It's a common phenomenon that most muslim guys prefer to date xtian gals these days. As a result most brothers have lost their fate. Most say that they can't find suitable muslim sista to date. I believe because of the hip culture that xtianity embraced, I slam is looking old-school to them.

Brothers in the house what can we do to change this situation as the future of islam lies in the coherence of her family.

there are muslim girls around, marry them! Afterall you all claim that islam is from "god", how is is that he cannot even provide muslim wives for his slaves?

It is a sign that islam is nothing but a dead cult that muslim men now have to fall back on christian women to get mates. Christian girls who date muslims need to check the validity of their supposed faith.

Muslim males dont want to be seen with hijab-wearing girls and YET they cry about their love for islam. What a bunch of deluded hypocrites.

bolargeez:

I believe because of the hip culture that xtianity embraced, I slam is looking old-school to them.

Not true. Biblical Christianity did not "embrace" the hip culture; and we know of many in the Muslim world who do not need any religion to show them the way to the hip side of town.

bolargeez:

Brothers in the house what can we do to change this situation as the future of islam lies in the coherence of her family.

You don't need to change anything. Change Islam itself and let people make up their minds without the sword.

Well, this aint new though, because is alow in the religion to date xtain, but if ur talking about does that just want to wea there self, would say the xtain gurls are very simple to wae than the muslems once!

needeeg:

Well, this aint new though, because is alow in the religion to date xtain, but if your talking about does that just want to wea there self, would say the xtain girls are very simple to wae than the muslems once!

erm sir, learn to tell the truth. ONLY MUSLIM MEN are allowed to date christians . . . now why would allah allow you to date people he refered to as infidels and accursed people meant only for the hotest part of hell? Allah has a huge crisis of identity and a problem with consistency.

Because Christian girls are generally more willing to engage in premarital sex, and Muslim men want it too.

lol

wonderful take oga seun. muslim girls do it too they dont flauntit or do it openly because of the reaction of their community. my folks used to run a beer parlour and i can say majority of the clients were muslims plus down our street was a brothel for the police barrack that was there. however, when the uniformed guys moved out, all the mallams and aboki's in town saw it as an extension of their mosque.

Because the Muslim guys wants more converts to Islam and getting more babies through that is another option.
Don't forget that Muslims are allowed to marry many wives so after the Xtian wife, they will then go back for Adijat, Aminat, Kuburat etc

@poster

If you're talking of 'conc' Muslim men dating 'conc' Christian ladies, then I think you got it all wrong.

But I think I understand you, and one of the major reasons is what Seun has mentioned here.  If we are going to be sincere with ourselves here, many will agree with me that majority of the wayward girls today belong to Christianity, at least, they all 'go to church'. (Note that I did not say they're "Christians", before someone starts to define to me, what it means to be a "Christian".

Many Muslim girls I know, are usually very discplined compared to their Christrian counterpart.  And I think it is because of the way their religion makes them view things - No mercy if caught doing wrong.  Unlike Christianity where there seems to be a lot of "grace" and "forgiveness", which many of our "Christian sisters" have, unfortunately, taken for granted.  Afterall, "God" will still "forgive" them!

Purist:

Many Muslim girls I know, are usually very discplined compared to their Christrian counterpart. And I think it is because of the way their religion makes them view things - No mercy if caught doing wrong. Unlike Christianity where there seems to be a lot of "grace" and "forgiveness", which many of our "Christian sisters" have, unfortunately, taken for granted. Afterall, "God" will still "forgive" them!

this is not only untrue but invalided stretching of theories to fit the fact. REAL christian girls are some of the strictest and most disciplined set of women you will ever see. Just ask the ultra conservative deeper life members.
In christianity there is "grace and forgiveness" BUT NOT to continue in sin.

davidylan:

this is not only untrue but invalided stretching of theories to fit the fact. REAL christian girls are some of the strictest and most disciplined set of women you will ever see. Just ask the ultra conservative deeper life members.
In christianity there is "grace and forgiveness" BUT NOT to continue in sin.

