is not all I'm looking for. What is the purpose of her life? Does she have her own dreams, visions, hopes, pursuits that is somehow not tied to just being my wife? Does she command respect from society for what she is (or is striving to be)? So many other questions coming as we go along. I hate the idea of my being the very air a girl breathes. She had her life before I came along, what happened to it?

Besides financial support and a d!ck i don't know what else you bring to the table. Women can also have these things without being in a relationship so I don't know what you're going on about.

Your woman is supposed to be your best friend someone whom you can share your secrets and fears with because you know you're safe with her. She's a strong pillar of support for you. A person who encourages you when you are down and ready to give up. She's the one to slap your face to remind you of the man she fell in love with. A man who makes her a better person so you have no choice but to be the best person for her in return.

You must be stupid to think its easy pushing out a baby from a vijayjay not to talk of raising your children. For a woman to go through all that pain because of you is something and thrumps whatever you feel you're offering her. She makes your world brighter and can't imagine going one day without her.

Its all about having that companion you would spend all your lifetimes with. Sex is a very good plus, nothing beats having your personal ho . Whether you want someone who stays at home or is independent is entirely up to you, the basics still stands.

This is a privilege not a right. My opinion.

Seeing as ur a perpetual mumu your own is finished!

^ na
U don't nid go dis far
Dey r simply blind in n out 2 even c wat we worth
Bats

^
Its the least I can do for the poor woman he ends up with!

Kevin_II: And I'm very serious about this.
I asked this girl I'm seeing (who's quarter to being dumped really) that question and hear what she said:

1. Sex, good sex - biatch pls. I can get better with a love peddler
2. Mother to your children in future - in which life?
3. Take care of your home - i have been a bachelor for 3 years. I think i have done a good job taking care of my home.

At this point she goes silent. What else? I ask. What else do you want? She retorted, matter of factly. In my mind I smh. She has no clue, this one. How sad. Meanwhile we had spent the last hour having her list all she expects from me.

So ladies in the house what do you really bring to the table in your relationships? I am waiting for the answer that will make me take notice, not the usual ramblings from the usual suspects. Over to you

whose fault is it that you have a girl or girls who do not bring ANYTHING to the table?
Whose?

Hey Kevin_II, suprised to see u on hia. But didn't u tell Jaybee u wer leaving nairaland 4 gud? Or did Seun beg u not to?

cowgurl: Hey Kevin_II, suprised to see u on hia. But didn't u tell Jaybee u wer leaving nairaland 4 gud? Or did Seun beg u not to?

lmao

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Kevin, we see you!!

ijebabe: Besides financial support and a d!ck i don't know what else you bring to the table. Women can also have these things without being in a relationship so I don't know what you're going on about.

Your woman is supposed to be your best friend someone whom you can share your secrets and fears with because you know you're safe with her. She's a strong pillar of support for you. A person who encourages you when you are down and ready to give up. She's the one to slap your face to remind you of the man she fell in love with. A man who makes her a better person so you have no choice but to be the best person for her in return.

You must be stupid to think its easy pushing out a baby from a vijayjay not to talk of raising your children. For a woman to go through all that pain because of you is something and thrumps whatever you feel you're offering her. She makes your world brighter and can't imagine going one day without her.

Its all about having that companion you would spend all your lifetimes with. Sex is a very good plus, nothing beats having your personal ho . Whether you want someone who stays at home or is independent is entirely up to you, the basics still stands.

This is a privilege not a right. My opinion.

Seeing as ur a perpetual mumu your own is finished!

Ijejeci, do you have to keep cussing? no wonder you can't find a man...

Some good points raised. But errm, about the baby thing, it is not a must. Do I even want kids? And if yes, there are other ways and means these days, so make we hear word. So she born pikin for me, and then? And personal ho? . My fear is even that sooner or later the thing will go slack and then sex will be something I'll have to do absentmindedly, while reading a book.

Support, I agree. Companion, maybe. But She has to have her own life and her own dreams. I will take nothing less

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Kevin, we see you!!

It is my topic, duh! I have to be here. Was receiving a call while trying to reply.

cowgurl: Hey Kevin_II, suprised to see u on hia. But didn't u tell Jaybee u wer leaving nairaland 4 gud? Or did Seun beg u not to?

Na so u dumb reach? How does taking a break equate leaving? dodoyo

slimyem: whose fault is it that you have a girl or girls who do not bring ANYTHING to the table?
Whose?

What do you bring to the table for your boyfriend, if you have one? What?

Dyt: ^ na
U don't nid go dis far
Dey r simply blind in n out 2 even c wat we worth
Bats

Reptile

ijebabe: ^
Its the least I can do for the poor woman he ends up with!

