There's this girl who's a daughter 2 a nurse that took care of me when i had an accident some years back. She took interest in me while i was coming to their house for treatment and she made it noticable to the fact that everybody that knew us would think i'm her bf. I wasn't comfortable with that but i found out her mum was liking the play; even though she must have noticed i don't like her daughter enough to date her. I'm a kind of guy that looks for excuses to say 'NO' to something i don't really like so each time this girl asks me out, i'd give her blunt excuses but she neva gave up. Problems came up when her best friend whom she's always addressed as her sister started having a crush on me and wanted to date me behind her back since i'v always told her i'm not dating her friend as she's always been curious about it. I dont like the friend either so i gave her another excuse different from the one i'v been giving her friend and she said that was ok since we could still be friends. This nurse daughter started noticing her friends behaviour nd started suspecting us. She'd always catch her friend snicking out of their group to talk with me in private and she has never been happy with that as she'd always walk up to stop whatever we were discussing. Recently, she told me her friend is madly in love with me and she has every reason to believe i'v been seeing her in her abscence. I told her point blank we're jst being friends just like i consider as a friend and seriously, there's nothing between us other than dat but she was furious. She said i don't love her enough or else i wouldn't have place her on the same level with her friend. She's right anyway but the truth is, i'm just looking for a more polite manner to put it so i don't hurt her or disappoint the mum cause i know it takes alot of courage nd guts to admit ur feels for someone. I don't want to date her, neither do i intend dating her friend but both of them are in love with me.... Place advice me maturedly...no insults dude.

I have become so lazy to read few paragraphs lately, God help me...

Stop going to their house, stay away from them &if possible leave d neighbourhood.

Yawns

Too long

agb2011: Stop going to their house, stay away from them &if possible leave d neighbourhood.

Relocate and stop all communication

agb2011: Stop going to their house, stay away from them &if possible leave d neighbourhood.

..thanks, i'll take this one. Some people on this site are just terrible!!!

tellwisdom: Which kain sickness dey attract women around you??

i never said sickness, i was only treated of an injury from an accident by d girl's mum...don't let people think you're a mere abuse 2 what u call yourself..[TELLWISDOM]

You are not in a relationship with the daughter of the nurse and if you told her so,then she should not be trying to know what you are doing with her friend and again you should tell her that it is none of her business. You said also that you don't want a r/ship with her friend. Tell both of them so , and ignore their flirts. I don't understand what is your problem here. Except you are not yet matured enough to do what is on your mind. You are the one allowing all these complications arise. Be matured enough to declare your stand . You are a man.

IZUKWU: You are not in a relationship with the daughter of the nurse and if you told her so,then she should not be trying to know what you are doing with her friend and again you should tell her that it is none of her business. You said also that you don't want a r/ship with her friend. Tell both of them so , and ignore their flirts. I don't understand what is your problem here. Except you are not yet matured enough to do what is on your mind. You are the one allowing all these complications arise. Be matured enough to declare your stand . You are a man.

wow!!, abi say i de ur side u 4 don slap me wella... Anyway thanks, dude.

*sneaks out of the thread*

You are gathering this emotion that will soon eat you up by allowing this women to excuse you in the first place. Stop going to the house, and stop every communication with them. Friendship is not by force.

u be man den keep on digging dem bt dont forget c o n d o m always

Tyche: *sneaks out of the thread*

You did not sneak quietly enough. You were seen