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| How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by pronysha(f): 4:14pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
A friend of mine today asked me to share my secret to keep a Nigerian man happy. Well just a d-brief am a 27year old lawyer that is about to get married to an Igbo man. Well am a person that always wants to take control all the time, and that is the problem with most woman, before I went out with My soon to be Husband (it feels sooooo good to say that.) I had 2 failed long relationships and I just could not understand what I was doing wrong. My Mother always told me to be submissive and I always told her I was. Until one day when I just got frustrated and sat my mum down to explain to me what submission was in a way that I could understand. As a lawyer am obliged to know the bible by heart and I knew what it said about being submissive. My way of submission (as I thought) was listening to my man and doing part of what he told me to, cooking for him and winning all the fights, driving him crazy in bed and demanding for respect, but boy was I wrong. My mother said to me, “do you have a boss at work”? And I thought she was just trying to make me look stupid coz she knew I was not the owner of the firm I worked for, but I still gave her an ans, “yes mum…I do”. And she was like, “when he gives you an assignment what do you do?" I was like, “I have to do it of course”. And she asked me again to say, “what if it’s something you don’t like but it has to do with your job?" And I was like, “well his my boss so I just have to do it”. And then she asked “well.. what if his wrong and you know his wrong and you just have to let know that and make him see your point of view, so do you do then?" and I said “I will go to his office, sit him down, explain it to him as calm and as respectful as possible for him to hear me out, and see where am coming from”. And she said “so you are so submissive to your boss haa?….the same way you look at your boss and treat him with respect and grace that's how you treat your man". And with my new man, in my mind I had to tell my self that to some extent his my boss, and even though he would make me so mad at times,instead of me runing down on him like hell fire, I always sit him down and speak to him in a calm and respectful manner as I would with my boss at work, I’ll cook regardless of how exhausted iam, I make him happy in bed, I listen and do as he tells me and in return he adores me and no matter what I ask he goes out of his way just to make me happy. So ladies, as much as we want to say we are the bosses of our selves, we can never be, coz God was not a fool to say we will be under a man, you can still take control of your relationship when you show and prove to your man that you are indeed worthy of it. I hope I did not offend some people with this post. 7 Likes |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
The only problem i have with it is the word worship. . . I reserve that for the supreme being, and not a puny human. You should have used "respect" or "love" and not "worship". Apart from that, you have a point, but . . . |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Tstone1(m): 4:26pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
pronysha: A friend of mine today asked me to share my secret to keep a Nigerian man happy. Well just a d-brief am a 27year old lawyer that is about to get married to an Igbo man. Well am a person that always wants to take control all the time, and that is the problem with most woman, before I went out with My soon to be Husband (it feels sooooo good to say that.) I had 2 failed long relationships and I just could not understand what I was doing wrong. My Mother always told me to be submissive and I always told her I was.Well, nice write up Lady Lawyer.thank God for such a great mum for such a brilliant advice. But I must ask you a question...as a christian, must you satisfy him in BED now?" Marriage is honourable in all but the bed undefiled" Heb 13:4. Thanks. 3 Likes |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by slimyem: 4:34pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
you can do all of the above and the man still wouldn't worship,adore or respect you if he wouldnt! |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
@ poster u are right.when i sudied y a lota women av problems/ challenges in theor relationships,i realised its because dey r not ready to b submissive.speaking as a feminist by career (not lifestyle) its very difficult and challenging to b submissive,then again i noticed uneducated women dnt find it difficult to b submissive because dey know little and dey've been made to know dat dia husbands are their demi gods,really,am learning from u and God will give me d grace to b a submissive woman,ill stoop to conquer 1 Like |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by TheShopKeeper(m): 4:45pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
Nice and straight to the point. Most ladies want to eat their cake and still have it. They should understand the divine concept of 'subjection' and 'equality', this will ultimately help our young ladies to navigate and enjoy their marriage effortlessly. It is not rocket science!!! |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