If they are in such pitiable states, how come I'm every girl's dream? Pray tell

Kevin_II:


Ijejeci, do you have to keep cussing? no wonder you can't find a man...

Some good points raised. But errm, about the baby thing, it is not a must. Do I even want kids? And if yes, there are other ways and means these days, so make we hear word. So she born pikin for me, and then? And personal ho? . My fear is even that sooner or later the thing will go slack and then sex will be something I'll have to do absentmindedly, while reading a book.

Support, I agree. Companion, maybe. But She has to have her own life and her own dreams. I will take nothing less

The day you stop cussing. Is that my name up there, don't make me..... My man doesn't concern you so keep shut about him.
So you want to rent a womb and then leave the children with a nanny adding more clueless people to the Nigerian population? Everyone's vijayjay will slack one day, including yours so stop whining. If you want someone independent then go and get her if you can, who's stopping you.

Kevin_II:

It is my topic, duh! I have to be here. Was receiving a call while trying to reply.

If they are in such pitiable states, how come I'm every girl's dream? Pray tell

Story! Let me laff sef

I bring swagga and d whole ko ma roll events mehn!

Kevin u dig it!

ijebabe:
The day you stop cussing. Is that my name up there, don't make me..... My man doesn't concern you so keep shut about him.
So you want to rent a womb and then leave the children with a nanny adding more clueless people to the Nigerian population? Everyone's vijayjay will slack one day, including yours so stop whining. If you want someone independent then go and get her if you can, who's stopping you.

What is your name? Oya come and whisper it in my ear. Meanwhile that's a big lie o. My rod will keep function until the end, and when the vijayjay(according to you) slacks, why can't the woman just free the man to go and look for a tight vijay out there? Why must she selfishly tie him down to her slackened produce? Pray tell. And my kids won't be Nigerians please. They'll be 1st gen Americans, thanks.
The lucky woman that ties me down to her will have to be the full definition of Miss Independent. I will have nothing less!

Women bring plenty to a relationship. What is lacking in you is what you cant see.When you are ready and open and the time is right, you will no longer need to ask this question.

ijebabe:

Story! Let me laff sef

If it's story how come all the girls in my neighborhood can't have enuff of me? How come cindyrella can't have enuff of me. How come ijejeci thinks of me every minute of the day? How come every girl wishes her bf was like me? Pray tell. My credentials too tight! Nothing do me!

Kevin_II:
Na so u dumb reach? How does taking a long break equate leaving? dodoyo

Kevin_II:
I was expecting that. In which case you should have pointed that out, or asked me to check my numbers, not deal the heavy hand you are becoming legendary for. As a protest therefore, I am taking a long break outta here. see you when I see you.

There, u have it. U wrote dat 2 Jaybee on d 2nd of May n today is 12th? Clap 4 ursef junior 4 being so 'Smart'.

Idowuogbo: I bring swagga and d whole ko ma roll events mehn!

Kevin u dig it!

I dig o. I hope someday the guy no go tire sha...

talina: Women bring plenty to a relationship. What is lacking in you is what you cant see.When you are ready and open and the time is right, you will no longer need to ask this question.

Wrong, Miss. When I see what she brings I will no longer need to ask the question.

Kevin_II:

What is your name? Oya come and whisper it in my ear. Meanwhile that's a big lie o. My rod will keep function until the end, and when the vijayjay(according to you) slacks, why can't the woman just free the man to go and look for a tight vijay out there? Why must she selfishly tie him down to her slackened produce? Pray tell. And my kids won't be Nigerians please. They'll be 1st gen Americans, thanks.
The lucky woman that ties me down to her will have to be the full definition of Miss Independent. I will have nothing less!

Oya clap for urself

Kevin_II:

I dig o. I hope someday the guy no go tire sha...


Wrong, Miss. When I see what she brings I will no longer need to ask the question.

Its a 2 way street. Both lanes must be open.

cowgurl: There, u have it. U wrote dat 2 Jaybee on d 2nd of May n today is 12th? Clap 4 ursef junior 4 being so 'Smart'.

Exactly! Question still is how does 'taking a break' equate to 'leaving NL for good'? Answer the question and stop dilly dallying. Meanwhile what did you graduate with? 3rd class? No wonder you can't comprehend simple English

The same things men bring to the table....NOT A DAMN THING.

talina:

Its a 2 way street. Both lanes must be open.

I hear ya.

Mrs.Chima:
The same things men bring to the table....NOT A DAMN THING.

Says the woman who contributes nada.....will come back later. ciao

Kevin_II:

Says the woman who contributes nada.....will come back later. ciao

Don't be mad at the truth sayer!