Hello Folks, i meet a girl dated her for a while and proposed to her recently, only for her to tell that most of the the things she told me about herself was not true but all lies, i find it difficult to believe her again after all the lies even thoungh she had opened up to me, when i asked her why d lies she said she told me all those lies then just to keep me.......
i also notice that i dont love her as much as i use to b4,
i have never in my entire life been so lied to b4.
What do i do

Always good to pray before stepping ahead on such an important aspect on your life. For marriage, and indeed for all aspects of ones endeavours a good foundation is needed. I pray that God will guide you. Above all, invite Christ into your heart so that you may have peace and that your steps would be guided aright. Its important.

You fell in love with a lie. If you want to stay, fine do so but at your own risk. Hell everything you do is at your own risk

Awww, were you hoping to marry Steven Siegal's daughter? Pele. It happens. Forgive, if you may. You tell lies too. It's not like it justifies hers though, but atleast, she's ready to start anew with you on a clean slate. She could as well have kept her secrets to herself, until after marriage with you, you know.

God must really help you both now and in the future. Help you learn how to trust her again. And her, how to tell more truths.

Wao! Da next thing u r going 2 do is 2 watch ur emotion and :-
P-ray
U-ntil
S-omething
H-appen
u got no choice on dis one,yahweh is going 2 make da right decision 4 u my friend.GUDLUCK.

Thanks pals.......

excel26: Hello Folks, i meet a girl dated her for a while and proposed to her recently, only for her to tell that most of the the things she told me about herself was not true but all lies, i find it difficult to believe her again after all the lies even thoungh she had opened up to me, when i asked her why d lies she said she told me all those lies then just to keep me.......
i also notice that i dont love her as much as i use to b4,
i have never in my entire life been so lied to b4.
What do i do

Lucky you
That she confess to you that she is a liar
Did you ask her about the secret she might be keeping
The gate of lie and secretive just opened

excel26: Hello Folks, i meet a girl dated her for a while and proposed to her recently, only for her to tell that most of the the things she told me about herself was not true but all lies, i find it difficult to believe her again after all the lies even thoungh she had opened up to me, when i asked her why d lies she said she told me all those lies then just to keep me.......
i also notice that i dont love her as much as i use to b4,
i have never in my entire life been so lied to b4.
What do i do

It depends on the degree of the lies

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kpolli:

It depends on the degree of the lies

very huge.....

excel26:
very huge.....

Lol@very huge.
Mind droping some for our viewin/readin pleasure?

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Made me believe she is d last born when she is actually d first,
Lied about her parents
Etc

I'm just curious, what was the lie about?

excel26: Made me believe she is d last born when she is actually d first,
Lied about her parents
Etc

Well does the lie change her status??

Does she have children/child? or she was a former skenk??

That lie is not enough to be so pissed of about nah.

You should thank ur star dat she confessed to u

poster

you have to leave her now because you can't trust her. if she was able able to keep up all those lies for this long without slipping up that girl would sell your kidneys and you wont even know. you can tell some lies but not lies about everything. exit stage left

kpolli:

It depends on the degree of the lies

excel26:
very huge.....

Sijo01:

Lol@very huge.
Mind droping some for our viewin/readin pleasure?

you need to tell us the whole story so then,we will be in a better place to offer advice or proffer solution