bknight: If u loved d first one, u wld not have a second girlfriend. Assess urself critically, do u really knnow what u want (in a marriage)? If u indeed know what u want, then there won't be any need asking 'how to know to know ur soul mate'.

aleroo: Nicely said killz

sexkillz: First of all, you cannot love any 2 humans equally so forget about the part where you love both girls equally. Secondly, the idea of a soulmate is bullshit! Soulmates simply do not exist! The idea of a readymade perfect woman or man is fetched, and only exists in movies. What we have are people as imperfect as we are, but can be made perfect in our own eyes based on our perception about them, judging from their outward character which emanates from the person they are on the inside.
Some people find it more difficult than others to identify potential marriage mates, not because they don't know what to look out for, but because they allow needless and baseless sentiments to becloud their ability to reason and make logical conclusions and decisions based on facts about the person! The most beautiful lady may turn out the be the worst "wife material", while the lady lacking in the looks department, has all it takes to make and keep a home!
The heart condition of the individual is the key. Look for someone who is selfless and willing to be a helper to you. Look for someone who completes you. You know your strengths and your weaknesses. A lady who wants to be your wife should also know those strengths and weaknesses you have. But the trick question is, what does she do with them? Look for a lady who amplifies your strengths, and helps and encourages you on how to deal with your weaknesses. . .
Remember my nigga that you are not looking for a "woman", you are looking for a "wife". You have to "shine your fuckin eyes" men! Who knows, on further investigation, none of these ladies would make it to "wifedom". To make it easier for you, make a list of all the qualities you want in a wife, and then have one for each lady. Mark them based on how they meet your expectations and not on where they come from and how they look! You are not looking for a beauty queen to make a wife or are you? If a beauty queen comes your way and meets your expectations, then fine and good. But know your priorities. . .
Any man that has started thinking of marriage knows that the course of his ministry is taking a turn. I hope you find what you are looking for!

bigl: Ha? How can u claim to "love 2 girls"? At same time? Oh, or u wanted to say 2girls u've been eatin their potato? Guy, get real, u don't love any of d 2

CosmicJames:

I have these two pretty simple girls that I love. I seemed to love them equally and could easily settle down with any of them.
Now, I have not been married before and didn't know much on this subject of marriage but I've started thinking marriage. So I need some input from my elders in the house. Between the two girls that I think I love equally, how will I know which one to marry?

kpolli:

Buy 2 rings, propose to 2 of them. . . The one that gives u the cheaper bride price, pick that one

sexkillz:

Hope you've gotten over that mad man. . .

aleroo:


I am trying o. Omo e no easy

Of course it's not, but you shall reap if you do not tire out.

CosmicJames: that will be risky. What if two of them say yes, what I'm I going to do? I don't want to marry two wives nither did I want to break anybody's hrt.

sollex: Be true 2 ur heart! Get 2 knw them better on 1 on 1 basis. Discuss key issues with them and u wuld easily knw d 1 u would accept.

Mynd_44: Actually, you don't love any of them. You are just lying to yourself

CosmicJames:
No, I do love both of them alike

Mynd_44:
Is that makes you sleep at night? Keep saying it you just might believe it.

CosmicJames:
I don't get it. How do u mean?

Csami: Go for the second gal cos if u have loved the first like u said u did, then u wouldn't have gone for the second gal.

sexkillz: First of all, you cannot love any 2 humans equally so forget about the part where you love both girls equally. Secondly, the idea of a soulmate is bullshit! Soulmates simply do not exist! The idea of a readymade perfect woman or man is fetched, and only exists in movies. What we have are people as imperfect as we are, but can be made perfect in our own eyes based on our perception about them, judging from their outward character which emanates from the person they are on the inside.
Some people find it more difficult than others to identify potential marriage mates, not because they don't know what to look out for, but because they allow needless and baseless sentiments to becloud their ability to reason and make logical conclusions and decisions based on facts about the person! The most beautiful lady may turn out the be the worst "wife material", while the lady lacking in the looks department, has all it takes to make and keep a home!
The heart condition of the individual is the key. Look for someone who is selfless and willing to be a helper to you. Look for someone who completes you. You know your strengths and your weaknesses. A lady who wants to be your wife should also know those strengths and weaknesses you have. But the trick question is, what does she do with them? Look for a lady who amplifies your strengths, and helps and encourages you on how to deal with your weaknesses. . .
Remember my nigga that you are not looking for a "woman", you are looking for a "wife". You have to "shine your fuckin eyes" men! Who knows, on further investigation, none of these ladies would make it to "wifedom". To make it easier for you, make a list of all the qualities you want in a wife, and then have one for each lady. Mark them based on how they meet your expectations and not on where they come from and how they look! You are not looking for a beauty queen to make a wife or are you? If a beauty queen comes your way and meets your expectations, then fine and good. But know your priorities. . .
Any man that has started thinking of marriage knows that the course of his ministry is taking a turn. I hope you find what you are looking for!

Mynd_44:
You don't have to

190: when you meet her - something in you would tell you

CosmicJames:
Why?

Mynd_44:
Lemme jorh