Did you mistakenly skip the paragraph before the one you quoted or you just feel like quoting me?

bia wheres my post, i was the first to comment  on this topic. . .so wheres my post gone wareva tho

Seun:

Because Christian girls are generally more willing to engage in premarital sex, and Muslim men want it too.

i totally totally disagree with you.muslims girls are generally more sexually active,they may be pretencious and get at it hiddenly  

^{dnt be deceived by them pashminas}

Purist:

@poster

If you're talking of 'conc' Muslim men dating 'conc' Christian ladies, then I think you got it all wrong.

But I think I understand you, and one of the major reasons is what Seun has mentioned here.  If we are going to be sincere with ourselves here, many will agree with me that majority of the wayward girls today belong to Christianity, at least, they all 'go to church'. (Note that I did not say they're "Christians", before someone starts to define to me, what it means to be a "Christian".

Many Muslim girls I know, are usually very discplined compared to their Christrian counterpart.  And I think it is because of the way their religion makes them view things - No mercy if caught doing wrong.  Unlike Christianity where there seems to be a lot of "grace" and "forgiveness", which many of our "Christian sisters" have, unfortunately, taken for granted.  Afterall, "God" will still "forgive" them!

So in essence, Muslim men like to Date and MARRY wayward "Christian" gals I don't get it.

I do not agree with that claim because when I was growing up in Ikorodu, majority of the wayward gals I knew were muslims so I do not think waywardness is necessarily a religious thing, especially in public schools.

Another nauseating thread.

men u guys are true life, i mean what else can i call it, muslim guys dating xtian girls is not new and it will neva stop i guess u shud do a survey on the vice versa (xtian guys muslim girls) too. to me i guess people are more apt to obey their emotions than just following religion says this or that, remember "love" is also a determining factor, i wudnt agree that a high % of muslim guys and xtian girls that date get married and besides its not about the religion its about what the guy in question wants. i ave seen "hip" muslim guys who ended up marrying hijab sistas, it all depends on the emotions of the man and what he wants.

@davidylan: u seem to ave an issue with the mere mention of the word Islam or muslims, u catch fire and start hurling invectives against anything that has to do with Islam, muslims and even God, how manytimes do u ave to be told that the word Allah means God in arabic; If u actually ave issues with muslims or the religion maybe u can air them, cos i dont understand ur problem with Islam even on posts that ave nothing to do with Islam u use it as the butt of ur jokes. Most times all you do makes u sound like someone from the "Inquisition Era".  

The first step in physical attraction is actually seeing the person.
I am not a man but I think men,Christians or Muslims value a beautiful well dressed,sweet smelling  woman.

If a Muslim girl covers herself with a burqua,I guess it leaves plenty to the imagination and most people may not be comfortable speaking with a girl wearing a tent since they may be speaking imagining Halle Berry but speaking to Macy Gray.

I've spent sometime in the North of Nigeria,Muslim men are very charming and know how to pursue a woman with caring words.
I don't know if it's due to Islam or just Northern culture since the Christian Northerners are also very wonderful, people.
Our Christian sisters ought to be very careful because Islam permits them to sow their wild oats on the infidels while covering up their aishatu and mukinatu for eventual unpackaging.

Some poster talked about Christian girls being wayward,that is so wrong.
I remember back in the day,those hooded wives of Alhajis would hit the streets of Jos at midnight looking for men while their husbands were away on "business".
Promiscuity or waywardness is not a Christian virtue.
You don't have to be Muslim or Christian to decide to keep yourself undefiled.

" The problem with religion is not about the faith, The problem is more with the faithfuls."

@machu_1 : i think i agree with u.

the reverse is my own case, I'm a christian in love with a muslim girl

nwando:


Our Christian sisters ought to be very careful because Islam permits them to sow their wild oats on the infidels while covering up their aishatu and mukinatu for eventual unpackaging.

why must mukinatu be an example

kq:

@davidylan: u seem to ave an issue with the mere mention of the word Islam or muslims, u catch fire and start hurling invectives against anything that has to do with Islam, muslims and even God, how manytimes do u ave to be told that the word Allah means God in arabic; If u actually ave issues with muslims or the religion maybe u can air them, because i don't understand your problem with Islam even on posts that ave nothing to do with Islam u use it as the butt of your jokes. Most times all you do makes u sound like someone from the "Inquisition Era".

