Pls i need an advice as im about making a great decision in my life.
Im a young man of 26 yrs, a graduate, unmarried and presently workin in a sustainable family biz in ibadan. I earn btw 2m-2.5m yearly.
However, lately i have been having a sense of discontentment as i move to adult level in life. I want to live in another city (cos i ve lived in ib all my life). I have decided america is best place for me as i already have a sis who is a citizen there. She has advised that i will need to go back to school and study medical related discipline for 4-5 years so my future will be guaranteed in america...and also during dat period to look for a lady dat can make my papers (green card).
plsease nairalander i need ur help. Wat is your take on this?? Is it wise or i shld jejely stay here?? Pls those abroad too pls i will appreciate ur contributions. Thanks thanks thanks.

Bayo Adex: Pls i need an advice as im about making a great decision in my life.
Im a young man of 26 yrs, a graduate, unmarried and presently workin in a sustainable family biz in ibadan. I earn btw 2m-2.5m yearly.
However, lately i have been having a sense of discontentment as i move to adult level in life. I want to live in another city (cos i ve lived in ib all my life). I have decided america is best place for me as i already have a sis who is a citizen there. She has advised that i will need to go back to school and study medical related discipline for 4-5 years so my future will be guaranteed in america...and also during dat period to look for a lady dat can make my papers (green card).
plsease nairalander i need ur help. Wat is your take on this?? Is it wise or i shld jejely stay here?? Pls those abroad too pls i will appreciate ur contributions. Thanks thanks thanks.

Your sister is being very naive, your future will not be guaranteed because you studied in America or have a green card.

With the amount you make now yearly you stand a better chance in Nigeria than in America, going to America to study will cost you nothing less than $20,000, getting a lady to marry you for green card is a massive gamble that can go horribly wrong, and if it does, you will be deported, lost all the money invested then back to square one in Nigeria.

If you have the money to study in America and that is your goal then go for it with open mind, its a costly life investment but the return is not always instant.