Dear Nairalanders,
I am a 23 year old female. My parents died when i was 8 then I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees. I then met this guy when i was 14 and he sent me back to school. He was selling fruit then but still he was Able to pay my fees.
He then got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university. my problem is that i feel i can't continue with this
relationship because he is not my type, he isn't fluent in English, he his a very short man Plus some other Personal stuffs.

I feel I have Paid him back for his Good Deeds cos I give him intimacy anytime and anywhere he wants. But now he can't meet up to my demands.

How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings??
I am grateful that he sent me to school but i can't be in a relationship with him anymore.
I want somebody in my own class not a truck driver.
Please can someone advice me on what to do! Am confused.

YOUR STORY NO SELL ABEG.

The poster is testing this dumb story for his/her magazine ( treasure sity magazine).

Foolish attention seeker.

Go and hang yourself before you dump him


Is this where you are now making money from that you think he isn't good enough. Or isn't he the one that help you set this up?

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In your class? Yet without him you would have not even finished high school. And no, sex isnt pay back that just makes you a prost.it.ut/e. Hes not your type but you were happy getting money from him. Ugh Icant stand girls like you you make girls look bad. Learn to work for what you want out of life and not use others.

You are no longer his type now that you‘ve been ‘polished‘? Just refund all the tuition money, sex alone isn‘t enough for a reward. ;DYou are no longer his type now that you‘ve been ‘polished‘? Just refund all the tuition money, sex alone isn‘t enough for a reward.

​U̶̲̥̅̊'r shameless if he didn't snd u to skul u shld probably be selling groundnut now u are his and notin more lol uif am him I will mess ​U̶̲̥̅̊'r life up

fulfillment2020: Dear Nairalanders,
I am a 23year old female. My parents died when i was 8 then I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees. I then met this guy when i was 14 and he sent me back to school. He was selling fruit then but still he was Able to pay my fees.
He then got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university. my problem is that i feel i can't continue with this
relationship because he is not my type, he isn't fluent in English, he his a very short man Plus some other Personal stuffs.

I feel I have Paid him back for his Good Deeds cos I give him sex anytime and anywhere he wants. But now he can't meet up to my demands.

How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings??
I am grateful that he sent me to school but i can't be in a relationship with him anymore.
I want somebody in my own class not a truck driver.
Please can someone advice me on what to do! Am confused.

Yeah....dump his dumb arse.

Touchè....are u done with ur movie script? Nah, don't think it will sell cos i've seen alot of home videos like this and it never ended well for the ladies.

@ Mrs Chima,Yeah his arse is really dumb, not for helping someone through school but for not being able to detect all this while that he was dealing with the DEVIL,then again i don't blame him so much because some people are good at pretending,who knows how good OP was at deceiving him.


@OP,You are one ungrateful biatch and people like you end up paying for their wickedness one way or the other,no matter how long it takes.

You are a full time prostitu*te for saying you've repaid him with 5ex,since you could pay your way through school with 5ex,why didn't you just go work at Allen avenue and let the man be?just how callous are you? you think it will be well with you? Why didn't you realize he is so not your type before taking all his hard earned money? Ah you go suffer am.

P.S i don't care whether your story is real or not but it just annoyed me, don't even quote me to say rubbish because i promise you,there's plenty more where the above came from,useless demonic gold digger..

If ur story is true then bliv me babes u re sowing a seed that other girls will suffer for in future. The law of karma will also not let u go scot free

That being said, I guess u shud do what u hav to do. There's no point staying wit d guy if ur mind is no longer in it. Let him go for d next girl who will love him for him

Lmao

Well, i think am better off sayin nothin cos if i do, believe u me, God wil get VERY angry with me. So, in that case, i comment my reserve.

mehn this poster is ungratefull. its because of situations like this that i avoid dating undergraduates

lol, i don't even feel sorry for dudes like this anymore. When u over value women they use you. one niggas learning the hard way

There is no point in tellin u how bad u are and how i wish i cud slap u both left,right and center. D guy semt u 2 school he never went n u come out here openin ur mouth. Advice me, l'm confuse ko. Conduce ni !
Nevertheless,wat is d guys plan 4 ur life. Do u jst meet each oda 4 sex witout any emotional attachment,are u planin getin married now dat u are tru wit ur schools(atleast he must have said smtin abt dat 1ce or 2ice). Seat ursevs down n know dis. U may nvr can tell if d guy is enjoyin d punny witot feelin anytin 4 u 2.

^^^^^^^gOOOd LuuCCk^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Nollywood script

Girls like this ended up datin their favourite men ---------> Ritualist!