Where are the "invectives" uncle Kq? You mean the curses that allah says are heaped on the head of jews and christians?

The word "allah" actually refered to one of the 360 idols in the kaaba before mohammed appeared on the scene with his fraudulent claims of "revelations". Maybe you shld read your history books first before merely parroting the theories of imam's struggling to legitimise islam by claiming allah means "god".

i tink all a real muslim guy knws his bearings

notin more

You guys are just talking sentimentally, but i don't blame you, cos the one that started this topic did it too.
         I will tell you exactly what is happening, but before i do, i need to clarify something. All religions welcome newcomers and they usually give them a fresh start, so islam allows muslim men to marry (not date) christian women because wives and children tend to follow the faith of the head of the family as a result increasing the number of muslims through one ex-christian woman. If however a muslim woman marries a man from another religion, then she and her children will tend towards their head of the family's faith.
        HERE IT COMES.
        Most of the muslim guys that date christian girls want to date the christian girls' style (popular belief of the christian girls style), but those girls only bear the name christians because they go to church and the guys bear the name muslims because they go to the mosque. They cannot represent their faith because all they do is go contrary to their own faiths.
         Unfortunately, the christian girls are more known for the hip-lifestye because they do things more in the open while muslim girls that do these things don't.
         The main difference lies in the number of individuals from these groups that take part in those God forsaken acts, and in this respect the christian girls are more known to do those things than the muslim girls.
         This is my view in this issue of yours which i think is so obvious to the normal guy that it shouldn't have been mentioned.
         The pessimistic, naive, and paranoid guys can continue to ponder over this issue though, but i live you in peace.
                                                    cheers!!!!!!

@Nwando: Just for kicks, but is reality. Muslims or not, male or female, should not be engaged in out of marriage sex. Dating should be engagement, really and courtship should not be protracted.

If you are not going to eat it, do not put it close to your nose, as to smell it first. Marriage is serious thing. Muslims are slackers, just as christians or others. However, Islam has a set of rules towards crime and punishment. Unfortunately, the muslims do not heed the injuction of God Allah and the instructions of His noble messenger (as). I am a man who would not want any man to date my woman folks, as to creat a condition of unmarried sexual activity, even just one time. I will not do it with other people's woman folks.

However, no one wants to be given an already peeled banana. This is why I will prefer that my women folks and wives to at least put on Hijab. Burqah, is very pretty on a woman. You may actually find Halley Berry under it. You as a man does not want your halley Berry to be a community property!

My taste is more of Kenya Moore, and Tyra Banks' type. I love african women.  If I get with a christian woman, my intention is to rehabilitate her. Its like clearing a heap of dump from a site and finally building a beautiful castle on it!

You must teach her how to make hestinger ( Small wudu when you make Nos 1 and or 2!) Your sister enjoys that, Nwando. And there are still an opening or two. Laughing out Loud.

olabowale:

However, no one wants to be given an already peeled banana. This is why I will prefer that my women folks and wives to at least put on Hijab. Burqah, is very pretty on a woman. You may actually find Halley Berry under it. You as a man does not want your halley Berry to be a community property!

The veiling of women was introduced by a very insecure mohammed, afraid that other men would actually find his wives desirable!
Alhaji no be true?

As much as you can find Halle Bery under a burqa, more often than not you will find a terrorist under it.

kq:


@davidylan: u seem to ave an issue with the mere mention of the word Islam or muslims, u catch fire and start hurling invectives against anything that has to do with Islam, muslims and even God, how manytimes do u ave to be told that the word Allah means God in arabic; If u actually ave issues with muslims or the religion maybe u can air them, because i don't understand your problem with Islam even on posts that ave nothing to do with Islam u use it as the butt of your jokes. Most times all you do makes u sound like someone from the "Inquisition Era".

Very true!

davidylan sees the world through the double-prism of the Holocaust and the Arab-Israeli wars.
davidylan does not believe anything good can come from Islam.
davidylan hates all Muslims.
davidylan sees all Muslims as suicide bombers.
davidylan needs help!

