It's called emotional cheating . . .Typical of people like me who have wandering hearts and emotions.

Telling your partner about it helps to discourage its development into physical cheating, but how many partners are mature enough to understand, handle and help the situation? Few!

ijebabe:
LMAO! I wouldn't want to be associated with ur type so ur reputation is safe

Liar

Missy_B: It's called emotional cheating . . .Typical of people like me who have wandering hearts and emotions.

Telling your partner about it helps to discourage its development into physical cheating, but how many partners are mature enough to understand, handle and help the situation? Few!

True. The bolded is my main concern but it seems like not many are open to discussing this with their hubby for fear of accusation. The moment people realise it for what it is (just a crush) i think it may allow the couple to feel more connected and even go as far as reducing jealousy.

Mynd_44:
Liar

This is not the lie thread abeg, you missed road!

ijebabe:
LMAO! I wouldn't want to be associated with ur type so ur reputation is safe

Ijebabe. u should be happy i want since ur ugly. I date anythins!

Mr..Cork:


Ijebabe. u should be happy i want since ur ugly. I date anythins!

That i believe!

ijebabe:
That i believe!

hang on you ugly mofo ijebebe. My girl friend loooks like Beyansi!!!

Mr..Cork:


hang on you ugly mofo ijebebe. My girl friend loooks like Beyansi!!!

ROFLMFAO!!!!!!! Bearded goat rap[b]e[/b]r, was that a retraction you attempted? Beyansi ur black ass!

You can't help who you like or who you are physically attracted to. It's not wrong unless you act on it. Acting on it can be spending time with that person, talking to that person often, or more serious indiscretions. If we were punished from our thoughts...smh. No, I would never tell a partner. It would only foster insecurity and jealousy.

ijebabe: It will be great to have honest answers to this. It is normal to have crushes on other people while in a serious relationship and i'm not talking about actors and celebrities. As a woman will you be open to telling ur man about this and guys will you do the same? I'm open about these things and so are my friends that their man sometimes ask ' Oh how is that guy haven't heard about him in a while' . But I know some guys/ladies can be very jealous so tell me what you think?

Ijejeci, It's ok if you're in love with me. Your boyfriend will not vex, I swaar. Oya come give papa a kiss

Kevin_II:

Ijejeci, It's ok if you're in love with me. Your boyfriend will not vex, I swaar. Oya come give papa a kiss

Don't you think it is a wee bit disgusting for a daughter to kiss her dad?

OK=2=NV:

slut

www.nairaland.com/952403/chic-2weeks-wants-leave-me

12yr old learns to use d internet... Kids on rampage.

Ijebabe has crush on me?

Awwww ijebubu

bisi16:

www.nairaland.com/952403/chic-2weeks-wants-leave-me

12yr old learns to use d internet... Kids on rampage.

Don't mind him Bisi. Everyone knows to ignore his sex-depraved rants

Smh

Kevin_II:
Ijejeci, It's ok if you're in love with me. Your boyfriend will not vex, I swaar. Oya come give papa a kiss

Chimezie198:
Ijebabe has crush on me?

Awwww ijebubu

I was talking about real people in everyday life not NL!

Erm, I'm undecided about you both so why not wrestle each other for the position

ijebabe:



I was talking about real people in everyday life not NL!

Erm, I'm undecided about you both so why not wrestle each other for the position

Na wah u oo!

Hw a 'big' lyk me go dey wrestle bcoz of u na

come make i spoil u wiv ₦ £ € $. Btw am related to Bright Chimezie

not all men can stand their women crush, because of jealousy and insecurities

ijebabe:



I was talking about real people in everyday life not NL!

Erm, I'm undecided about you both so why not wrestle each other for the position

Ijejeci, the day I wrestle another man because of a woman is the day I DIE! I shoot them off, not time.
@Chimezie, u wan die? Oya withdraw your candidacy shaperly

^ BACK OFF ^

@Ijebabe

Having a crush is normal but when you start acting all silly around that person, I am out

Mynd_44: Having a crush is normal but when you start acting all silly around that person, I am out

Bro u dey go shiit for bush?

Chimezie198: Bro u dey go shiit for bush?

It's normal! bt i can only tell my partner if i'm sure she can handle it. if not, i keep it to myself. And if my partner tells me abt hers, it's a pinch of salt provided it remains a crush oooooooo

^^ Lol @ if i'm sure she can handle it. So you would only tell her if the girl is not as good looking as ur girl?

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ijebabe: ^^ Lol @ if i'm sure she can handle it. So you would only tell her if the girl is not as good looking as ur girl?

Nope. wat i mean is, u knw dat jealousy rates higher on d side of women dan men, so if i'm convinced she wont let it affect her behaviour 2wds me, i'll tell her. bt if it will make her go berserk, den i beta kp it 2 myself

Adeks: Nope. wat i mean is, u knw dat jealousy rates higher on d side of women dan men, so if i'm convinced she wont let it affect her behaviour 2wds me, i'll tell her. bt if it will make her go berserk, den i beta kp it 2 myself

Ade! Hi Ade! Bye Ade!

Idowuogbo:
Ade! Hi Ade! Bye Ade!

ID kini mo se ooooo

Adeks: ID kini mo se ooooo

Nothing now! Just saying hi ni o! Eku ijo gbaou o!

Idowuogbo:
Nothing now! Just saying hi ni o! Eku ijo gbaou o!

lol...

Research shows that most people who have lotta crushes don't really take the crushes seriously. It's normal or that to happen. It's even normal to have feeling for other people but being in a relationship has to make one not explore the crush or the feeling further.

So people do have a crush while in a relationship but I think it's better not to.