Nice post. But believe me, YOU GO SOON TIRE! The best is just be yourself... Treat him like your bestfriend and not your boss! That the fun of having your man. After all the wahala at work, and plenty assignment with your boss, i face another boss at home? Me, when i have a rough time at work and more exhausted than him, he takes over. He is just my best friend..if he makes me angry...we know how to settle it instead of all these formal bulcrap! Anyway, thats my opinion. 3 Likes |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by pronysha(f): 4:50pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
T.stone:Well as much as I would not want to add the "in bed word". I would be fooling my self, i know sex is 4 marraige but to be realistic most of US do it, even though the bible says not to. I always want to be realistic and say what i do and not say what i don't do to make my self look holy. How ever i respect those that stay away frm sex b4 marig. 1 Like |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Tstone1(m): 5:21pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
pronysha: Well as much as I would not want to add the "in bed word". I would be fooling my self, i know sex is 4 marraige but to be realistic most of US do it, even though the bible says not to. I always want to be realistic and say what i do and not say what i don't do to make my self look holy. How ever i respect those that stay away frm sex b4 marig.I so much admire your boldness. You simply say no to pretense! Well, you have a very good point...like someone said, please in all try to be yourself. 1 Like |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Ybutterfly: 5:49pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
^^^^^^vOOdu^^^^^^^^^   |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by luckgames(m): 8:27pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
slimyem: you can do all of the above and the man still wouldn't worship,adore or respect you if he wouldnt!Bad belly Lot of men will appreciate you |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by luckgames(m): 8:31pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
Vikin: Nice post. Why do you think she will be tired All our experience in life is different We men are hard head. If you treat me like she said You easily take every thing from me If you want to force things on me and talk to me like you are my boss Bring it on |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Mynd44: 8:53pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
Welcome back to the dark ages. Actually it is not your behaviour that made him so good, it is because he is a good person. Some men will just take advantage of you and there is noting you can do about it 3 Likes |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
slimyem: you can do all of the above and the man still wouldn't worship,adore or respect you if he wouldnt!Are you saing she shouldn't cos he could disrespect her anyway? |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Tyche(m): 8:59pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
slimyem: you can do all of the above and the man still wouldn't worship,adore or respect you if he wouldnt! Simply put sista, there are no hard and fast rules. |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Mynd44: 9:03pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
Tyche: |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
Vikin: Nice post.You seem to misunderstand the essence of the OP's post. It's not about being formal, it's about understanding and respecting each other's different roles and places. If you require that your husband regard and treat yyou as a woman should, then be ready to relate with him as a man. Simples. BTW: I realised how much trouble our generation is in recently when I had an encounter with a female friend. I said in jest that I would marry her and she began to misyarn-just generally being rude and stuff and I raised eyebrows and firmly(not gruffly or angrily) told her I didn't like her language.And her next comment was ''you and I can't live together o, because this is how I talk to my bf. I don't even know what's wrong with men sef, they like respect too much'' and I was like 'ok'. Women have become rude and incorrigible of late, I don't want to compete with me mahn. If can't compliment and improve me b, bounce already. As a fellow competitor we'd better off as colleagues not a couple. 1 Like |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by pendo89(f): 9:11pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
mmh ok thats fine.I only wish that you were writing it as an already married woman. |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by childluck(m): 9:15pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
Long live the good elders, the good mums!!! Every woman must understand that top of the list of what a man demands from a woman is RESPECT!!! Thanks poster for sharing this. May God bless you marriage as you obey the voice of wisdom. 1 Like |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by pronysha(f): 9:54pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