Ara gba ndi ara!

May amadioha seal ur puntash. See dis mental case o! So bcus aristo don dey price ur market now, so u sef think ur level don upgrade? Imagine! An illiterate made d effort to groom u d little witch, and all u do in return is leave him? Happiness won't locate u o! Karma is a biatch! Go and see if u won't jam guy were use blow destroy toto.Fooooooolish gal!

@ OP, its nw u realise dat u r not in the same class with him bah? D last time i had somtin of dis nature, the gal is languishin in hell rite now. ' U gav him sex anytime he wanted it' Did u not enjoy d sex too? Gosh, will u feel good with ur self afta u do wat u r about to do? Do u fink that God will eva 4giv U? I jst pity d man dat will end up marryin u bc u wud only bag problems into his innocent house.

How polished would your English have been, if he did not do what he did out of love? He is no longer your type? Are you forgetting he made you what you are? Now you refer to him as a truck driver? But you could collect the fruit sellers and truck drivers money for personal and educational upliftment? You talk about sex pay-back as your only entitlement, did he tell you he did all he did for sex? Where were all the tall guys to come to your rescue @ your lowest ebb?
When evil befalls you in the future, those that don't know the source will be cursing your enemies. Not realising that the number 1 enemy is/was you!!!!

Dump the mugu jorh. He was dumb enough to fall maga so he does not deserve to be in a relationship.
That said, girl you have to think garden about this. Granted you might not feel anything for him and I don't subscribe to staying in a relationship because of gratitude so leave him if you feel that way but realise that he might not let you go without a fight

are you testing your script for your project work?

If you are...then that your theatre lecturer will have problem with you
Everything is wrong with the script, from your dates to your
rapport...rewrite for the characters...polish it up a little

But if you are telling the truth...

May T.B Joshua see you in his vision...

^^
are you advising her to stay with a guy she does not feel anything for again? Relationships based on gratitude is nonsense

freecocoa:

P.S i don't care whether your story is real or not but it just annoyed me, don't even quote me to say rubbish because i promise you,there's plenty more where the above came from,useless demonic gold digger..

Karma, where the hell r u?

Mynd_44: Dump the mugu jorh. He was dumb enough to fall maga so he does not deserve to be in a relationship.
That said, girl you have to think garden about this. Granted you might not feel anything for him and I don't subscribe to staying in a relationship because of gratitude so leave him if you feel that way but realise that he might not let you go without a fight

U must b high? U no hia d reasons y d babe wan run ni?

1.She is leaving cus she can't b wiv a truck driver

2. She is leaving cus d dudes English ain't Harvard

3. She is leaving cus d dudes pocket-money no carry weight again.

So after 6 solid years, she now realises she can't cope wiv the following abi? Infact may d gods of iron block her g-spottt

10 finger waka u o poster!

Yes Badosky dey Shege u wiv keyboard

Fawcking anuzz!! I dey vex o! Hold me....

This girl you are wicked. But If you wany to break up with him, pay him back the money he spent on your schooling.

the guy allowed himself to be used.
What did he think all these years?
.
That she as a graduate would end up marrying him a truck-driver?
Why didn't he develop himself alongsides her...
The worse thing one can do to himself or herself is rendering help or doing anyone a favour and expecting an equal or almost equal reward for it.
Do good if you feel the need to without expecting anything in return and do not...if you don't have to!
Mtcheew...
Next story abeg!

slimyem: the guy allowed himself to be used.
What did he think all these years?
.
That she as a graduate would end up marrying him a truck-driver?
Why didn't he develop himself alongsides her...
The worse thing one can do to himself or herself is rendering help or doing anyone a favour and expecting an equal or almost equal reward for it.
Do good if you feel the need to without expecting anything in return and do not...if you don't have to!
Mtcheew...
Next story abeg!

U have a point Yemz! But! Igbehin omo na Ma.......

U sure no worra I mean.

[b]Anyway i dont blame u...its not ur fault,some guys do silly tins all for the sake of LUV...
i blame guys 4 sponsoring girls 2 school xpecialy wen dey re not married 2 dat person...
wateva u sow dat u`ll reap

U knw, i was busy gettin angry...until i saw all the replies. Lol...

@idowu, i've known u to be a lil crazy and VERY annoyin and irritating and aproko-central... but u knw what? TODAY i hereby domole at the altar of your FURY! Babe, u rock!!!

There's nothing wrong with driving a truck. .na job too!
D world needs its cleaners,Bus conductors,mechanics,Doctors,postmen,truck drivers e.t.c. . . . .na wa 4 naija mentality!