sweetcheecks: People will always tell you that " men are men" while not married yet, they will always want to play the field. This really never sits well with me. The other day my boyfriend gets a call and never says anything that implicates him in anyway that the lady calling could be a girlfriend but when he starts saying, " thanks you are very kind" I am thinking, why would he say that? I am not a very jealous person but when someone lies or takes me forgranted the I really loose interest. I cannot even pretend. What are your views nailanders? Am I just too sensitive?

ijebabe: Is it Chimezie? Then he's definitely cheating
Back to the topic, based on what you wrote I don't see how I can give you a proper answer. It seems you are just being suspicious of ur BF's behaviour and not necessarily a love triangle. Why don't you monitor the situation closely instead of jumping to conclusions?

Chimezie198: huh

which chimezie

ijebabe:
How many you know for NL?

Chimezie198: sweery am aint cheating. Ask all my girlfriendz.

U kwa know me very well. Shebi we've been dating for a while now.

Chimezie198: sweery am aint cheating. Ask all my girlfriendz.

U kwa know me very well. Shebi we've been dating for a while now.

ijebabe: Is it Chimezie? Then he's definitely cheating
Back to the topic, based on what you wrote I don't see how I can give you a proper answer. It seems you are just being suspicious of ur BF's behaviour and not necessarily a love triangle. Why don't you monitor the situation closely instead of jumping to conclusions?

Mynd_44: Where is the triangle here? All I see is a straight line with two points only

slimyem: i don't see any triangulating in what you just described.
You are being unnecessarily suspicious(which isnt good for you or your relationship) and that's all that this is...

ijebabe: Is it Chimezie? Then he's definitely cheating
Back to the topic, based on what you wrote I don't see how I can give you a proper answer. It seems you are just being suspicious of ur BF's behaviour and not necessarily a love triangle. Why don't you monitor the situation closely instead of jumping to conclusions?

sweetcheecks:

Thanks for your advise will definately stop this, its really not me.But my girl friend who happens to be my bf friend is busy telling me things i have no business worrying about. She os making me suspicious. By leadimg me to think she knows secrets about my bf.

ijebabe:
Trying so hard to convince people ur a player when you still live with ur mom and go for bible study class. Mcheeeew! Like I will descend to ur level
There's nothing wrong in admitting the truth

sweetcheecks:

whats your point number 1 and 2?

sweetcheecks: Truth be told I love my naija man, he gives mighty good love and is soo fine! People it is official I am in love!

Chimezie198: ^ Are u asking me?

Chimezie198: ^ Are u asking me?

ijebabe:
Chimezie don't you have bible class?

sweetcheecks: People will always tell you that " men are men" while not married yet, they will always want to play the field. This really never sits well with me. The other day my boyfriend gets a call and never says anything that implicates him in anyway that the lady calling could be a girlfriend but when he starts saying, " thanks you are very kind" I am thinking, why would he say that? I am not a very jealous person but when someone lies or takes me forgranted the I really loose interest. I cannot even pretend. What are your views nailanders? Am I just too sensitive?

sweetcheecks:


Now Nairelanders how do I keep him for me only. He says he does not believe love can be sweeter than this? Or is this a totally new topic?

Chimezie198: Your mata don taya me

ijebabe:
Lol! Now you know what it feels like being on the other side. Does this mean ur silly threads will cease?

MsDarkSkin:

Sis, I share your sentiments. Nothing is more demeaning and deceitful than involuntarily being dragged into a love triangle. However, in a number of these types of relationships the cause of the drama is a woman. Some women can be just as trifling and wack as some men. I don't think you are too sensitive, I think you are a person with a conscience. I don't see how someone can sleep at night - male or female - knowing they are juggling and toying with two people's hearts who sadly believe they are "wifey" or "hubby".

As far as women, I've seen too many on FB updating their statuses and referring to themselves as "wifey" and "his bae (babe)" and not knowing what others know, which is that they are being PLAYED. It's depressing.

Mynd_44:
He told you he loves you right? Has he done anything to make you doubt him? From what I have read, no.
Just leave it like this and don't go looking for something that is not there else you might just create if yourself