pendo89: mmh ok thats fine.I only wish that you were writing it as an already married woman.Listen Miss Lady, when i wrote this post, i wrote it coz I got the one thing I did not understand or did right, so don't get me wrong. If you want I will write the same post after am married. You know, 1 thing i have learnt over time is to not just run my mouth any how coz it makes you look sooo stupid and uncivilised. Normaly it makes you look foolish. Just by reading what you have said, i can read what typ of a woman you are, Negative, you have no confidence what so every. I believe in me and i always have what we call "future history" coz i make my plans with my lord, i can see you knw nothing of it. Sweetie learn to be positive, think before you talk. 1 thing, don't take my words for weekness. If you think i should have written this after i got married, that's your way not mine. B4 the judge rules my case i wil tell you if it wil be in my favour or not, it's called confidence. When you do right you get back what's right. So I knw i did and do whats right so i'l get right, the fact stil stands that A MAN WILL 4 EVA BE HIGHER THAN ME, WETHA I LIKE IT OR NOT, so the earlier i accept it and show it the better for me. And with the other post of a lady saying i will be tired, honey you never get tired of doing the right thing. And phycology states that when you do the same thing for 14days it automatically becomes a part of you, that also aplyz in criminal law, that's why when you kill & keep it 2 yo self for mo than 2 weeks, it means you can kill again. 1 Like |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by pronysha(f): 9:57pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
childluck: Long live the good elders, the good mums!!! Every woman must understand that top of the list of what a man demands from a woman is RESPECT!!! Thanks poster for sharing this. May God bless you marriage as you obey the voice of wisdom.Thankx love! |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by luckgames(m): 10:03pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
@pronysha: The issue here is some of this girl are just like there mother So apple doesn't fall far from the tree You have a great mother give her my love 1 Like |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by drnoel: 10:12pm On Jun 18, 2012 |
sexkillz: its obvious no one can ever impress killz |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by prettyjulie(f): 2:46am On Jun 19, 2012 |
Am really sorry to say dis poster but d truth is dat he who wouldn't appreciate u would not even if u leak his feet every morning because most gurls have done more than dis and the only tin they get is severe beating,cheating,and serious heartbreak.it takes a man dat rily loves u and knows how to treat a woman to worship/respect her as such.The best tin is to be urself always,dat way u wud be more comfortable than tryna b someone else just to make another person happy 2 Likes |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by tellwisdom: 2:55am On Jun 19, 2012 |
pronysha: A friend of mine today asked me to share my secret to keep a Nigerian man happy. Well just a d-brief am a 27year old lawyer that is about to get married to an Igbo man. Well am a person that always wants to take control all the time, and that is the problem with most woman, before I went out with My soon to be Husband (it feels sooooo good to say that.) I had 2 failed long relationships and I just could not understand what I was doing wrong. My Mother always told me to be submissive and I always told her I was. Na LAWYER write this tin??  |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Scash(f): 3:49am On Jun 19, 2012 |
drnoel:And why should u even try to impress him or anyone... Respect is good... Yeah, it feeds the ego of some men. But then not all of them understands that it shld be reciprocated even though u're trying to make them see in a sublime way. But I have a big problem when it comes to the boss thingy... Why would I want to think of my husband as my boss? Why can't he be my partner (I'm not saying we're equal), but then your husband should be your best friend. I can't tell my boss everything, I'll fear him and try not to get on his wrong side always. I don't wanna fear my husband, dakun. And I'm sure the husband won't want that either. But if its just to respect him... That's easy 1 Like |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by pronysha(f): 7:31am On Jun 19, 2012 |
Scash: And why should u even try to impress him or anyone...Please read and understand, don't just take the smoke frm the fire, my man is my best friend and i can only wanna get married 2 my best friend. Am talking abt being submisiv here, in my post i talk abt when i thot i knw wat that word ment bt i got it all wrong. My mum neva told me fear yo man like yo boss, she said respect him and treat him with grace lyk u do with yo boss. I respect my boss coz his higher than me & his the head of the company. Please read & understand b4 u reply. |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by RealBitch(f): 7:48am On Jun 19, 2012 |
tellwisdom:my thoughts exactly. Scash makes more sense. |
| Re: How To Make A Man Worship The Grounds You Walk On. by Scash(f): 8:12am On Jun 19, 2012 |
pronysha: Please read and understand, don't just take the smoke frm the fire, my man is my best friend and i can only wanna get married 2 my best friend. Am talking abt being submisiv here, in my post i talk abt when i thot i knw wat that word ment bt i got it all wrong. My mum neva told me fear yo man like yo boss, she said respect him and treat him with grace lyk u do with yo boss. I respect my boss coz his higher than me & his the head of the company. Please read & understand b4 u reply. Yessma... u can like to wash the floor with detol so when is bowing at your feet all the time he won't have infections. |
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