Another deluded muslim comes along: 

davidylan sees the world through the double-prism of the Holocaust and the Arab-Israeli wars. - Not at all, the holocaust and the arab-isreali wars have little to do with my existence. I only try to set things right especially when liars like you attempt to use revisionist history and fraudulent propaganda to decieve the weak minded.

davidylan does not believe anything good can come from Islam - You can quote me on that anytime. I see nothing good in a religion that espouses violence, glorifies death and reveres the amoral.

davidylan hates all Muslims - lol i've had more muslims as friends than you will ever know. 

davidylan sees all Muslims as suicide bombers - false. That is the trick currently being employed by muslims who are desperate too bury the truth. Anytime we remind them that suicide bombers are the exclusive preserve of the religion of the maurading bandit also called a prophet, they quickly accuse us of claiming all muslims are suicide bombers. No, many muslims are suicide bombers . . . the vast majority who don't strap bombs to themselves can be accused of complicity by thehir duplicitiousness.

davidylan needs help! - Psalm 54:4 Behold, God is mine helper

RichyBlacK:

Very true!

davidylan sees the world through the double-prism of the Holocaust and the Arab-Israeli wars.
davidylan does not believe anything good can come from Islam.
davidylan hates all Muslims.
davidylan sees all Muslims as suicide bombers.
davidylan needs help!

This davidylan guy must be a hater of Islam, maybe you should deploy a suicide bomber to his neighborhood and level the whole neighborhood. Nonsense. I've read a lot of his posts, and I wish more christians would follow in his footsteps.

RichyBlacK:

Very true!

davidylan sees the world through the double-prism of the Holocaust and the Arab-Israeli wars.
davidylan does not believe anything good can come from Islam.
davidylan hates all Muslims.
davidylan sees all Muslims as suicide bombers.
davidylan needs help!

Richyblack,aren't you the Igbo guy married abi cohabiting with a Somali Muslim girl.
Allah has buttered your bread now,why are you attacking davidylan for no reason on this thread.
Don't you have a burqua to unveil

olabowale:

@Nwando: Just for kicks, but is reality. Muslims or not, male or female, should not be engaged in out of marriage sex. Dating should be engagement, really and courtship should not be protracted.

If you are not going to eat it, do not put it close to your nose, as to smell it first. Marriage is serious thing. Muslims are slackers, just as christians or others. However, Islam has a set of rules towards crime and punishment. Unfortunately, the muslims do not heed the injuction of God Allah and the instructions of His noble messenger (as). I am a man who would not want any man to date my woman folks, as to creat a condition of unmarried sexual activity, even just one time. I will not do it with other people's woman folks.

However, no one wants to be given an already peeled banana. This is why I will prefer that my women folks and wives to at least put on Hijab. Burqah, is very pretty on a woman. You may actually find Halley Berry under it. You as a man does not want your halley Berry to be a community property!

My taste is more of Kenya Moore, and Tyra Banks' type. I love african women. If I get with a christian woman, my intention is to rehabilitate her. Its like clearing a heap of dump from a site and finally building a beautiful castle on it!

You must teach her how to make hestinger ( Small wudu when you make Nos 1 and or 2!) Your sister enjoys that, Nwando. And there are still an opening or two. Laughing out Loud.

You with this your sweet mouth,let me remind you that if you look at another woman anyhow,my sister will wound o.
Igbo girls no dey joke.
She may be wearing a hijab but believe me,she knows when to toss it aside and get into "tae kwon do" mode.
I don talk my own.

Interestin!!!_{religion palava} "Generalization " major common problem found within most threads!

davidylan:


davidylan sees all Muslims as suicide bombers - false. That is the trick currently being employed by muslims who are desperate too bury the truth. Anytime we remind them that suicide bombers are the exclusive preserve of the religion of the maurading bandit also called a prophet, they quickly accuse us of claiming all muslims are suicide bombers. No, many muslims are suicide bombers . . . the vast majority who don't strap bombs to themselves can be accused of complicity by thehir duplicitiousness.

Rabbi davidylan, learn simple things like posting the truth.

Before the first Muslim man or woman strapped a bomb on, the Japanese, during the second world war, perfected the suicide bomb attack (Kamikaze) - sinking US vessels and turning the pacific into the final resting place of many GIs.